Anyway my gf and i are really different in personality wise and well, as citizenthom said a robot..its not that i want a robot, just she being more lady like
Me : laid-back, easy-going, ready to talk things out calmly(discussion works best for me), Only kid in the family, hates shouting(mum is semi-deaf and dad is a calm cool guy)
Her: always in a rush, meticulous(she doesn't like changes to her lifestyle), always sulking, Has two younger sisters, everyone is loud in her family.
To all: what should i change for her or whats the problem here..shes not the best but shes fiercely loyal, loving towards kids, someone i would love to be the mom of my kids
True but i hate it when shes loud
Again.......I just don't see any reason to force things.......this just sounds like a recipe for divorce....even before the marriage has happened. Marriage is difficult enough.....you don't need to borrow trouble.I admit, the thing is holding me partly her temper and the lack of things we do together (we are always bored when we go out, at loss on that to do..but thats another topic)
Maybe its just that i am more laid back and shes the big sister of the family whereas i am the only child.
Example: She gets frustrated when her younger sister(working as a teacher) leaves her unfinished work on the table and takes a nap. She has to wake her sister up so she would not sleep throughout the night.
I told my gf that let her younger sister be, let her sister learn that she has to learn how to set a alarm clock or learn that its no good to take a nap before finishing her work..Usually thats how we start arguing, she says that i don't understand but i feel shes too protective of her sisters, they have to learn a few hard lessons
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