Why wouldn't someone want me?

[stormgade4]

When I consider myself:
- I'm broke
- I'm broke
- Oh yeah, I'm broke

 

[HoosierCanuck]

I can't cook (at least not really good) or sew.

I work too much.

I've probably become a little set in my ways after living alone for the last 13 years.

I let my cats have the final say in the household....

I drink waaaaaaaaaaaaay too much caffeine sometimes.

I get a little obsessive about hockey. (is that really a bad thing? lol)

I'm sure I could think of more....lol

 

[TriptychR]

1)I have a crush on a girl, but I doubt it would work considering I'm 5'3 and she's 6 feet. @_@

Dude, I've seen plenty of great relationships that have height discrepencies like that. Don't let that stop you.

 

[Beauty4Ashes]

Ok, just so everyone knows I'm not actually perfect.

Here are some things I consider

I often talk fast

I talk about chocolate a lot

I'm not a big flirt

I'm not super touchy feely with guys, I hug only my closest guy friends and play wrestle(at most) with maybe a couple super close guy friends. (if I'm dating someone, that's a different story, maybe that's partially why i'm not dating someone!)

I want to start my own business but haven't yet because I don't have the finances to yet.

I can be really quiet and I can also talk too much.

I'm not the best communicator

I'm a bit sarcastic

I don't drive currently and don't own a car

I'm not rich

I can be indecisive

 

[Mark2010]

I can't cook (at least not really good) or sew.

I work too much.

I've probably become a little set in my ways after living alone for the last 13 years.

I let my cats have the final say in the household....

I drink waaaaaaaaaaaaay too much caffeine sometimes.

I get a little obsessive about hockey. (is that really a bad thing? lol)

I'm sure I could think of more....lol

No doubt you are quite the charm.

 

[lunalinda]

Eh, perhaps my stubborness and hesitance in trying new things, even relationships with new guys. Or maybe it's because I don't fall for the lines spewed by guys who are out for sex and who are a wee bit baffled by my uncooperative behavior? I really don't know. The guys I were involved with all declared at one point or another my supposed "greatness" and their desire to marry me. But yet, nothing materializes. They "chicken out" and put their minds on something else. Perhaps I'm just too "good" a catch and they don't see themselves as being ready enough to handle me?

 

[Blank123]

I have a crush on a girl, but I doubt it would work considering I'm 5'3 and she's 6 feet. @_@

No, it's not because she looks like a model, she's more a dork than me...I think that's why I like her.

pfft! who says tall girls can't like guys who are shorter than them?

 

[HoosierCanuck]

No doubt you are quite the charm.

aaaaaaw, Thanks! You flirt! lol

 

[Alenci]

Oh great, a self-bashing thread... or that's how I view it anyway. It's helpful and just introspection when we consider our faults in private, but... on a forum? Oh Lord help us.

I supposedly don't have enough confidence (even though I've come so far over the years I can scarcely believe it.)
I think I am too negative at times (although I think that with the Lord's help I've almost conquered this attitude- I'm not anything like the sort of person I used to be).
I'm a little nerdy, I guess.
I'm too complex. Seriously, I mean it.
Oh right, and it doesn't help that I tend to be mean to guys when I think they like me. I guess it's just sort of an emotional filter, since there aren't very many guys in the world who are worth my precious time.

 

[VozNocturna]

Dude, I've seen plenty of great relationships that have height discrepencies like that. Don't let that stop you.

A good friend of mine is 6'1"; her husband is 5'5" on a good day! You'd be surprised how the Holy Spirit can change someone's heart.

 

[HoosierCanuck]

Other not-so-quality-qualities of HC:

I'm short

Although I try to stay active, I'm chubby

I don't have a lot of money at my disposal

I'm not the most patient person in the world

I sometimes 'think too much' (if that makes any sense)

I get down on myself for stupid stuff that usually turns out to be out of my control anyway.....*sigh*

 

[TriptychR]

Oh right, and it doesn't help that I tend to be mean to guys when I think they like me. I guess it's just sort of an emotional filter, since there aren't very many guys in the world who are worth my precious time.

Mean? How so?

 

[intricatic]

I have a psychotic cat.

 

[Tink]

I have a psychotic cat.

I can see how that can be a major problem!

 

[Sketcher]

I get a little obsessive about hockey. (is that really a bad thing? lol)

Actually, that's a very good thing.

 

[Blank123]

I have a psychotic cat.

but even psychotic cats can be cute

 

[lunalinda]

but even psychotic cats can be cute

Indeed. My cat Raven's as evil as they come, snotty with her little attitude (I call her "Miss Thang"), only giving attention when she wants something, and seemingly finding the human touch quite distasteful when she's already too comfortable to want our petty affections. But alas, we love her anyway.

 

[HoosierCanuck]

I have a psychotic cat.

me too! Her name is Abbey. rrrrrrrrrrrrrreow!!!!!!! hiss hiss rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreow!!!!!

 

[HoosierCanuck]

Actually, that's a very good thing.

That's music to my eyes!!! hehe

 

[HoosierCanuck]

only giving attention when she wants something, and seemingly finding the human touch quite distasteful when she's already too comfortable to want our petty affections.

Your cat and my ex have a similar personality?! lol

(I'm sorry...I really shouldn't say that about a cat. That's a form of animal cruelty. ) I'll be Miss Thang is a beautiful creature. (unlike my ex! )