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Jack of Spades

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Would be especially interesting if you took people from the same community like CF Singles.

Yeah, having a bit of background knowledge would be better than total strangers.

Game on!

Okay ladies, who wants to marry me? ...or actually nevermind, let's rather just ask, who will marry me? No need to worry about particularly wanting it!

Please be quick, the clock is ticking!
 
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Haha! I think most anime are very clear on what is right and what is wrong. In the anime there are terrible people. But at the end they always get what is coming to them. I don't recall seeing that many anime where the bad guys wins or gets away with it at the end.

I guess she idolized some evil characters in the animes and never saw their endings.
 
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Plus I question whether women are really worth it after seeing videos like these...




Well, not every woman is a gold digger. XD

There is no explanation needed. She will just break up with him and find another guy that doesn't know this story.

And from what I can see, chances are she was already cheating on her BF before this incident. She didn't even think twice about her loyalty to her BF. All she ask the guy was "Do you really have a jet?" Her decision to cheat was never in question.
 
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My heart burns from what your friends said. So they are pretty much saying their husband sucks and is not really what they wanted. But they are "forced" to marry their husband because there is no better options.

And in the same breath they are saying you aren't as good as you think you are. So you must lower your standards.

What an insult to you and their own husbands!

Are these women Christians? They are so lost they need to talk to a pastor who knows what it it means to love. If they think they are "so perfect" and their husbands are "so bad", they have no idea what happened when the perfect Jesus loved and died for the sinful Christians. They got some nerve to complain against their God given husbands this way. They don't realize that they themselves are sinners and, now that Jesus has forgiven them, that they must love their sinful husband.

Instead of asking "Is my husband doing good enough to love me?", why don't they ask "Am I doing good enough to love my husband?"

As for yourself, ignore what they say. What they said came purely from the world. There is not a single word there that is from God. You just focus on loving God, loving others and yourself. Go out and meet more new people, real life and online. And wait upon the Lord. =)
 
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We were talking about virtues like patience, being a gentleman, intelligence, responsible, etc.

Those are very fair standards. You should stand firm here.

The bad standards (not what you are doing) are "I want a guy who is 6.5 feet, 6 packs, makes $3 million a year, has his own yacht so we can go fishing, oh and he must be funny!"
 
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The bad view is that good guys ends up with sloppy seconds.

The good view is that good guys wins at the very end.

Same situation. We Christians are call to view one over the other. =)
 
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lol, no I am pretty sure she isn't christian. Honestly, the majority of women in my office have that sort of mentality, but I suppose I used to as well.
I think when people get drowned in the distracting noises of the world, materialistic values always become the goal, even obsession.
It is easy to get caught up in those ideas, and when you live with that impression of yourself, of men, and of the world for so long, what else is there?
I feel sorry for their husbands more than I do them.. lol. They can be rather nasty.

Thanks for the support.
As I stated earlier, I learned many lessons the hard way from chasing men for the wrong reasons.
I am cool with leaving it up to what God may have in store for me.
 
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I never had a GF until I was 31 years old. So for well over a decade I faced rejection after rejection by the ladies. And I understand that it was extremely disheartening.

It was not until I found my EX and my current GF that I realized the truth: If a girl likes you, she will make is very easy for you to date her.

Why? Because she wants you to succeed in dating her.

A relationship is two sided. Both sides have to give and take. So when you find the right one, you will feel that she is also pulling the weight. You do not have to be the only one pulling the weight in the relationship. That would be no relationship at all.

But back in those days of rejection, I just keep on talking to the ladies and they keep on bushing me off. Some did it politely. Others flat out disrespected me. And back then my opinion was that all girls in the world hate me. But trust me, that is the wrong conclusion.

The girls that do not like you will indeed reject you. But that is ok. You are asked to marry one and only one girl. Dating less is good because there will be less heart breaks for you. Have faith that the right girl will accept you and help you win her over.
 
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If a girl likes you, she will make is very easy for you to date her.

That is so true. My best memory of such thing was with a workmate, I had a crush on her, and there was this thing happening nearby, where I knew that a lot of people from our work were going to go. So, I decided to go to ask if she wants to go there with me, and when I went to her, we both spilled it out at the same time "So, are you going there?" and then laughed a bit. It's my best memory of asking someone out, we were in perfectly equal grounds after both showing the same interest.
 
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I'm single because I can't be bothered to meet a woman's parents...again...and seek approval...again.

I'm single because I can't pretend to like her poor choices in friends.

I'm single because I'd much rather stay indoors cleaning a rifle and watching DUNE for the umpteen millionth time.

I'm single because I plan to live in the woods like an 18th century hermit and gals don't dig pooping in a bucket.

I'm single because I like looking like a hobo with bad fashion sense and don't care to change it.

I'm single because I prefer to be the most immature 40 year old on the planet.

I'm single because I'm smart enough to know that if I want loyalty and unconditional love, I should have a dog, not a GF.
 
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nah dogs are jerks... they are always wanting you to throw their toy. and they make all kinds of annoying sounds at you for not throwing the toy. after you throw the toy they make annoying sounds because they want you to throw the toy more. dogs don't love humans, they love the toys we give them. talk about materialistic and selfish.
 
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