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Why I'm discontent with my Protestantism

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Salvation is not a group activity.
 
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Pretty much anything that hinges it's identity on a denominational label. Christianity is not a group thing. People are not saved or have a relationship with God on a group level.
As true as that may be, it's kind of silly to overlook the communal aspects of the faith that commands us to pray for one another, comfort one another, bear one another's burdens, etc.

This "rugged individual" thing is not meant to be applied to the totality of the Christian life.
 
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That's not what I said. Nor did I go anywhere near making that point.
 
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Salvation is not a group activity.
It is both, according to the stated purpose of the Five-fold Ministries.

" And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ, till we all come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a perfect man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ; that we should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting, but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ— from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love." Ephesians 4:11-16 NKJV
 
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You are absolutely right! When you look across all the different denominations, there is a lot of disagreements. This is because theology isn't entirely black and white. Yes, there are "black and white" issues and I believe that generally most denominations abide by them. I think the Nicene Creed is a pretty well established standard of Christian doctrine because it clearly defines what is orthodox and what is heresy. Thus, by definition, any belief or teaching that disagrees with the Nicene Creed is heresy. Now, there is also a lot of "grey" issues. When you find that there are theological issues that have been debated and argued for literally thousands of years, there is obviously biblical and historical evidence to support either side. However, in my opinion, most of these "grey" issues are not essential to salvation. In other words, it is okay to agree to disagree because whether you are right or wrong you will have a chance to ask God someday.

Because of the reasons stated above, as long as you received the Gospel and believe the Nicene Creed, it really doesn't bother me so much as to what you believe, rather, why do you believe it? For example, you said you are Southern Baptist, great! Why? Why are you not Lutheran, or Methodist? Why are you not Presbyterian or Pentecostal? For most Christians, they don't have an answer because they have been confined in their theological "group think" bubble their entire lives. The point is, it is important to know why you believe something. If I asked you why you are Baptist and your only response is, "Because I was born and raised in a Baptist Church", then you really have not made a decision for yourself. Rather, you are following the testimony of your parents. God doesn't want us to have a blind faith. We are commanded to have a reason for our beliefs (1 Peter 3:15).
 
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I used the two-volume Church History by Everett Ferguson and John D. Woodbridge for Church history. I also did Western Civilization by Jackson Spielvogel.

If you're interested in the development of the early church, the best I've found is
The Church and the Ministry in the Early Centuries, by Thomas Lindsay. He chronicles how the church started out composed of various local bodies unified by itinerant apostles and prophets, but morphed into a more hierarchical episcopacy, and how the priesthood arose out of plain ministry. It's available free online, probably at either ccel.org or google books.
 
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Mary Meg, I suggest you buy or download or check out of the library a little book by C.S. Lewis Mere Christianity and read it. Then don't allow yourself to get all wrapped up in the various versions of Church history, doctrine, theology, dogma, liturgy, and creeds. Over the entirety of its 2000+ year history, the Church at times has been glorious and at times indefensible. But it has certainly produced more benefit and good in the world that those times it has been corrupt, destructive, even evil.

The reason there are an estimated 1,200 denominations is almost entirely due to good people trying to get it right. There has almost certainly no new Christian group founded who did not hope to do church better, more purely, more honestly, more honorably than it has ever been done. But because all denominations, all congregations, the entire Church is made up of people, some good, some bad, all sinners, all imperfect, all at times with feet of clay, there is no such thing as the perfect church. But people being who they are, they will keep trying.

The entirety of the history of the JudeoChristian faith and the development of JudeoChristian thought comes out of all that, the good, the bad, the ugly, the virtuous, the blasphemous, the possibilities and hope.

Once you make peace with that in your heart, then you can enjoy the community and sense of God and encouragement and support that you feel in your current congregation/denomination. You can appreciate it is made up of imperfect people and comes from a long history of imperfect people, some who got it right, some who got it wrong, some who are still searching, and that is okay. As long as the Christ is at the center, it will survive its warts and stumbles and it will continue. And it will be a blessing on Earth as nothing else is.
 
