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I feel encouraged when I read your posts. I was beginning to feel "left behind in the slow lane" especially since my 30th birthday.I had my first when I was 35!! It was awesome.
But.... people would always ask.. when are you having kids? Don't you want kids?
I think it's kinda personal and it's everyones decision when/if they have kids.
I feel encouraged when I read your posts. I was beginning to feel "left behind in the slow lane" especially since my 30th birthday.
Well, that makes two of us.No children here, either...yet. I do want to be a mom someday, but some things have to happen before then...such as marriage!![]()
blessings,
~Michele![]()
I would love to have had kids by now but it's up to God if and when I do have any.
It's not unusual when people find out my age for them to ask why and even assume I don't want any because if I did they assume I would have done so by now.

I was reading this thread adn thought wow there are other woman out there who dont have children in their thirties. I am 39 and although my situation is not by choice. I was unable to have chilcren and its so hard sometimes to say "i cant have children" and everyone seems like they want to ask! Anyway gald to know i amnot alone....Many blessings to you all
Yeah it gets tiresome.

What bothers me is people who don't stop to think before they question why you haven't got children, they don't stop to think that maybe one can't have children. Not every couple hasn't got children by choice.