Why I Don't Like Homosexuals

[BAFRIEND]

When I was a kid in highschool at a track meet at a college I was using the restroom at the stadium. I was the only guy in there when a homosexual came in and said, "hi" and then he brushed against my back as I was using the urinal. Even though I was using the urinal at the end of a long row of urinals against the wall and we were alone in the restroom he decided to use the one right to next to mine and then he started to humm Dixie and tap his foot. My experience has been that guys cannot stop peeing in mid-stream but I was able to that time. I got out of there fast.

A few months later I was on a class trip in San Francisco and a classmate and I were walking on the sidewalk at Fishermans Wharf when a homosexual walked past us and groped my friend. My friend turned and was so shocked that something like this would happen and apologized to the guy not really taking in what had just happened.

I mean, we were just kids, 14 years old, and here these perverts go around starting stuff in the restrooms and in public with us.

You homosexuals scare me. I constantly worry about the kids, never wanting to let them out of my sight or let them use public restrooms alone and worry about who they might meet online.

Going to accuse me of stereotyping ? Go to any gay website and read the garbage and take in the culture.

Better safe than sorry.

 

[BAFRIEND]

Now I was honest but not pretty and PC. So, give yourselves blisters hitting that report button.

 

[Ohioprof]

When I was a kid in highschool at a track meet at a college I was using the restroom at the stadium. I was the only guy in there when a homosexual came in and said, "hi" and then he brushed against my back as I was using the urinal. Even though I was using the urinal at the end of a long row of urinals against the wall and we were alone in the restroom he decided to use the one right to next to mine and then he started to humm Dixie and tap his foot. My experience has been that guys cannot stop peeing in mid-stream but I was able to that time. I got out of there fast.

A few months later I was on a class trip in San Francisco and a classmate and I were walking on the sidewalk at Fishermans Wharf when a homosexual walked past us and groped my friend. My friend turned and was so shocked that something like this would happen and apologized to the guy not really taking in what had just happened.

I mean, we were just kids, 14 years old, and here these perverts go around starting stuff in the restrooms and in public with us.

You homosexuals scare me. I constantly worry about the kids, never wanting to let them out of my sight or let them use public restrooms alone and worry about who they might meet online.

Going to accuse me of stereotyping ? Go to any gay website and read the garbage and take in the culture.

Better safe than sorry.

You find me scary? I could be your mother, son. I am a mother.

When I was a teenager, I was hit on by men quite often. I also encountered men exposing themselves to me and to my friends on a few occasions, usually in a park.
Should I conclude that I don't like men because a some men hit on me or exposed themselves to me? All men did not do that.....and I refuse to generalize to all men from my experience with some of them.

Instead of making sweeping generalizations about gay men, why not consider that you have not met most gay men, and your negative experiences were with a few individuals? You might learn a lot if you actually talk with some gay people and get to know them.

 

[BAFRIEND]

You find me scary? I could be your mother, son. I am a mother.

When I was a teenager, I was hit on by men quite often. I also encountered men exposing themselves to me and to my friends on a few occasions, usually in a park.
Should I conclude that I don't like men because a some men hit on me or exposed themselves to me? All men did not do that.....and I refuse to generalize to all men from my experience with some of them.

Instead of making sweeping generalizations about gay men, why not consider that you have not met most gay men, and your negative experiences were with a few individuals? You might learn a lot if you actually talk with some gay people and get to know them.

Sorry, this is different and has nothing to do with race or gender.

Homosexuality is an objective moral disorder with symptoms like chicken-pox or measles.

Now, I know that I am going to come under attack as being a biggot, but the fact is that race and gender have nothing to do with what I stated as my opinion is that homosexuality is an objective moral disorder, while heterosexuality, gender, and race are not moral disorders. God has created different races and genders and his creation is beautiful.

Humans have created moral disorders and negative behaviors.

 

[BAFRIEND]

You find me scary? I could be your mother, son. I am a mother.

Also, don't call me son. I am not your son and my mother is not a lesbian. I am 39 years old and I doubt you could be my mother.

 

[TheFathersDaughter]

I go to gay websites (like support sites, Christian based, etc.) all the time and unless they're purposely created for perverted purposes (which there are far more as far as heterosexuality goes but you may choose to ignore those) they're quite clean.

You know what I think? I think it's just a guy thing. Because I've never experienced any of that in all my high school education (it's only got a few months before its over) from women. Only men. The two gay friends I have get approached by other guys quite often, but very rarely by girls. It's probably a guy thing, not just a gay thing. And then like Prof said (she could be your mother pretty easily actually. There's a good 20 year age difference and during that time it was normal to have kids earlier I'm pretty sure.)

Either way, still a sweeping generalization. Do you also believe all gay men have a lisp?

 

[naotmaa]

When I was a kid in highschool at a track meet at a college I was using the restroom at the stadium. I was the only guy in there when a homosexual came in and said, "hi" and then he brushed against my back as I was using the urinal. Even though I was using the urinal at the end of a long row of urinals against the wall and we were alone in the restroom he decided to use the one right to next to mine and then he started to humm Dixie and tap his foot. My experience has been that guys cannot stop peeing in mid-stream but I was able to that time. I got out of there fast.

