Why does he stare at me?

[Michie]

We work together that could be the reason. Yes he's in his mid 20 twenties. Or he could just have a bad habit of staring it's either that or he sees the glow of the lord upon me lol.

I’d ask: why do you keep staring? Lol! It makes most people feel awkward.

 

[Jo555]

What's a very attractive quality?. Also I prayed about it and told myself I'm done. And that's when I was given a dream that I had a phone in my hand and I put it to my ear and heard his voice on the other end. It's like we were thinking the same thing and I said to myself we're connected like a connection ( meaning to one another). Then he started talking to me. He was opening up to me like we were close friends. Another dream was given but not to me, but to my son. In the dream I was calling him and he was ignoring me until I called him baby, that's when he seem to respond to me.

Strange dreams. Anyway He keeps watching me. To the point my coworker said something about it. Even when I'm laughing alone in the breakroom he sticks his head in and walk off lo.... he just keeps on looking and sometimes I'll look up randomly and he'll be there and ours eyes would lock on to one another another. Maybe he sees the glow of God on me lol....

Thing is you already voiced your interest. In my opinion, you don't have to do anymore. Maybe I am wrong, but it sounds like he may be playing games. He may not be doing it intentionally, but this isn't healthy for you because you really like him and he's sending mixed signals. Leave it in the hands of the Lord.

You can be nice and courteous and chat, but don't obsess over it.

Another option would be to approach him about it. You can tell him that he's sending mixed signals and it is confusing you and if he isn't interested in dating, to stop.

I personally would do no more and just live your life. In my opinion, you did enough.

Beyond a revelation from God, none of us knows his intent. The dreams may be of God or not, but don't go just on dreams. If from God He will bring clarity, not confusion.

 

[Emma2332]

Thing is you already voiced your interest. In my opinion, you don't have to do anymore. Maybe I am er

I already moved on. I just don't get why he continues to watch if he made it clear. Anyways. Thank you! GOD Bless!

 

[Jo555]

What's a very attractive quality?. Also I prayed about it and told myself I'm done. And that's when I was given a dream that I had a phone in my hand and I put it to my ear and heard his voice on the other end. It's like we were thinking the same thing and I said to myself we're connected like a connection ( meaning to one another). Then he started talking to me. He was opening up to me like we were close friends. Another dream was given but not to me, but to my son. In the dream I was calling him and he was ignoring me until I called him baby, that's when he seem to respond to me.

Strange dreams. Anyway He keeps watching me. To the point my coworker said something about it. Even when I'm laughing alone in the breakroom he sticks his head in and walk off lo.... he just keeps on looking and sometimes I'll look up randomly and he'll be there and ours eyes would lock on to one another another. Maybe he sees the glow of God on me lol....

Thing is you already voiced your interest. In my opinion, you don't have to do anymore.

Thing is you already voiced your interest. In my opinion, you don't have to do anymore. Maybe I am wrong, but it sounds like he may be playing games. He may not be doing it intentionally, but this isn't healthy for you because you really like him and he's sending mixed signals. Leave it in the hands of the Lord.

You can be nice and courteous and chat, but don't obsess over it.

Another option would be to approach him about it. You can tell him that he's sending mixed signals and it is confusing you and if he isn't interested in dating, to stop.

I personally would do no more and just live your life. In my opinion, you did enough.

Beyond a revelation from God, none of us knows his intent. The dreams may be of God or not, but don't go just on dreams. If from God He will bring clarity, not confusion.

I already moved on. I just don't get why he continues to watch if he made it clear. Anyways. Thank you! GOD Bless!

None of us do. We can give you an idea, even opinions on what may be a wise way to handle it, but we don't know. He very well may be becoming interested, but you don't really know and we don't know the source of the dreams. All you can do is continue seeking God about it, but don't get caught up in what he's doing because it doesn't appear to be a healthy game he's playing, whether intentional or not.

Guard your heart.

 

[Jo555]

Forgot to answer your question. If a man loves the Lord, then your life seeking the Lord will be an attractive quality to him.

 

[Jo555]

I wasn't going to say more on why he's doing that, but this idea keeps coming to mind, and it may be off.

He may just be looking to boost his ego. Again, may not be something he's doing intentionally, but he could be feeding off of it, but I don't know.

I think right now all you have to really go on is what he told you. If he's changed his mind, he should find a way to communicate that rather than staring.

Again, unless you know they are from God, it is hit or miss with the dreams. But again, I think that it is good you are moving on in regards to not pursuing it or dwelling too much on it. You can be friends if you think your feelings can handle it, but guard your heart.

 

[timewerx]

I'm into this guy 100%. I don't know why he's saying he's not into me but get caught staring.

As a guy myself, it can happen.

I can feel when someone is into me and I end up looking at her often even though I'm not into her. It's just instinct or whatever or possibly "ESP"?

My som was given a dream that he had feelings for me. My son described him and never saw him. And my son said he had a beard and I said no he doesn't now I worked with him for 2 years and never seen him with a beard until one day I looked into the next room and there he was sitting there with a full beard. I was so shocked. Why would God reveal his feeling for me?

I've had such incredibly uncanny dreams as well for a woman. But it ended badly for me. Not all dreams are from the Lord. It can still come from the devil even if you have perfect relationship with the Lord. Even Jesus was tempted by the devil.

If things look confusing it probably is something else that is not in your favor. If he is into you too, he probably would have asked you out instead of having another GF.

 

[Emma2332]

Thing is you already voiced your interest. In my opinion, you don't have to do anymore.



None of us do. We can give you an idea, even opinions on what may be a wise way to handle it, but we don't know. He very well may be becoming interested, but you don't really know and we don't know the source of the dreams. All you can do is continue seeking God about it, but don't get caught up in what he's doing because it doesn't appear to be a healthy game he's playing, whether intentional or not.

Guard your heart.

It's a little to late to guard my heart it has already been broken. If he is playing games it won't be good for him. Because if he loves the lord like he says he does and goes to church none stop God is not please with him. I have backed off and started focusing more on my relationship with God and work. If he's the one God has for me I think I've would have known by now. Anyway, thank you and have a blessed day!

 

[Jo555]

You seem very sweet. I'm sure there will be a great, God loving guy in your future. If he is guarded because of past relationship, that is, in my opinion the best approach. He may feel pressured and if you move on with your life and he senses that, may take the pressure off if he really is interested. So not saying you play games, just do it for you and your child and don't look to invest too much of your heart on it until you are more secure in your footing and his intentions.

God bless you too. I'm sure it will all work out for you and your child.

 

[Emma2332]

You seem very sweet. I'm sure there will be a great, God loving guy in your future. If he is guarded because of past relationship, that is, in my opinion the best approach. He may feel pressured and if you move on with your life and he senses that, may take the pressure off if he really is interested. So not saying you play games, just do it for you and your child and don't look to invest too much of your heart on it until you are more secure in your footing and his intentions.

God bless you too. I'm sure it will all work out for you and your child.

❤️

 

[Lost4words]

Trust in God alone. He guides....

God bless you...