That is not accurate. I know "some Christians" who believe they are in charge, that they chose God and that it was completely due to their free will. After that, they believe that God's grace comes into play. They will claim that God is sovereign, but that God allows for free will, even though that takes from God's sovereingity. In short, they believe that the glory belongs to the human for their salvation. I believe that is called Pelagianism.
Actually, the term "Pelagianism" is thrown around way too much by the modern Calvinist camp. The idea that man chooses his own salvation is not a tenet of Pelagianism at all. It can be seen by some as a ramification of it, but again, that's disputable.
It is used as a way to label one's opponent a heretic, and is not fitting when discussing the personal beliefs of people who may just be ignorant.
It may be found in "both" systems, but it is not taught in the Methodist Church I attend. At the church I attend, we use teaching materials endorsed by the greater UMC and no one teaching these classes (usually our pastors) has ever claimed that we should believe in predestination except when speaking of the Jews as the "Chosen" people.
That would also be an error, because the Jews being chosen is part of election.
In all other instances, scriptures mentioning predestination are ignored or spun to agree with only free-will without predestination of salvation.
That doesn't make a lot of sense.
A seeming paradox. However, as a human, I do not profess to understand the mind of God and am willing to say that what seems like a paradox to man might be completely routine to our omniscient God.
You misunderstood me I think.
He hardened pharoah's heart. And when Saul walked away form his meeting with Samuel, God "changed Saul's heart". So, if we accept the premise that God changes our hearts for his own reasons in these cases, then predestination of man's salvation does not seem too far of a stretch.
God can harden one's heart, but does his hardening override the chance to repent? When I grew up in the synagogue, we were taught that Pharoah's heart was hardened but never to the point of him having no free will left. I still believe this to this day. God was giving Pharoah what he wanted.
Without free-will, God cannot be just? I agree that, to the human mind, it does seem so at first glance. OR, is it that we are projecting our flawed humanity on our omnipotent and omniscient God by telling God what is justice and what is not justice?
OK....let me help you see this, because this is not about man's fallen and darkened human reason constructing stories to make sense of it all, this is about God's revealed character according to His self-disclosure in scripture.
The first point is that God's character is just:
Dt. 32:3 Because I will publish the name of the LORD: ascribe ye greatness unto our God.
4 He is the Rock, his work is perfect: for all his ways are judgment: a God of truth and without iniquity, just and right is he.
The second point is that God's creation reflects His nature and character. He created the universe for that reason.
Rom 1:20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
See Also Ps. 19 etc.
Therefore, if God is just, then His creation must reflect and display His justice, and the scriptures say it does.
If one believes that some are chosen by God for salvation and others not, and that God manipulates that person to believe, there is no justice. That person's doctrine is wrong, because it goes against God's character and against His purpose in creation. A person who is left in sin can give account to God why he never repented- because God did not call him to repentance. Rather, God was a bystander who let the man remain in sin when he could have stopped him. In other words, without free will, salvation and damnation, sin and holiness are God's fault. This goes against His character, and is a renaissance heresy invented by a lawyer.
Calvinism is based on a non-scriptural, pagan philosophy- determinism. It is found first of all in pagan literature. There are (now) in Christian thought two types of determinism, soft (where God manipulates the will to compel the human to do His bidding) and hard (where the human is under the illusion that he has made a choice, but God is forcing His will all the time) In both instances, humans are ultimately not accountable for their own actions. God cannot judge their actions righteously because he made them do it.
When one reads the Torah, one soon realises that the whole of the Law is directly connected to man's free will. There are abundant choices to make, every law being ultimately a choice.
However, man is fallen, and his free will is inclined toward the sinful. He cannot by his own strength be saved. So, what does God do about it? Wesleyans say that God's grace changes a man's heart enough to let him see his sins, and that brings about repentance, and the repentant heart is regenerated by a gracious act of God. Man cannot regenerate himself, God does it. Without this act of grace man would die in his sins, unable to see them and thus never able to repent of them.
The Calvinist says that God chooses some to salvation, and those he forces or manipulates their hearts to have faith. God just regenerates the ones He's picked to save, that leads them to repentance and rest are either left to their sins (as some Calvinists say) and the others are chosen to damnation (as other Calvinists say) The minute you question these people about this, they throw the old "who are you oh man?" line at you, completely abusing the scriptures and ignoring the violent offence to God's character that their untenable and unscriptural doctrine teaches.
Now, you are thinking "what about those texts that seem to imply that God determines man's fate?". Well, let's look at them in the context of His character, His justice, His perfection, His love and so forth, and in the context in which they are given. You can offer some, and if you like I will respond. I will give you the time.
I believe it comes down to the subject of original sin. God is not responsible for sin.
If you believe in any form of determinism, then He is responsible for sin, even the fall itself.
For some reason, God holds man accountable for his own sins.
Because He created us in His image, with free will. Without free will He could not hold us accountable because He is just.
As the scripture says, no one of us is good, not even one. Man seeks evil continually.
Yes, the free will is corrupted, man cannot save himself, his desire is inclined toward evil. This is true. We believe in fallen nature, but not to the point where an unregenerate man cannot hear God (as some extreme Calvinists and Lutherans claim) or respond to Him. The fallen sinner can hear and respond to God even in His fallen state (see Gen. 3:9-10). The image of God remains in the fallen man (this ultimately is why sins against each other are damning, because we insult and attack His image in each other)
So, it comes down to whether the glass is half empty or half full. If you are a half-empty person, then God is terrible for predestining (hardening the hearts) of the unrepented sinner and that just doesn't seem acceptable to some men/women. But if you are a half-full person, then God is showing great restraint and mercy by saving for himself, a remnant, by predestining them to salvation rather than letting the whole lot expire in their sin. God has shown us examples in the scripture where he has done this before such as when he saved a remnant of 7000 Jews for himself.
The whole premise upon which you base this dilemma is wrong. Start afresh.
The idea that predestination is carried out by God through manipulation of the human heart is not scriptural. Predestination is more about plan than activity. The term means to "draw a boundary around" or "mark out". That's all. The Bible says that believers are predestined (marked out, given a path, a boundary) to be conformed to the image of Jesus. Pretty simple. If you are a Christian, a believer, you are predestined to become like Jesus- that is the plan for you. This speaks nothing about monergism or free will or any of that paradigm that confuses so many American Christians today.