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Why aren't you a Christian?

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PassionFruit

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I have my reasons.

Christianity never really made me feel I was growing as person. So that's one reason why I'm not a Christian.

I don't like many of the patriarchal aspects of it.

francais mentioned the issue of the "Chosen Nation" or "Chosen People." I don't believe that. That's just not right to me.

I don't believe Christianity should the be one and only path to God, self improvement, happiness, having morals. In other words, I don't believe Christianity (or any other religion for that matter) to be the "right" one. Or the religion that supposed to have all the answers to life questions. Like "why are we here? how did we get here?"

The behavior of some Christians has also caused me to move away from Christianity. Such as the self rightousness, the irrational hostility towards other belief systems. Also, having de-converting from Christianity, when I made the decision to do so, there were rumors spreading around my former church that I was "cursed." Now, you have wonder how this would make me feel.

As Friction mentioned, the morality of the Christian God.

Finally I would like to address the last part of dlamberth post. Yeah, I believe that about Christianity as well, being a failed religion.
 
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How has it failed?? I am sorry I can't multi quote so you will have to read my responses in the main body of the text of your post I quoted.

God bless,
carey
 
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You mean like Santa Claus? Nope.

You might like this one

http://www.fixedearth.com/PART II Paganism.htm

THE Plan of God is evident by the simple fact of supernatural fulfillment of prophesies. Leaving aside over 300 documented prophecy fulfillments from the Old Testament into the first century A.D., let us focus on just one fulfillment that is coming to pass before our very eyes. This is the fulfillment of a prophecy put in writing over 1900 years ago, namely the prophecy of a One World Government.

No other religion’s holy books even remotely compare with such a proof of supernatural origin. None. This same kind of proof of supernatural origin can be seen repeatedly in the historically recorded fulfillment of scores of Old Testament prophecies over a 1500 year period,. Only an omniscient God can make such prophecies and fulfill them to the letter hundreds of years down the road. Only an omniscient, omnipresent, and omnipotent God could describe over an 1100 year period from Moses (Genesis 3:15) through Isaiah (Is. 53) and on through Zechariah (9:9; 11:12,13; etc.) thirty specific prophecies about the crucifixion of Jesus that are historically corroborated to have been fulfilled in one day!

If you want to mess with that kind of God Who is capable of that kind of foreknowledge and the power to bring it to pass--not to mention the entire design of all creation!--it’s your call! But, be assured you will lose! HE has made it plain that there is an eternal paradise on a New Earth in His Plan, and that "whosoever will" (Rev. 22:17) can be there. This Plan beats all the other claimants coming and going. If you hate deceptions and can eagerly embrace the Truths that are going to expose those deceptions in the Fall of Babylon you’ll be on your way. Don’t let false pride stand in your way when you find out how many deceptions have fooled you. It’s happened to all of us. The main thing (for those not inclined to have Satan as their god) is to change and follow every Truth that God will show us and will confirm in His Word. HE will receive ALL who come seeking Him in this manner with an honest heart for, unlike the god of any other religion, HE is "no respecter of persons" (Rom. 2:11):​
There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus. and if ye be Christ’s, then are ye Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise (Gal.3:28,29).​
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any compromise of the Purely Secular Model of "creation" or "origins". If its foundational godless "Creation" Model--i.e., its "Thesis"--is compromised, i.e., if the Purists accept some kind of supernatural explanation for all that exists (which they are absolutely forced to do by the sheer design and function of endless examples all around every one of us), then credibility of the entire "purely scientific" Model is, in fact, no longer viable HERE. This unavoidable compromise with its former Antithesis--a compromise whereby a Supernatural creator of some sort is accepted --also results in a Synthesis. Thus, when the credibility of the Purest/Atheistic philosophy/religion is destroyed at its "creationist" roots and is forced to incorporate supernaturalism into its system, the same kind of vacuum grabs the new Synthesis by the throat and ushers Paganism--a new Thesis--onto the world stage. (In this context, Hegel’s "Thesis, Antithesis, Synthesis, " idea reaches its apotheosis....)

We already know a good bit about the way this Synthesis is being brought to fruition in Christendom by the Theoretical Science Establishment’s near-destruction of the Creation Account taught in the Bible. And we are suddenly witnessing a dramatic rise of Paganism in Churches as a result of this widespread attempt to accept the "Origins Scenario" of a godless cosmology in place of the "Origins Scenario" of the Bible. The goal in all this Bashing of the Bible with the velvet hammer of ecumenical tolerance for all religions is well advanced. That goal is to reduce Jesus to a "good teacher" and "nice guy" status. "Really now​
(can’t you hear it?), this Son of God dogmatism is just unacceptable in our enlightened age. I mean, Jesus can have billing alongside Buddha and Mohammed and Confucius and the Dali Lama, Zoroaster, and Elvis, but we’ve got to be tolerant of all religions and beliefs, y’know, `and that is that. After all...as science has shown us... there is no Absolute Truth about god and we need to proceed on that basis allowing everybody to worship whatever they want to...." Puke.

