Moodshadow -- I am aware that the therapist's 25% was not limited to "missionaries" - but were simply "unhappy Mormons/recovering Mormons" or such... (I'm going to get yelled at by someone for putting this in with your text, but I don't know how else to answer so many different things - sorry.) Yes, you are correct about that, but someone else made what seemed to be a skewed inference, and that's why I said what I did. Was not intending to accuse anyone, for sure.
For 15 years, I lived in Garland - a "not as affluent" suburb/adjoining township of Dallas - Plano and Garland used to be their own towns, but expansion meshed all these into essentially part of "Dallas" - I mean, you can't really tell where "Dallas ends" and "Garland" or "Plano" begins -- except for a sign... Yes again - but don't you think that's pretty much true of most large urban areas now? They grow so fast the boundaries blur. Where I live, you can drive on the same street for many miles and never turn, but the cotton-pickin' thing changes names three times because it passes through that many different municipalities. It makes it hard when we're trying to direct people who don't live here.
Anyway -- what is Flds? FUNDAMENTAL Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. These are the people who made such huge headlines a while back when their very sequestered Central Texas compound was raided by local authorities and CPS because it was discovered that Warren Jeffs, their "prophet," had taken numerous very young girls as his "wives" and was aiding and abetting his male followers in doing the same. It made for sensational and lurid reading, all right, and ended with Jeffs being sent to prison and ultimately the compound being abandoned (I think). The people have not all abandoned the religion, however; they've just moved to other places - Nevada, maybe? I forget where. Someone else here can help us out with that, if anyone really cares...
How come LDS - when confronted with something - say "Oh, that's NOT REALLY US" -- that's (whatever letter)LDS - not the "real thing" Because technically it's really not the same thing, though they all believe Joseph Smith was a prophet, and they all got their start that way. The mainstream SLC LDS church totally disavows any offshoot, and probably the others feel the same way about the Utah church.
and in the same breath mutter "splintered Christianity in need of restoration" - "30,000 denominations" etc etc Let's face it: we human beings are narrow-minded because our perspective and knowledge and understanding are very limited. Hypocrisy will never go away, no matter how much we want it to. At least not until the Savior returns and establishes truth and order and peace on the earth... (End of Sermonette No. 379, and thank you for "listening.")