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Why is it that it's heterosexual men who seem to be most interested in gay topics?

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Has anybody here noticed that it seems to be heterosexual men who seem to be most interested in gay topics?

To those of you who seem so fascinated with what we gay people "do": it's not much different from what you folks do.

We get up in the morning, have morning mouth, drink our cups of coffee, go to our jobs, come home, fix dinner, watch TV or do some sort of recreational activity in the evening, and go to bed. That's it. We have mortgages and utilities and car payments to pay. Once or twice a year, we go on vacation. By and large, most of us are pretty darned boring.

We gay folks don't discuss the mechanics of straight sex or straight relationships, even though statistics show (and it's our direct experience) that over half of heterosexual marriages fail (some on the flimsiest of excuses); plus the fact that many heterosexuals cannot seem to resist the urge to make out in grocery stores, drug stores, bus stops, and other public places where everybody can watch.

Several of you have gone on at length about how "disgusting" you think gay relationships are. Given my druthers, I'd prefer not to turn on TV to watch almost nude heterosexuals draping themselves all over each other and/or making out and/or simulating sex with each other, but that doesn't seem to bother some of you straight folks as much as to gay men holding hands. I wonder why.

We've learned to deal with some habits of straight folks, particularly some straight men, which we gay folks happen to find pretty distasteful. We'd appreciate the same forbearance you all expect, s'il vous plaît.
 

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Actually, I am more interested in Christian topics and my religion. The only gay topic that interests me is the perversion of scripture and theology that gay relatavists seem to insist that the Christian community go along with.


Rightttt good alibi. I am sure it is martydom that drives you, righttttt. :thumbsup: I grew up in the big city there buddy boy. Any flys on me, and they are paying rent. Now can you tell me once again your reasons as to hanging out in the gay forum? That brings to mind the story of John paulk, former ExGay from Exodus. He got caught in a gay bar and his excuse was that he needed to go the bathroom. But the odd fact was that he was there in the bar for 40 minutes LOL He was the poster biy for exgay ministries. Don't know why this story came to mind. maybe its off topic.
 
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Has anybody here noticed that it seems to be heterosexual men who seem to be most interested in gay topics?

To those of you who seem so fascinated with what we gay people "do": it's not much different from what you folks do.

We get up in the morning, have morning mouth, drink our cups of coffee, go to our jobs, come home, fix dinner, watch TV or do some sort of recreational activity in the evening, and go to bed. That's it. We have mortgages and utilities and car payments to pay. Once or twice a year, we go on vacation. By and large, most of us are pretty darned boring.

We gay folks don't discuss the mechanics of straight sex or straight relationships, even though statistics show (and it's our direct experience) that over half of heterosexual marriages fail (some on the flimsiest of excuses); plus the fact that many heterosexuals cannot seem to resist the urge to make out in grocery stores, drug stores, bus stops, and other public places where everybody can watch.

Several of you have gone on at length about how "disgusting" you think gay relationships are. Given my druthers, I'd prefer not to turn on TV to watch almost nude heterosexuals draping themselves all over each other and/or making out and/or simulating sex with each other, but that doesn't seem to bother some of you straight folks as much as to gay men holding hands. I wonder why.

We've learned to deal with some habits of straight folks, particularly some straight men, which we gay folks happen to find pretty distasteful. We'd appreciate the same forbearance you all expect, s'il vous plaît.

Because all heterosexual men are trying to bring their inner gay that's why.
 
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Rightttt good alibi. I am sure it is martydom that drives you, righttttt. :thumbsup: I grew up in the big city there buddy boy. Any flys on me, and they are paying rent. Now can you tell me once again your reasons as to hanging out in the gay forum?

huh?

you're way off topic and then choose to insult us again. Not true, I know I don't fantasize about married men nor pastors. I doubt many of us gays do.

Who is throwing out the insults and inuendos (first) here?

You are gay and admit you are gay. I am a Christian and admit I am a Christian. That does not translate into someone using a shallow and lame stereotype against me does it ?

I just tell the truth. Can't deal with it? Go in and block my posts.
 
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Who is throwing out the insults and inuendos (first) here?

You are gay and admit you are gay. I am a Christian and admit I am a Christian. That does not translate into someone using a shallow and lame stereotype against me does it ?

