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Why call motherhood a "job"????

GolfingMom

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I view anything that involves responsibilities and duties as a job. That's why I see my being a SAHM position as a job. It's what I do. It's my job to care for the kids in various ways during the day. It just is. I guess I'm not sure what the big deal is. OK, there are some things different about being a SAHM, and yes, it can be viewed as a "higher calling". But I don't see anything wrong with calling what I do a job also. It's just a word. I don't use it to try to make myself look better than how I feel.

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To me, it is a job. It is a career, it is my life. I work 24/7/365 and rarely, if ever, get time off. It is a calling, too and it was my decision. It is a blessing and I am grateful that I get to stay at home. I won't be "going back to work" because I *AM* at work.

I'll be the one to come out and say this, though (not the case with me, but with some...it is); not *ALL* mommies choose to have their children. :)
 
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For me it's a ministry and the greatest one I think the Lord could bless me with! I mean think about it as mommies we have our own unreached people group right under our roofs, what an amazing ministry raising our babies to grow to be people who loves the Lord!
 
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To me being a mom is not a job, being a wife is not a job, getting an animal is not a job... these are choices I made but, yes the dreaded but... with these entitlements comes jobs. Cleaning, cooking, laundry, mowing, paying bills, scheduling appointments, taking dogs for walks, bathing the animals, etc.. the list could go on... these are where the "job" title comes into play. I know some might say that cleaning, cooking, etc.. should not be considered jobs because that is just loving/nurturing your family. I don't agree with that. I can love/nurture my family with a dirty house, dishes in the sink and a mountain of laundry to do. Just my thoughts :)
 
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