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Why Homosexuality Is Wrong

beechy

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If you can make a sexual commitment with anyone, you can certainly make such a commitment with someone of the opposite sex. That is your choice. Commitments are not required to be sexual in nature. That is also a choice.
Are you suggesting she should choose to be with someone she is not romantically attracted to or in love with?
 
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So homosexual sex doesn't have to be indulged... So why try to make the government redefine marriage. What one chooses to do need not be either encouraged nor promoted.
Marriage is a fundamental right per Loving v. Virginia. Any laws affecting that right must past a strict scrutiny test in order to be constitutionally upheld.

Assuming you think it's bad to be racist, would it be ok for the government to pass a law prohibiting racists from marrying lest they have kids and indoctrinate them with racist values?
 
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For everyone saying that homosexuality is a choice:

Yes, exactly! I certainly chose to be bullied out of two high schools. I chose to lose some of my closest friends after coming out. I chose to be ridiculed, beaten up, and generally ostracized. I chose to become a second-class citizen hated by a substantial portion of the world. Of course! It was the only logical choice, wasn't it? Who wouldn't want to always be under the nagging threat of death from fundamentalists and rednecks? I'll be discriminated against for my entire life, and I'll only get married if I learn Dutch and move to Holland.

Homosexuality is not a choice. Most of the time it is a very painful realization, and suppressing it makes you feel even worse.
 
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Yes, exactly! I certainly chose to be bullied out of two high schools. I chose to lose some of my closest friends after coming out. I chose to be ridiculed, beaten up, and generally ostracized. I chose to become a second-class citizen hated by a substantial portion of the world. Of course! It was the only logical choice, wasn't it? Who wouldn't want to always be under the nagging threat of death from fundamentalists and rednecks? I'll be discriminated against for my entire life, and I'll only get married if I learn Dutch and move to Holland.
So you admit its a choice!
 
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Does anyone else get tired of mentioning the fact that the Bible is only accurate in the minds of Christians? That only in archaic religious texts does it speak of the sin of homosexual behavior..Wait..the whole sin thing...Yeah thats right..It's Christian too.

When you can honestly tell me why homosexuality is wrong without quoting one biblical reference then I will actually consider reading the post. I got 5 sentences into this post and realized it's more bibble vomit.

By the way...King James was Bi sexual.

Homosexuality is not wrong. Lets reverse the roles for a minute. Let's say that you don't like men. I presume how it is now. Lets say the only way for people to reproduce was for two men to fornicate. And then lets add a few sprinkles of backwater religious zealots telling you that you wanting to have sex with a woman is vile and disgusting and that your going to be tortured all eternity unless you repent from your evil ways and embrace your fellow man. (Literally)

Wild scenario I know...I hope you can wrap your head around it and see how uncomfortable you would feel in that situation. Please consider that before spewing intolerance from a bunch of homophobic bronze age sheep herders that probably had no problem having relations with sheep at one time or another during those snowy Decembers in Bethlehem. :doh:
 
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those snowy Decembers in Bethlehem. :doh:

In The Bleak Midwinter is the stupidest carol ever :p

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p.s. Whether or not homosexuality is a choice doesn't really matter, because it isn't wrong anyway.

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In The Bleak Midwinter is the stupidest carol ever :p

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p.s. Whether or not homosexuality is a choice doesn't really matter, because it isn't wrong anyway.

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surely "Good King Wenceslas" is worse... its about a pagan warrior! Nor is his feast day even on Christmas!
 
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surely "Good King Wenceslas" is worse... its about a pagan warrior! Nor is his feast day even on Christmas!

I think you'll find that makes it a totally awesome carol ;)

Meanwhile, anyone who thought snow was falling, snow on snow on the stable Jesus was born in is a numbskull :p It was Palestine, for heaven's sake, not Glasgow!
 
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I think you'll find that makes it a totally awesome carol ;)

Meanwhile, anyone who thought snow was falling, snow on snow on the stable Jesus was born in is a numbskull :p It was Palestine, for heaven's sake, not Glasgow!
It snows in Palestine.

Which is one of the big indicators that Christ wasn't born in December... because shepherds aren't out in the snow at that time of year
 
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It snows in Palestine.

Which is one of the big indicators that Christ wasn't born in December... because shepherds aren't out in the snow at that time of year

Well, every day's a school day. For some reason, I thought it didn't get much below 5 or 6ºC, even in winter.
 
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Well, every day's a school day. For some reason, I thought it didn't get much below 5 or 6ºC, even in winter.
surprised me when I learnt too, but my flatmate who was in Iraq at that time of year a few years ago has photos of himself chest deep in snow
 
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surprised me when I learnt too, but my flatmate who was in Iraq at that time of year a few years ago has photos of himself chest deep in snow

Blimey!

You learn something every day.
 
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surely "Good King Wenceslas" is worse... its about a pagan warrior! Nor is his feast day even on Christmas!
The carol tell of King Wenceslas looking out on the feast of Stephen December 26. not his own feast day.

The mythic events were more part of church propaganda to evangelize the people of Bohemia than truth. Much like how the church downgraded the Irish fire/hearth Goddess Bridgett into a saint to attract her worshipers
 
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