My main sin problem seems to be not only what I do, but how I am not being joyful and loving and compassionate > I get too much into negative and suspicious things in my imagination. These are anti-love, not only no-no pleasures.
Only God can change me to be His way in love, so I am personally and tenderly sharing with Him in His rest while caring really for any and all people and with Christian brothers and sisters I am relating kindly and sensitively . . . prayerfully so I love people the way God wants and guides us what to do to love each person . . . any person
My mind is a battle ground, then, but what's happening in my mind is connected with my character, I would say. I need how God's love cures my nature.
"Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He is, so are we in this world." (1 John 4:17)
But I can be self-righteous about this, looking down on others who are wrong, somehow. Being self-righteous, wanting to be more than others and look down on others . . . uh-uh . . . yeah, I can do this )d:
"nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3)
"with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love," (Ephesians 4:2)
We need "longsuffering" for relating with our Christian family. Even more mature Christians and good leaders can be wrong, and we need to be ready with "longsuffering" and forgiveness
"He can have compassion on those who are ignorant and going astray, since he himself is also subject to weakness." (Hebrews 5:2)
So, in my failure I can feel for others who are failing, and pray with hope for them, too
So, if the sins you are concerned about are mainly no-no pleasures . . . possibly you are letting your attention be kept away from how we need to find out how to love. There are sins against how to love; we need to deal with not only our wrong pleasure activities but also our sins against how to love.