When I was about 14,I used to act mean to girls.One time,my little and only sister,accidently locked herself out of the kitchen. She started knocking on the door. I laughed and decided to wait about 30 seconds to let her in. Well,in about 20 seconds,my father came into the kitchen. I hurried to the door to let her in. My father was so dissappointed in me that I was sadistic to my sister.
One lady once told me, when I was 15," You will catch more flies with an once of HONEY,than with a gallon of VINEGAR." So...,in my twenties,I OVERCOMPENSATED and stared to treat the opposite sex with repsect and kindness,therefore,getting nowhere.
After I started acting,I began to realize WHY good women are attracted to bad men. I found out that it is more fun to play the villian,than it is to play the hero,or good guy. When I do my church's Easter Productions,it was way more fun to play a Pharisee than it is to play a disciple.
You see,there is something about evil that is exciting! Junk food tastes better than healthy food. Jesus did not sin because Jesus hates sin like most kids hate broccoli.
You give a child a choice between ice cream and broccoli,and the ice cream will win EVERY time. If you hate something,NO amount of temptation will cause you to give in.Since we do not hate bad things,as humans,we NEED GOD's help to resist temptation,if something bad is being presented to us.. If it is something that we HATE,such as squash,grits,brussel sprouts, oatmeal,nasty tasting medicine,or broccoli,then NO amount of temptation would cause us to give in,because most of us HATE that stuff.
Well,that is my theory,anyway. If GOD had fixed our male bodies so that only married men would enjoy sex,and that sex outside of marriage would feel painful like a kick in the groin,then there would be NO sexual sin by men.
