I have to disagree. You really made it sound like he should abandon his desire for a woman. You said that trying to attract a girl is a negative. On the contrary, it's the way God wired most guys. It's normal. You're right in that our focus should be on God. He really is the most important thing. That doesn't mean it's bad to try to attract a mate, though. The main thing is to not focus on your negatives. We have to trust God and focus on Him, but focusing on God and attracting a mate can be done at the same time. They are not mutually exclusive.
