Why is crossdressing and non-conformity to either gender not accepted in Church?

SinAmenShe said:

Well you know, the Bible says God said he can not be found in temples, or buildings built by men. That as he is creator of all things, he is found everywhere and most importantly, within one's self.

So, I would say, don't ever let the sinfull arrogance of men/women preclude you from entering into a church.

Those that stepped forward and gave your father an ultimatum are not of God. And woe unto them come the judgment.

Take that experience, and instead of letting it break you, as they intended by their sinful act,and learn from it and grow stronger in your sense of self by the example they provided in what shame manifests in one so shameful.

Find a church that is open to you, where you feel, when you walk in the door, as if you've come home. Because that building is not where God dwells, it is where people committed to honoring the spirit of God commune and come together as a family of God. Giving praise to that spirit, together.

UU churches, Unitarian Universalist, are wonderful communities that are open hearted and the shining example of God's truth.
God, in the meantime, is what you bring to the church when you walk through the door.

And anyone who bars your entrance, because their bias finds you not to be approved as the image and likeness of the most high that created you, is someone you should take note of and learn from. Becuase if you were less in touch with the God inside you, you'd look just like them.

God's peace abide your steps, always.

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Cute Tink said:

Ok. That makes more sense. I don't see a lot of the topics around as I only pay attention sporadically.

I still say just be yourself. People will either accept you or they won't. You will never be able to please everyone.

If your church doesn't accept the way you are, and you aren't hurting anyone, then perhaps another church would be more for you. I hope you experience greater luck in society, because to a certain degree, changing to a new society is a lot more difficult.

However, if you appear basically female and dress female, you will probably be accepted by most people as a female if nothing else is said about it.

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phishin4min said:

can you explain how you became a female naturally, are you saying that you developed breast without any outside medical therapys or drugs?

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good brother said:

Justagirl,

Am I correct that you said you have Grade 2 PAIS?

This is what I have found on Grade 2 PAIS

"Male genitals but mildly 'under-masculinized', isolated hypospadias"

Is that correct?

Thank you.

In Christ, GB

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phishin4min said:

don't you mean with medical help you could of become female!

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good brother said:

Yes, basically. I mean, it's gotten taller and alot fatter ( mean ALOT fatter), but still the same body.


I guess it boils down to a couple of issues if you ask me. Do you want a normal sex life eventually with a woman or are you content being celibate? If you are going to stay celibate and just have a life of service for the LORD as a single person, I don't think you should dress like a girl since you aren't one. If you are seeking a "normal" life, I might suggest surgery and therapy to reduce your breasts so that you appear more like the man that you are. Let's face it, breasts don't make you a girl anymore than holding tires makes you a car.

In Christ, GB

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