A few months later I was on a class trip in San Francisco and a classmate and I were walking on the sidewalk at Fishermans Wharf when a homosexual walked past us and groped my friend. My friend turned and was so shocked that something like this would happen and apologized to the guy not really taking in what had just happened.

I mean, we were just kids, 14 years old, and here these perverts go around starting stuff in the restrooms and in public with us.

I'm sorry that that happened to you. But anyone here who knows a gay person will tell you that many are NOT like that at all. Your only experiences with gay people were negative, which is very unfotunate. Certainly those idiots do not represent the gay community.

Having said that ask most teenage girls whatthey have had to put up with because of a straight man. There are places (usually where there wil be a lot of people driving) where we know we con't walk down because we know there are going to be some idiots yelling things at us.

I have friends who live in the city ( where I soon will be living as well) it has happened more than once when one of my friends will be on a crowded train and then end up being gropped or rubbed up against.

Oh and of course the high school hallways. I remember freshman year seeing some of the football players play a "game" where they would try to "grab" as many of the freshman girls as they could. The list goes on unfortunately. But that does not mean i don't like straight men.. I know the majority would not do any of this.

You homosexuals scare me. I constantly worry about the kids, never wanting to let them out of my sight or let them use public restrooms alone and worry about who they might meet online.

Again, perverts certainly do not represent how most of us are. Its just gay men who do this, straight men as well.

Going to accuse me of stereotyping ? Go to any gay website and read the garbage and take in the culture.

Ahh I have. I'm not completely sure what you would be refering too..?

Better safe than sorry.

 

[BAFRIEND]

Again, perverts certainly do not represent how most of us are. Its just gay men who do this, straight men as well.

I have an in-law who was caught molesting my 10 year old cousin and she was his mother. Watch the news and all the female teachers lurching on their young male students and being prosecuted for it. Who is stereotyping, now ?

 

[TheFathersDaughter]

I have an in-law who was caught molesting my 10 year old cousin and she was his mother. Watch the news and all the female teachers lurching on their young male students and being prosecuted for it. Who is stereotyping, now ?

Men do it too. Women can, but men are the majority. The news media tends to concentrate on less common or more mysterious cases.

 

[naotmaa]

I have an in-law who was caught molesting my 10 year old cousin and she was his mother. Watch the news and all the female teachers lurching on their young male students and being prosecuted for it. Who is stereotyping, now ?

um..How was I stereotyping? I didn't say that all straight men are perverts and just because i did not mention women means that I was stereotying. You did not mention straight men or women in your post.

Also, why don't you address the rest of my post?

 

[Ohioprof]

Sorry, this is different and has nothing to do with race or gender.

Homosexuality is an objective moral disorder with symptoms like chicken-pox or measles.

Now, I know that I am going to come under attack as being a biggot, but the fact is that race and gender have nothing to do with what I stated as my opinion is that homosexuality is an objective moral disorder, while heterosexuality, gender, and race are not moral disorders. God has created different races and genders and his creation is beautiful.

Humans have created moral disorders and negative behaviors.

There is no difference between a heterosexual adult hitting on a kid and a homosexual adult hitting on a kid. Girls get hit on by men all the time. This is something that few talk about, but it's no less traumatic for a girl to experience that from a man than for a boy to experience it from a man.

Also, you are incorrect that being gay is a disorder. It's just a characteristic of some people.

 

[Ohioprof]

Also, don't call me son. I am not your son and my mother is not a lesbian. I am 39 years old and I doubt you could be my mother.

Actually, I could be your mother. And you need not be so rude as you are. You have no reason to denigrate me just because I happen to be a lesbian. You don't even know me. Please be more respectful of others.

 

[Ohioprof]

I have an in-law who was caught molesting my 10 year old cousin and she was his mother. Watch the news and all the female teachers lurching on their young male students and being prosecuted for it. Who is stereotyping, now ?

How does this relate to what you were saying earlier?

I'm curious too why you seem to carry such a chip on your shoulder.

 

[BAFRIEND]

There is no difference between a heterosexual adult hitting on a kid and a homosexual adult hitting on a kid.

Yes there is. See what the reaction is when a man has sex with a 14 yo boy and woman has sex with 14 yo boy. We use terms like molestation to describe what men do with boys and when a girl gets pregnant by an adult male we call it having sex.

Humans know the difference and that is why we use different terms to describe these wrong behaviors. Homosexuality is an objectionably wrong behavior while heterosexuality is not. There is no debate over whether males and females should have sex with each other, just the context. The same could not be said of homosexual sex because it has no context or purpose within the scope of human nature.

The reason homosexuals who engage and are active in the gay lifestyle get angry when their sins are pointd out to them is because they do not want to do God's will, but their own.

 

[BAFRIEND]

I go to gay websites (like support sites, Christian based, etc.) all the time and unless they're purposely created for perverted purposes (which there are far more as far as heterosexuality goes but you may choose to ignore those) they're quite clean.

