bhsmte
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I have not seen one response to the question of why people are obsessed with everybody having only pure, correct/accurate cognitions at all times.
My observation is that if Person A at X point in time has the belief that the Earth's moon is made of marshmallow cream the attitude and response of almost everybody is that Person A is somehow flawed and that he/she must be corrected by somebody who knows that the Earth's moon is not made of marshmallow cream.
At any given time probably everybody has incorrect cognitions. For various reasons--such as nobody being conscious of or aware of the incorrect cognitions, the person being in isolation, etc.--no correcting is done. Yet, neither life, society, civilization or the world comes to an end. I would even say that life, society, civilization and the world do not miss a beat.
Also, it seems that we assume that if a person has an incorrect/inaccurate cognition that he/she is being deceived (by him/herself or others) or has been misinformed. Hence, we proceed to correct things with different information. The fact that we do not really know why the person has that cognition--it could be due to countless other things such as the structure of his/her brain--does not ever seem to be taken into account. Apparently the business of correcting everybody who has an incorrect/inaccurate cognition absolutely must be done and there is no room for investigating the source of the problem.
Several responses in this thread have been people asserting that they have a better grasp of the realities of reality. Well, they do not seem to be acquainted with the reality that having incorrect/inaccurate cognitions is part of being human (see the third paragraph above). If having incorrect/inaccurate cognitions is harmful then being human is harmful.
Marshmallow cream sounds tastier than rocks anyway, so I would not be in any hurry to correct anybody.
You are really delving into individual psychology and that is a very complex issue, because that varies like a finger print and is very deep.
IMO, we are all hardwired to lean either towards; analytical thinking or intuitive thinking. No one is 100% analytical or intuitive, but there is a dominant player in all of us. Analytical thinkers typically crave finding the truth and also have a desire to verify that truth. Intuitive thinkers are typically satisfied with a lessor degree of objective investigation of the truth and for that reason, are much more likely to believe in things that can not be proven.
There are normative ranges in psychology. We all tend to utilize denial as a defense mechanism to a certain degree, but it leaves the normative range, when someone refuses to accept objective evidence and continues to believe in something that is not only highly unlikely, but near impossible. People who do this, have a psychological need they are trying to fulfill, that is not considered a healthy one.
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