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You are able to articulate your pov in a pleasant affable fashion.
Thank you.
All sins are forgivable except blasphemy of The Holy Spirit/unbelief.
Does the moment of repentance come into play ?
Yes I do think so. But I also think that repentance is a process as well. For example the act of repentance or as we Catholics sometimes use "doing penance" requires:
1) Realization that one has sinned.
2) Humble and contrite heart.
3) Confession
4) Absolution
5) Reparation
6) A commitment to no longer sin
Points one and two are actually graces given to us by God. When we have sinned, it is God that opens in our hearts and minds the realization that a sin has been committed, and it is His grace that calls us to repentance. Once we realize we have sinned, we should then understand the magnitude of what we have done; and that should lead us to having a humbled and contrite heart, for our actions.
Afterwards we must confess that sin, i.e. acknowledge that sin, and that we did that sin; not the devil, not our friends, we did it.
If we have fulfilled two and three, then our sins are forgiven. We can take confidence in that, as St. John tells us in his 1st letter:
1:[9] If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just, to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all iniquity. Absolution comes from God and Him alone. Even in the case of the Sacrament of Confession we Catholics possess, the priest who is making the absolution in doing so "Persona Christi" i.e. in the Person of Christ.
Afterwards, we must make reparation for our actions, for all sin has consequences, and for that we must make reparation, and really our absolution is dependent upon this as well. (For example if I steal a car, and then go to God for forgiveness, but do not return the car, am I really repenting? No, no I am not.)
But also we need to have the intention to resist this evil in the future. We must make resolutions to help us overcome the evil that we are bogged down in. Even though we may fall again to the same sin, each time we must get up and commit to resisting this evil. Eventually we will overcome it, because if we are fighting this evil, there is no doubt God is helping us fight it.
Inotherwords, you and I both commit a mortal sin. You are on a timeline to confess your sin and return to a state of grace. You do not want to die in a state of mortal sin. I too would share that urgency of reconciliation. God in His mercy would sting my conscience. The godly sorrow that leads to repentance would lead to confession and forgiveness. Since God said that He would keep us to the end, and that He would never leave us, I am assured that God would not àllow me to die with unconfessed sin.
I'm not in disagreement with you on this one. And perhaps it is the way that we are approaching the situation here, and I am fine with that personally. The results are the same, albeit the approach is different.
Of course I pray neither of us commit an eggregious act.
Amen!, I as well. It is written that we should pray for each other, and I am all for that.