why?

[babygurl2006]

why is it so hard to separate from someone? he wants time but to live in the same house, im not sure i can do it. its hard to talk to them and not cry why is that? why cant i make it go away? im trying so hard to just be whatever about it,on the inside im beaten down and dont really want to wake up tomorrow just to have it all smack me in my face with reality. good lord show me the way

 

[WayneW]

I can understand how hard this must be for you. You are grieving. The death of a relationship can almost be as hard as the death of a spouse. Just be gentle with yourself and take things a day/hour/minute at a time. I found that prayer really helped me after my darling Bonnie passed away.

I'll be praying for you.

God Bless,

Wayne

 

[babygurl2006]

I can understand how hard this must be for you. You are grieving. The death of a relationship can almost be as hard as the death of a spouse. Just be gentle with yourself and take things a day/hour/minute at a time. I found that prayer really helped me after my darling Bonnie passed away.

I'll be praying for you.

God Bless,

Wayne

thank you so much, today really looked a little brighter, we talked about somethings and came to an understanding so, thats a little more to smile about it guess, thanks again for showing u care

 

[lindyr]

I wish I knew why it is so hard to say goodbye. I am watching and caring for my husband of 23 years die of heart failure and severe Dementia. His nervus system breaking down puts him in such pain. I want his pain to end, but I don't want him to leave me by his death It hurts so bad. I know your pain. My only comfort are the people around me who are praying for us and being such a wonderful help in caring for my Bill. Knowing your not alone n your grief is also a small comfort. My head knows that God's grace with me. But my achng heart hasn't caught up.

 

[WayneW]

I wish I knew why it is so hard to say goodbye. I am watching and caring for my husband of 23 years die of heart failure and severe Dementia. His nervus system breaking down puts him in such pain. I want his pain to end, but I don't want him to leave me by his death It hurts so bad. I know your pain. My only comfort are the people around me who are praying for us and being such a wonderful help in caring for my Bill. Knowing your not alone n your grief is also a small comfort. My head knows that God's grace with me. But my achng heart hasn't caught up.

Lindy, I understand what you're going through. I lost my Bonnie to ALS (Lou Gehrig's Disease) last December. Even though I'm an RN (now retired), I had a difficult time watching my soulmate gradually lose all use of her body, and she was in a great amount of pain as well. When she passed, it was quite sudden and unexpected; I thought we had at least a few more years together.

As much as I miss her and wish I could still be with her, I would never want her to have to come back in the condition she was in when she left. I believe the Lord was merciful towards her and allowed her to come Home when she did. It didn't make the pain of losing her any less, but when I think about how she was when she passed, basically a prisoner in her own body, and how she is now in the presence of our Lord, I can only be happy for her despite the fact that my heart remains broken.

I thank the Lord for carrying me through these past 8 1/2 months; I don't think I could have survived if I hadn’t had the Lord in my life and the privilege of going to Him in prayer.

I’ll be keeping you in my prayers.

God Bless,

Wayne

 

[Ruth~]

I'm sorry you are going through such a hard time of it. I am praying for you.

 

[babygurl2006]

I wish I knew why it is so hard to say goodbye. I am watching and caring for my husband of 23 years die of heart failure and severe Dementia. His nervus system breaking down puts him in such pain. I want his pain to end, but I don't want him to leave me by his death It hurts so bad. I know your pain. My only comfort are the people around me who are praying for us and being such a wonderful help in caring for my Bill. Knowing your not alone n your grief is also a small comfort. My head knows that God's grace with me. But my achng heart hasn't caught up.

you and yours are in my prayers also, look to him he knows what u need and his eye is on the sparrow,find comfort and trust in him and all will be answered one glorious day-even for me, he works for the greater good, no matter the pain strif or struggle, look to him