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Why is Politics so Hateful?

iarwain

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I wonder what it is about politics that makes people so hateful? I've many times considered dropping my interest in politics because of people's toxic attitude about it. Most particularly I am tired of going to forums and seeing people routinely toss around insults and name calling as if it was acceptable behavior. I don't care what you think about candidate x or y, if you can't engage with someone with respect, you shouldn't be talking with them.
 

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My (not so) humble opinion:

People have made it their identity. When you question their political leaders/party/proclivities you are questioning the very core of who and what they believe they are.
 
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Usually the most defensive people are the one's that really don't understand many issues or the way politics works. Authoritarian types too always think they have it right with an attitude of my way or the highway. You find these people all over. Many bosses are like that. All of us just need to try harder and not let the media and certain individuals goad us into extreme language and hate.
 
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I will add too that I once knew the Chair of Political Science of a major state university. He said that the older he got with politics the more cynical about politics he became. Some decades later I can say the same thing.

The bible too says that many people will have their love grow cold. So we have to be aware that our fight is not flesh and blood. An hour of prayer likely does more good than a bunch of voting. We also have to guard our hearts. We can do this to a point by limiting much of the negative input and constant news cycles.

Isaiah 33:14-16 (NASB)
14 Sinners in Zion are terrified; Trembling has seized the godless. "Who among us can live with the consuming fire? Who among us can live with continual burning?"
15 He who walks righteously and speaks with sincerity, He who rejects unjust gain And shakes his hands so that they hold no bribe; He who stops his ears from hearing about bloodshed And shuts his eyes from looking upon evil;
16 He will dwell on the heights,
His refuge will be the impregnable rock; His bread will be given him, His water will be sure.
 
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I wonder what it is about politics that makes people so hateful?
Mostly the lies told by politicians.

John McCain was asked a question about Obama,by a woman, at a town meeting. She claimed that he was a Muslim because that is how most Republicans were identifying him.

Being a good man, McCain stopped her and told her that she was wrong. He said Obama was a good man and a Christian.

That is what is missing in politics today. Honesty.
 
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Politicians are essentially scapegoats. So when things don't work out, they get tomatoes thrown at them as a form of catharsis.
 
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People become too emotionally involved over something they have no control over or any direct involvement in.

Also some people treat a debate as though they were engaged a personal spat, hence the insults and name calling.

And some let themselves become too wrapped up in sources that produce a lot of sensationalism, hype and hyperbole.
 
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I will add too that I once knew the Chair of Political Science of a major state university. He said that the older he got with politics the more cynical about politics he became. Some decades later I can say the same thing.
For me it's seeing what a flash in the pan most political issues are. The issues and the politicians come and go and are ostensibly quickly forgotten. If I were to revive an old thread full of volatile political arguing at the time, people would ask me why I was reviving a dead issue that's become water under the bridge. It was a big deal hot button issue at the time, but is now practically forgotten.
 
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Being a good man, McCain stopped her and told her that she was wrong. He said Obama was a good man and a Christian.
That is what is missing in politics today. Honesty.
Honesty? What kind of politician is that? No wonder McCain didn't win the presidency.
Kidding, kidding. I think.

People become too emotionally involved over something they have no control over or any direct involvement in.
Also some people treat a debate as though they were engaged a personal spat, hence the insults and name calling.
I think people are heavily invested in having people agree with them. They take it personal if someone doesn't agree with them, because their world view isn't being validated, and they can get very angry.

You also make a good point about all the little flash in the pan issues. What the big story of the day is. Two years down the road it might not seem so important. But in the heat of the moment, people get really wound up about it.

I just really dislike it when people won't talk to each other respectfully.
 
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Yes, it bothers me too.
 
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Politics at its core deals with the conflict between friends and enemies. Often on existential issues. So animosity is easily riled up and is the ultimate expresssion of this dichotomy. It is the nature of politics to be as such and the idea that there can be a politics without genuine animosity is fantasy.
 
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Unfortunately some people thrive on their anger and righteous indignation. Perusing the news for anything that validates their hate and anger. At some level it is a joy to them.
I followed American politics for many years. It seemed that the divide between the left and right was pretty small until Obama. However, it has become much more intense. I tend to think that it is not so much the political issues as the desire to hate and be angry. There was a short period of time when my wife and I fought much more than was logical. We stepped back and saw what we were doing. We feel alive when we love or hate, and hate is the easier option. Since love takes more effort and requires people to move to a higher level of humanity, people choose hate. It is sad, because so many have empty lives that they need to fill them with emotion. There is also the problem of powerlessness. If somebody is making someone else cower by being unreasonable and angry, it makes that person feel in control.
 
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I think people are heavily invested in having people agree with them.
This is a great point. And social media has created echo chambers to reinforce this investment.
 
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Because it deals with the kingdoms satan now possesses and they deal in deception.

The US political-cultural system fits into the type of Babylon in the Bible. I had a long discussion about this with ChatGPT a few days ago, and summarized the discussion as an essay. Dehumanization and performative cruelty are the end result of a dying empire trying to uphold itself.

 
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Any time there is power involved there is bound to be acrimony. Politics invites strong opinions and a sense of righteousness in the cause that all but requires divisiveness and viewing opponents as enemies. The more a politician can inspire emotional responses, the more likely they are to succeed in a democratic system.
 
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That's not the only way to do politics, but in a culture that has dispensed with wisdom, and made virtues out of vices, the political system is apt to be broken at some point.
 
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So are you pointing to all as the problem or just a certain group.
 
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