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Who will go for me?

Rose Kuo

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I have discovered that recently the friend I have been praying for to get out of the cult has gotten into a bit of a jam. I tried to send him a message through my sister about meeting to reconcile and I guess the fellow who controls him got a hold of it. So my friend tried to reach me to tell me he was upset, I don't know if he is upset with me or the fellow. But knowing the cult he was probably told that he shouldn't have been contacting me these last 5 1/2 years. Since he was told he could not speak verbally to me the contact has been silent mainly silent calls and emails. But the last call I received also had the addition of button pressing. This was his way of expressing either he was angry at me or the other fellow I do not know what he was trying to say. (The silent calls were his way of communicating.) But since this last call on 7/5 there has been no contact and I worry that he has been intimidated again by the cult master. I thought with our increased contact that maybe he'd finally get the courage to speak with me and to finally meet with me. But this is another set back. It has taken so long to get to the point (5 1/2 yrs) we were at in June. I had seen him on the street at the end of June and we stood and smiled at each other and I thought that soon we'd be speaking or meeting. But now this thing has happened.

I need to have someone go to him and tell him how I feel and that I am for him and only wish to meet to be kind to him and reconcile at last. But I have no idea who could or would be willing. (I even thought maybe having someone who the cult does not know sending a small email would help, since they usually don't tap unknown emails. They have a system where only known email addresses are tapped.)

So I need prayer and for God to raise up someone who will be willing to help. I guess it has to be another guy. I need help since I miss him and I know the deeper he gets into the cult's control the more brainwashed he will become.

Pray for him his name is Allan. He is a dear person and I hope he will have courage to reach out to me. Until then I need wisdom in how to reach out to him. Thanks--Rose
 

tyr0ne

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The cult is really a Christian Church that is acting like it is a cult
I dont get what you mean there.
Just start to speak the word of God over his life and you will see the devil's power broken. There is no weapon more powerful than the Sword of the Spirit :D
 
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Rose Kuo

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TyrOne,
What I mean is they are not officially listed as a cult. They are a denominational church. But I was in an officially listed cult that is actually in books that expose cults. But through my experience with with how cults work, the control and the evil intent to create fear and mind control in the adherents, this church fit right into the pattern that would justify them being called a cult. The co pastor who came against me (and my dear friend) was in a cult for years and only knows how to deal with people as he learned in the cult, through fear and intimidation.

I will try to speak more of the Word over him. I may not be doing this enough. Thanks--Rose
 
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Well there are x-denomination sites as well if she is in some weird church.:idea:

The church is so controlling that you cannot get a message to her? :scratch: That sounds weird. doesn't sound healthy.
That minister WAS in a cult? Maybe you should call another church in that denomination and talk to them about what is going on.

Like say if it were Baptist you can call the head of the Southern Baptists and report the weirdness and tell them you are concerned. :help:
 
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Rose Kuo

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KidDitto,
My friend is a guy. He is part of the church, but the cult "master" or jr. pastor was in a cult and the church there does not know all the things he has done against others. He is a good actor and plainly lies to the head pastor on a regular basis. My friend and I did not recognize the evil in this person till we crossed paths with him. The head pastor is so attached to this bad fellow that he would never believe he has abused so many people, of whom my friend and I are part. So if I went to the denomiation head quarters I'd be called a liar, the head pastor there is highly respected. He is hopefully ignorant of all of the lies, otherwise he is part of them.

So I do not wish to be part of that church anymore and I left. But my friend does not have the strength or faith to do so yet. He is afraid to loose all that he has accomplished over the years. But God would provide, he just can't see this.

Pray for him to come out of this mess and to be able to come and meet with me, soon.

Thank you for your advice and for prayer. --Rose
 
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