Aside from the dumb conclusion echoed throughout academia that "there is no Absolute Truth"...dumb because it is stated as an Absolute Truth...just suppose there is not only absolute truth about a host of things (ex. real scientific facts), but suppose that the Bible really does contain the Absolute Truth given to mankind by God just as it declares and just as billions of smart people have confirmed over thousands of years.... Go a step further with that supposition: Suppose that this embodiment of Absolute Truth from God in the Bible is the sole target that Satan--created with no truth in him by a God who makes no mistakes (Jn.8:44)-- must destroy...by any and all deceptive means in his power...including the erection of false religions and false science??

Few would argue that Satan’s success in destroying Biblical integrity is not far advanced in the churches. But, not to worry! In this supposition that the destruction of Biblical integrity is Satan’s primary goal--which is a thoroughly defensible supposition--we cannot loose sight of the Scriptural fact that all of Satan’s initiatives must be viewed as part of a Sovereign God’s Plan which was fully codified before the beginning of the world (Acts 15:18; Eph. 1:4; I Pet. 1:20; etc.).

 
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Finally I would like to address the last part of dlamberth post. Yeah, I believe that about Christianity as well, being a failed religion.
I have come to believe that Christianity has become a failed religion because basically, it has lost touch with it's own spiritual ground. For instance, where Jesus taught love and compassion and the Golden Rule, because they could not get those teachings in the Christian Church, I know many folks who have had to go to Buddhism to learn them.

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How has it failed?? I am sorry I can't multi quote so you will have to read my responses in the main body of the text of your post I quoted.

God bless,
carey
[FONT=&quot]"IF"...and that's a mighty big "IF, Christianity had actually lived up to the ideals of it's founder, that being Love and Compassion and treating others as you would be treated, I have no doubt that today, after 2000 years of Love and Compassion, that we would see a lot less wars in the world, (maybe even none), that we would have no or very little world hunger or people dying for lack of water, most people would have a roof over their heads and medical access. And I have no doubt that there would be very little human rights issues that we see today and that we would see the earth in a lot better ecological shape than it is in now.

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[/list]A very short while before your deconversion, you very self-assuredly told us God would not be fair if he didn't send people to Hell for rejecting him. Was all that a facade of rationalization to avoid an inconvenient truth?

that was me trying to accept it, but in my heart i always knew that eternal hell was such a disgusting thing.

ask worldfriction.. once she IMed me and said "why is hell eternal, that is horrible" and I could not come up with a response, so you know what my response was?! "well, people used to not always think it was bad." Yea! That was my llame excuse.. Because I had nothing else to justify such!!

when I was a christian, i said some pretty interesting things.. i said i was a creationist... now, thinking about creationism makes me SICK. i said that a christian nation would not be bad... now, i can not even think about how disgusting a christian nation would be! when i was christian, i said that creationism should be taught in schools.. now, i oppose to that 100%.

my heart was sealed as a christian. i tried to believe things that i did not really think ere right. and, i just conformed myself to the bible.

however, i have opened my mind, and now can not stomach some of the things i believed just a short while ago!

i always hated the view of eternal hell.. and i tried so hard to not believe in eternal hell. however, since i believed in an infallible pope, i sort of made myself. but even then, i tried to conform my beliefs to my ways of thinking.. "oh, maybe it is not bad, maybe there is no torture." When the bible clearly says otherwise!!

eternal hell is the most disgusting, sadistic thing ever. if i ever met someone like i was a month ago, i would probably hit them!
 
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I remember debating you when you were a Christian, you weren't that bad! At least I never wanted to hit you.

I also remember your "coming out post". I had to do a double take. Huh? Is francais really arguing on the same side as me?

Good stuff man.
 
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None of this has anything to do with God or with living in the awareness of the Divine. It's all about fear. Period!! I believe that's why many are no longer Christian.

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No other religion can provide that much prophetic proof? I disagree.

Only one religion - Judaism - has prophecies fulfilled by Jesus. Here is a website with prophecies from EIGHT religions, including Judaism and Christianity, that these people claim have been fulfilled by their Faith.

http://www.bci.org/prophecy-fulfilled/
 
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Firstly, I_Are_Sceptical, if you go to jewsforjudaism.org, you'll find that even the Jewish prophecies aren't fulfilled suitably by Jesus.

Take it from someone who was bar-mitzvahed, hehe.

I'm not any religion anymore, my politics and philosophy are my religion. I've always seen Christianity as dictated morality and based on superstition and word-of-mouth myths written down. Christianity has so much in common with religions of the time, the astrological symbols, the conflict between a good deity and a lesser, evil deity, etc.