I just tell the truth. Can't deal with it? Go in and block my posts.
Why on earth did you quote me?
 
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Who is throwing out the insults and inuendos (first) here?

You are gay and admit you are gay. I am a Christian and admit I am a Christian. That does not translate into someone using a shallow and lame stereotype against me does it ?

I just tell the truth. Can't deal with it? Go in and block my posts.
I'm Christian too, and admit I'm a Christian. You can carry on with your veiled comments, I'm blocking you.
 
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. . .[SIZE=-1]That brings to mind the story of John paulk, former ExGay from Exodus. He got caught in a gay bar and his excuse was that he needed to go the bathroom. But the odd fact was that he was there in the bar for 40 minutes LOL He was the poster biy for exgay ministries. Don't know why this story came to mind. maybe its off topic.[/SIZE]

I have heard that fairy tale, it is about as reliable as the crashed alien space craft at Roswell. I even saw a blurry photograph, a back shot of some medium sized guy with dark hair walking through an unmarked glass door with nothing but a blank wall visible beyond. One of the teen poster here said he was also caught with drugs.
 
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I have heard that fairy tale, it is about as reliable as the crashed alien space craft at Roswell. I even saw a blurry photograph, a back shot of some medium sized guy with dark hair walking through an unmarked glass door with nothing but a blank wall visible beyond. One of the teen poster here said he was also caught with drugs.
http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/Paulk-Southern%20Voice.html
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1589/is_2001_May_8/ai_74440127
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1589/is_2001_June_5/ai_75248594

It looks like he's been cured.
 
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I come on here to witness about God. That is my purpose.
I find it ironic that these gay folks are trying to offend me by calling me gay. I guess we can finally agree on something, being called gay is an insult.

Let's make a deal, you dion't call me gay and I won't call you Christians. This way, neither of us offends God.
 
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I find it ironic that these gay folks are trying to offend me by calling me gay. I guess we can finally agree on something, being called gay is an insult.

Let's make a deal, you dion't call me gay and I won't call you Christians. This way, neither of us offends God.

How about this: what if neither side insults the other?

You know: that old, quaint, "And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them." (Luke 6:31) thingie.
 
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How about this: what if neither side insults the other?

You know: that old, quaint, "And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them." (Luke 6:31) thingie.
That would be wonderful.

Let's have a real debate instead.

Here goes:

PERSON A:
The gay lifestyle is a sin and those who participate in homosexual relationships will go to hell if they do not honor God by repenting and doing the best they can in avoiding such sin.

PERSON B:
I am gay and God would not have made me gay if he did not approve of gay sex. Are you sure you are not a closet case ?
 
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I have heard that fairy tale, it is about as reliable as the crashed alien space craft at Roswell. I even saw a blurry photograph, a back shot of some medium sized guy with dark hair walking through an unmarked glass door with nothing but a blank wall visible beyond. One of the teen poster here said he was also caught with drugs.
And the fact that Paulik admitted that not only was he there…but that picture was in fact of him??? how does that fit into teh lable of "fairy tail"???
 
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I find it ironic that these gay folks are trying to offend me by calling me gay. I guess we can finally agree on something, being called gay is an insult.

Considering that there is nothing wrong with being gay…can’t see how that you can claim offense.


Let's make a deal, you dion't call me gay and I won't call you Christians. This way, neither of us offends God.


Doesn’t change the fact that all the gay Christians here are…Christians.
 
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Me, I'm here because of a couple of those life-changing experiences that shock you into realization of injustice, and the conviction of the Holy Spirit that it's my job to stand up for my brothers and sisters in Christ with same-sex attraction. Dunno what anyone else's reasons are, and don't much care, but He told me to do it. And when the Lord commands, I obey.
 
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[SIZE=-1]It looks like he's been cured[/SIZE].

Who has been cured of what? I see a disagreement about how long, 20 vs. 40 minutes, someone may or may not have been in a certain place. What I don't see is is any evidence that would indicate that anyone was doing anything beside getting a drink and using the restroom.

[SIZE=-1]And the fact that Paulik admitted that not only was he there…but that picture was in fact of him??? how does that fit into teh lable of "fairy tail"???[/SIZE]

See above reply. So what? I don't see any admission about a picture. What I see is a stalking paparazzi out for a story and we know how reliable the media is.
 
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