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What is about your people thar they need this compassion? What’s wrong in their lives?
The way you frame this question is very judgy. What is wrong with a person who doesn't understand compassion?

So we are left with no answer except everyone needs compassion because everyone needs compassion.
You don't understand that happier people - ie people who experience compassion - means a happier society?
 
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I’m summing up what you said.






And I asked why they need compassion?

So we are left with no answer except everyone needs compassion because everyone needs compassion.
I’m sorry. Are asking me to define compassion for you? Or explain to you why it is better to receive compassion than not?
 
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The way you frame this question is very judgy. What is wrong with a person who doesn't understand compassion?
This is really confusing me.I’m guessing this is leading up to some red herring: something along the lines of ‘well REAL compassion means trusting g them to manage without compassion’ or ‘too much compassion makes you weak’.

It’s either that of a legitimate inability to know what compassion is.
 
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The way you frame this question is very judgy. What is wrong with a person who doesn't understand compassion?
It was pointed out that compassion is needed by these people. I was wondering why. I don’t see how 7 weeks of vacation is compassionate.
You don't understand that happier people - ie people who experience compassion - means a happier society?
I think people that don’t need compassion are happier.
 
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I’m sorry. Are asking me to define compassion for you? Or explain to you why it is better to receive compassion than not?
I’m asking ti answer the question I asked earlier.
 
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It was pointed out that compassion is needed by these people. I was wondering why. I don’t see how 7 weeks of vacation is compassionate.
It was pointed out that people in general need compassion and are happier when they receive it - they are happier when they give it as well.

I think people that don’t need compassion are happier.
Who does not need compassion?
 
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It was pointed out that people in general need compassion and are happier when they receive it - they are happier when they give it as well.
Well, my question still stands. What’s going on in their lives that they need compassion of seven weeks of vacation?
Who does not need compassion?
I’m good right now.
 
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Well, my question still stands. What’s going on in their lives that they need compassion of seven weeks of vacation?

I’m good right now.
If compassion isn’t a valued quality in our system of governance, what “good” is it?
 
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Did I say it isn’t valued?
You’ve heavily implied that there is “something wrong” with a government mandating private companies paying six weeks vacation to their employees, because the workers would like this compassion.

Or did I get that totally wrong, and if I did, explain to me what point your were attempting to make, thanks.
 
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You’ve heavily implied that there is “something wrong” with a government mandating private companies paying six weeks vacation to their employees, because the workers would like this compassion.

Or did I get that totally wrong, and if I did, explain to me what point your were attempting to make, thanks.
Maybe it is right. I doubt it because government shouldn’t tell businesses how much money they should pay employees for not working. But I’ve yet to hear what’s so wrong with these peoples lives collectively that they need compassion.
 
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That is the weirdest take I’ve read in this site yet.
Why? Here’s the definition

  1. a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering.
Please explain how my take is weird.
 
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Why? Here’s the definition

  1. a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering.
Please explain how my take is weird.
Then I should not have said compassionate. I should have said worker centred: happy now? This is like arguing over the definition of assault rifles or what exactly is a mass killing.
 
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Then I should not have said compassionate. I should have said worker centred: happy now? This is like arguing over the definition of assault rifles or what exactly is a mass killing.
I’m not sure why you’d be upset with me over a word you chose.
 
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Workers of all walks of life complain about not being paid enough: christians and satanists united, muslims, atheists, jews. The lot.
I guess if everyone is doing it….
 
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