Plus I always reject supernatural stuff. Christianity has never and never will be compatible with the things I believe in and hold dear.
I'm antithetical to it, so to speak...
But I find people's beliefs intriguing, so I like to observe and find out. I find it fascinating, but I would never personally touch it, for any reason.
 
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Well if I am bad to someone intentionally I would have them do unto me as bad or worse as I did unto them because I would feel I desreve it.

Wars in the world are to prove Jesus was right.

Matthew 24 : 6You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. 7Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in various places. 8All these are the beginning of birth pains.
(Eartquakes cause Tsunamis)

World hunger is because of lack of belief in Christ and proof that Christs word is correct.

Christianity is not here to prevent world hunger. It is to teach us to be happy hungry . persecuted or in any circumstance.

The ecological shape the world is in is proof that the prophecies in the Bible are real.

Global warming will cause adverse weather causin 100 pound as Prophecied.

Air pollution hugely increases the size of hail , and thus the amount of damage it can cause to crops and property, according to a study presented Wednesday at the European Conference on Severe Storms




http://www.terradaily.com/reports/Air_pollution_causes_bigger_more_destructive_hail_999.html

From Florida Today
TAMPA - Neighbors told police that a slight whistling sound was the only indication that a 100 - pound block of ice was hurtling towards the earth.

Revelation 16:21 (New International Version)
21From the sky huge hailstones of about a hundred pounds each fell upon men. And they cursed God on account of the plague of hail , because the plague was so terrible.

http://tallahassee.com/legacy/specia...mages-car.html

http://www.tampabays10.com/news/loca...?storyid=48194

http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=506

I typed in " 100 pound ice chunks" and came up with the links. I can't vouch for the sites but it gives you a start to find the stories about the ice.

It looks like it's happening all over the world.

Sounds like to me that Christianity has not only worked but the Holy word it is based on seems to continually be proven infalible.
 
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Firstly, I_Are_Sceptical, if you go to jewsforjudaism.org, you'll find that even the Jewish prophecies aren't fulfilled suitably by Jesus.

Take it from someone who was bar-mitzvahed, hehe.
That is correct. Of course if Jesus did not fulfill EVERY prophecy in the Bible, including the Final "END of TIME" on the OC Jewish Nation, then of course He could not be the Jewish Messiah.

Zechariah 8:23 Thus sayeth YHWH-of Hosts: in-Days, the-those, which They-shall-take-fast/hold a-hem/wing, Ten Mortals/Men/0582 'enowsh, from-all Tongues-of the-Nations.
And-They-take-fast/hold in-hem-of/03671 kanaph a-Man/0376 'iysh, a-Judean/Y@huwdiy, to-say 'We-are-going with-You that We-hear Elohiym with-You'.

Mark 6:56 And the-where ever He into-journeyed into villages, the cities, the fields/hamlets, in their market-places, they place the ones being sick and they beside-called Him that if-even the hang-foot of the garment of Him they should be touching, and as manysoever as touch of Him/it, were Saved.
 
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Yet, the Jewish Messiah's arrival is supposed to end war, end the persecution of Jews, and be a man, not another dimension of God.

As well, Judaism never spoke of hell, it spoke of Sheol, a void where one is disconnected from God for a time, but there's no mention of eternal torment or other such barbarism.

If anything, Jesus brought more persecution (albeit indirectly) onto the Jews.
 
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Christianity is not here to prevent world hunger.
I disagree. If Christians, as a group, put Jesus' teachings into practice hunger would cease to exist all over the world.

That is why I like the Baha'i Faith, why I joined. One of it's major purposes is to make this world a better, happier place.
 
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Hi. We know JESUS fulfilled the first part of Isaiah 61:2 but what about the "day of Vengeance" concerning the second part?

Isaiah 61:2 To call Year of good pleasure of YHWH,...

John 19:28 After this, the Jesus having perceived that already All has-been-finished/tetelestai <5055> (5769), that may be being finished/teleiwqh <5048> (5686) the Scripture/grafh <1124>, He is saying "I am thirsting/diyw <1372> (5719)

Isaiah 61:2............And a Day of Vengeance of our Elohiym, To comfort all mourners.

Reve 16:17 and the seventh one pours out the bowl of him upon the air and came out a voice, great, out of the sanctuary from the throne saying: "it has become"/gegonen <1096> (5754).
 
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So you don't believe in beings or forces vastly more powerful/ superior than humans??

I believe in the Divine, so yes, I do. I do not believe in the whole 'Satan made me do it' excuse, though - especially since the whole concept doesn't make any sense... This thread was created to show people that it just isn't that black and white in reality. There is more to it.
 
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