You know what I think? I think it's just a guy thing. Because I've never experienced any of that in all my high school education (it's only got a few months before its over) from women. Only men. The two gay friends I have get approached by other guys quite often, but very rarely by girls. It's probably a guy thing, not just a gay thing. And then like Prof said (she could be your mother pretty easily actually. There's a good 20 year age difference and during that time it was normal to have kids earlier I'm pretty sure.)

Either way, still a sweeping generalization. Do you also believe all gay men have a lisp?

I don't mean to be rude. I stated I am 39 and she is 52. Do the math. Is math as relative to you as your morals ?

 

[Ohioprof]

Yes there is. See what the reaction is when a man has sex with a 14 yo boy and woman has sex with 14 yo boy. We use terms like molestation to describe what men do with boys and when a girl gets pregnant by an adult male we call it having sex.

Humans know the difference and that is why we use different terms to describe these wrong behaviors. Homosexuality is an objectionably wrong behavior while heterosexuality is not. There is no debate over whether males and females should have sex with each other, just the context. The same could not be said of homosexual sex because it has no context or purpose within the scope of human nature.

The reason homosexuals who engage and are active in the gay lifestyle get angry when their sins are pointd out to them is because they do not want to do God's will, but their own.

When a girl gets pregnant by an adult male we call it statutory rape.

 

[Ohioprof]

Yes there is. See what the reaction is when a man has sex with a 14 yo boy and woman has sex with 14 yo boy. We use terms like molestation to describe what men do with boys and when a girl gets pregnant by an adult male we call it having sex.

Humans know the difference and that is why we use different terms to describe these wrong behaviors. Homosexuality is an objectionably wrong behavior while heterosexuality is not. There is no debate over whether males and females should have sex with each other, just the context. The same could not be said of homosexual sex because it has no context or purpose within the scope of human nature.

The reason homosexuals who engage and are active in the gay lifestyle get angry when their sins are pointd out to them is because they do not want to do God's will, but their own.

Not everyone believes that homosexuality is wrong. It may be wrong for you, and that's fine. Just don't have intimate relationships with men. For gay people, homosexuality is right. The world is enriched by the diversity of human expression.

 

[naotmaa]

Yes there is. See what the reaction is when a man has sex with a 14 yo boy and woman has sex with 14 yo boy. We use terms like molestation to describe what men do with boys and when a girl gets pregnant by an adult male we call it having sex.

When a adult male touches a girl inappropriately it is considered to be molestation. When a adult male touches a boy inapporpiately is considered to be molestation. When an adult male has sex with a 14 year old boy it statuary rape. When an adult male has sex with a 14 year old girl it is statuary rape. If the sex was forced on them then it would also be considered rape, sexual assault and molestation.

I'm not sure how you can think a girl being molestated is any better than when a boy does.

Humans know the difference and that is why we use different terms to describe these wrong behaviors.

I don't think you're are explaining yourself well. Are you saying that humans think that a male molestating a boy is worse than a man molestating a girl? I don't want to get you wrong..

Homosexuality is an objectionably wrong behavior while heterosexuality is not. There is no debate over whether males and females should have sex with each other, just the context. The same could not be said of homosexual sex because it has no context or purpose within the scope of human nature.

Their is no reason to believe that homosexuality is wrong. You obviously have your beliefs about who should have sex and when and why and how but not everyone shares your beliefs.

The reason homosexuals who engage and are active in the gay lifestyle get angry when their sins are pointd out to them is because they do not want to do God's will, but their own.

Well no. I think anyone would be pretty angry if you tried that they were perverts, espcially when they are not.

 

[Ohioprof]

Yes there is. See what the reaction is when a man has sex with a 14 yo boy and woman has sex with 14 yo boy. We use terms like molestation to describe what men do with boys and when a girl gets pregnant by an adult male we call it having sex.

Humans know the difference and that is why we use different terms to describe these wrong behaviors. Homosexuality is an objectionably wrong behavior while heterosexuality is not. There is no debate over whether males and females should have sex with each other, just the context. The same could not be said of homosexual sex because it has no context or purpose within the scope of human nature.

The reason homosexuals who engage and are active in the gay lifestyle get angry when their sins are pointd out to them is because they do not want to do God's will, but their own.

Not everyone believes that homosexuality is wrong. It may be wrong for you, and that's fine. Just don't have intimate relationships with men. For gay people, homosexuality is right. The world is enriched by the diversity of human expression.

 

[Hesper]

I'm very sorry to hear you had some bad experiences with gay men, however not every gay man is going to do that to you. It's like having a bad experience with someone who is another color - are all blacks/hispanics/etc violent? Should you get defensive in the presence of all black men, in fear of rape/theft/murder? Of course not. Most gays, whether or not they are accepted by God, are not going to commit those kind of acts.

My family and I once went to Disney, our trip accidentally coincided with Gay Day. We were practically surrounded by gay couples and groups (they were all wearing red), and not once were we touched or treated in an inappropriate manner. Now, there were a few couples kissing and stuff which could've been saved for a hotel room, but heck, heterosexual couples do those kind of acts in public too..

Point being - yes, you got mistreated; no, not every gay person is like that - so it's irrational to base your opinion on just two people you unfortunately had to deal with.