Well, my position is the one taught in Scripture. God does not call women to be pastors. God's word is very clear on this. We have to remember that it's not what we want or think, but rather what God wants, and He has told us this in His word. It really cannot be disputed without tearing down Scripture.
Open Communion also goes against what Scripture teaches. It is an unloving, uncaring practice that allows people to committ a sin at the altar of God.
It's what Satan said to Eve, "Did God really say...?" That is the problem with the ELCA's view of Scripture. They have totally twisted it to say what they want it to say to justify their heterodoxy. They have basically disclaimed a majority of what Paul wrote under Spiritual inspiration, thus justifying their practices of women's ordination, open communion, homosexual tolerance, and supoort of abortion on demand. Their higher/historical-critical interpretation of the Bible tears down God's word and turns it into mere human opinion.
Which means what exactly?
Again, according the God's word, homosexuality is inherantly sinful. The homosexual lifestyle is a lifestyle of unrepentance. Unrepentant sin cannot and is not forgiven. How can someone who is openly (or even hiddenly) living in a state of unrepentant sin, and a sin that God Himself calls an abomination and those who practice such will not enter the Kingdom of heaven, possibly be a pastor of God's people. It is indeed a big issue for the Church.
The ELCA is in altar fellowship with several Reformed church bodies (PC-USA, RCA, UCC, UMC) which reject the doctrine of the Real Presence of Christ's body and blood in the Sacrament of the Lord's Supper. The Lutheran Confessions clearly state that Lutherans reject all who teach contrary to the Real Presence. The ELCA is actively allowing people to sin and bring judgement upon themselves because they don't discern the Lord's body according to 1 Corinthians 11.
Among that group is the United Church of Christ which does not require its clergy to believe in the Trinity. By entering into full fellowship, the ELCA is basically saying that it is not necessary to believe in the Triune God. There is no other god. One cannot be a Christian without believing in the Trinity. Therefore, the ELCA is in fellowship with a semi-Christian cult.
I could not say so. Your positions as you have explained them above are not at all in line with what the Lutheran Church holds, teaches, and confesses. If you truly believe in the unBiblical practices of women's ordination, open communion, and homosexual tolerance in the clergy, then the LCMS wouldn't be the right fit for you.
If you are open and willing to study these teachings and practices to understand what the Scriptures say about these issues, then you should persue that in an LCMS church.