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There is more to History than after the Reformation, even there is more to History than Western Christianity if you haven't heard of Gregory Palamas or Silouan the Athonite
 
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One resource within your own denomination that might help you out here is Founders Ministries. Whatever you think of Calvinism, the fact is that Calvinistic Baptists are generally stronger on these points than non-Calvinist Baptists.
 
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It's a label because otherpeople like labels. Don't go reading into is anything you shouldn't
Yes, it is a label...and this label fits.

While a lot of churches think it is appealing to say that they are not Protestant (for various reasons), the fact is that Calvary Chapel is Protestant right down the line.

Some other churches may have a bit of a point to make, to the extent that they depart in some way or other from the standards of Protestantism, but Calvary Chapel isn't one of them, even if it finds it helpful to say that it is not Protestant. Every characteristic that causes any church body to be classified as Protestant is present.

But this wasn't directed AT you. It was meant to be informative for anyone else looking in at this topic who is interested in the issue one way or the other.
 
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Hi Meg, I got saved in a Southern Baptist Church. I have been to a handful of other Churches with various doctrinal emphasis. In my whole travel, I became Reformed. Yet, I have never attended a Reformed Church ... My opinion is that the Reformers got a lot right... The Reformers can link much of what they teach back to St. Thomas Aquinas and St. Augustine... And of course, back to Paul...

Scripture alone, faith alone, grace alone, Christ alone, and Glory to God alone are quite compelling presuppositions for understanding God's word and the history related to his people...

I am always open to questions... Blessings...
 
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Theology is about prayer, Mary Meg. It is what comes to us by always walking in God's presence, and looking into His face. To become by God's grace as God is by nature is "to know Thee, the only True God, and Jesus Christ, Whom Thou hast sent" (this is how Christ defined Eternal Life, in case you forgot).

Essentially, this is the Way of the ancient Church. We come to understand and agree with things which seem more complicated than this as we grow in our knowledge of the Lord, because it gets revealed to us (by the Holy Spirit and the Word) that the various beliefs and religious practices of ours are in reality blessed by God, and we are blessed by God in having received them from the blessed children of God who have come before us, who received them from God, Whom they also knew through prayer and self-denial (Matthew 16:24).
 
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Good one, True!
 
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So, it was a meaningless observation, having zero to do with what I said. Got it.
 
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This may be helpful: Self-awareness - Wikipedia
 
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So, it was a meaningless observation, having zero to do with what I said. Got it.
Not in the least! It was claimed by a Calvary Chapel member that there are churches which are not Protestant (or Catholic). If the idea was that Calvary Chapel met the criteria, it does not. And I provided the proof right from Calvary Chapels website itself.

That is information which anyone who is looking for a church that actually isn't Protestant--and there are some--can profit from knowing.These would be church bodies which reject the cardinal Protestant beliefs, most specifically the Solas. Examples would include the Unitarians, Mormons, Jehovahs Witnesses, and some but not all non-denominational congregations.
 
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Pretty much anything that hinges it's identity on a denominational label. Christianity is not a group thing. People are not saved or have a relationship with God on a group level.

This is not how many groups, even Protestants like Lutherans, see it. Nor is it how St. Paul would have understood the matter.
 
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@Mary Meg

To make peace, here are two threads I created that you may enjoy that are more light hearted that may lift you up in your love for God's Word.

This thread is post a picture of an animal along with a Bible verse.
I created a few that are creative and interesting.
Post an Animal Picture with a Verse, or Post a Verse About Animals.

This thread is my top favorites Christian movies list:
What Christian Movies Do You Find To Be The Most Rewatchable?

Some of these films I find inspirational in helping a person to follow the Lord and appreciating His teachings. You can check out the trailers, where to rent, etc.

May God bless you, Mary.
Hope you find the truth on this troubling topic by praying to the Lord about it some more.

With loving kindness to you in Christ,

Sincerely,

~ Jason.
 
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This is kind of what I faced when I first posted my doubts about Sola Fidé. Keep going, @Mary Meg.

Many, many folks will oppose you. They mean well, but may not see what you see, or worry about what you are worried about. That's ok. Just keep looking, reading, praying, and discovering stuff!
 
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