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Now you are referring to biological sex. When you say plumbing are you referring to genitalia? I'm going to guess you are. I wasn't talking about plumbing. I'm talking about gender. Your statement doesn't answer my questions at all.

If gender is a spectrum and the spectrum has male in one end and female on the other, how does one know they have arrived at the male or female end? What exactly is the male gender and the female gender? When a man says he is a woman how does he know he has arrived at that gender? What exactly is he identifying as?

Your trite comment doesn't answer any of those questions.
I don’t need to come up with anything more than the acknowledgement that sex≠gender, necessarily.
Usually it does, even, yes, for 99.4% of the people sex does equal gender.

Can we agree on that!?

But for the 0.6% of the population sex≠gender

Your method to deal with these poor individuals is to tell them sex=gender all of the time and there are no exceptions, ever, so they should look in the mirror and accept that fact or just generally go away.
 
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I don’t need to come up with anything more than the acknowledgement that sex≠gender, necessarily.
Usually it does, even, yes, for 99.4% of the people sex does equal gender.

Can we agree on that!?

But for the 0.6% of the population sex≠gender

Your method to deal with these poor individuals is to tell them sex=gender all of the time and there are no exceptions, ever, so they should look in the mirror and accept that fact or just generally go away.

That still doesn't answer any of the questions. What do you mean that sex doesn't equal gender. You just said it does for 99% of the population. What do you mean by that? I thought gender is a spectrum. Does that mean that 99% of us has reached the end of the spectrum? How do we know? How does a man reach the woman end of the spectrum? How would he know he has arrived there.

I've said all along that there are only two genders. Male and female which also equals sex. So how does a male know he has arrived on the female end of the spectrum?

What is he identifying as?

If gender is a spectrum what is someone who is 3/4 male or 3/4 female?

If male and female are objective enough to be on either end of the spectrum and one can know they are male of female how can it also be a spectrum where one can be both neither or in between? One claims that gender is not binary yet when we describe gender as a spectrum it is always referred to as a binary of male and female. How can that be? How can gender not be binary and yet still binary at the same time? What I am hearing is that sex and gender are the same thing.

These are questions that need to be answered before making the claim it's a spectrum. One must explain what that means.

Now if you are saying that there is a male and female sex. And .6% of the population think they are the opposite sex then we could have something to work with. Are you saying that .6% of the population think they are the opposite sex?
 
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That still doesn't answer any of the questions. What do you mean that sex doesn't equal gender. You just said it does for 99% of the population. What do you mean by that? I thought gender is a spectrum. Does that mean that 99% of us has reached the end of the spectrum? How do we know? How does a man reach the woman end of the spectrum? How would he know he has arrived there.

I've said all along that there are only two genders. Male and female which also equals sex. So how does a male know he has arrived on the female end of the spectrum?

What is he identifying as?

If gender is a spectrum what is someone who is 3/4 male or 3/4 female?

If male and female are objective enough to be on either end of the spectrum and one can know they are male of female how can it also be a spectrum where one can be both neither or in between? One claims that gender is not binary yet when we describe gender as a spectrum it is always referred to as a binary of male and female. How can that be? How can gender not be binary and yet still binary at the same time? What I am hearing is that sex and gender are the same thing.

These are questions that need to be answered before making the claim it's a spectrum. One must explain what that means.

Now if you are saying that there is a male and female sex. And .6% of the population think they are the opposite sex then we could have something to work with. Are you saying that .6% of the population think they are the opposite sex?
This topic is a hobby-horse for you. Great, I hope you enjoy “fighting-the-good-fight”; I’m only here as an interested observer and don’t need to be “right”.
I give my opinions and if they are not to your liking you challenge them (as one is wont to do in a debate forum), that’s fine.

But what you miss in all of your intellectual wranglings is that there are real, actual people who, through no fault of their own, convinced that the bodies that they find themselves in are “not correct”.
Pointing them to a mirror and telling them (in effect) to “deal with it”, might actually work for 50% of them.

What about the 0.3% for whom this doesn’t work?
What about them?

Enjoy your day.
 
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This topic is a hobby-horse for you. Great, I hope you enjoy “fighting-the-good-fight”; I’m only here as an interested observer and don’t need to be “right”.
I give my opinions and if they are not to your liking you challenge them (as one is wont to do in a debate forum), that’s fine.

But what you miss in all of your intellectual wranglings is that there are real, actual people who, through no fault of their own, convinced that the bodies that they find themselves in are “not correct”.
Pointing them to a mirror and telling them (in effect) to “deal with it”, might actually work for 50% of them.

What about the 0.3% for whom this doesn’t work?
What about them?

Enjoy your day.
Gee since you admit why we have this forum. To share opinions and then have others challenge us on them. You seemed a bit peeved at the fact I challenged you. You sure aren't adverse to challenging others opinions or statements. You do it all the time.

Yes they are real actual people. And no one has forgotten that. That's why they need help.

You can't find yourself in a body to which you do t belong. You are in the body to which you belong. The struggle is learning how to navigate that. If you THINK you are in the wrong body then you have an mental state that needs to be addressed. And you don't address that by pointing to a mirror and telling them to deal with it. Cause that's what we do all the time with anyone who has a mental state problem right?

Your comment is an obvious attempt to push an agenda. An agenda to paint a picture that you know good a well is a false one. The very idea you could make such a statement when I know you have read an aweful lot of my comments is mind boggling and can only lead one to believe you are trying to mislead. If you can find anything I've said that says anything about just dealing with it then I'll apologize. But you won't do that I'm sure.

I note that you actually didn't respond and address anything, you just wanted to make some off hand comment that you know isn't true.

And I'm having a nice day, thank you. You too.
 
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That notion has been debunked before, that sex only exists for reproduction. Humans and higher animals aren't fruit flies.
But fundementally sex is about reproduction for the survival of the species. Passing on genes. The courting, forplay and games we play and the need for companionship are all based on our natural instinct to mate. We want to mate but as humans we don't just forcefully make someone mate with us. We have to play the game to win the mate.

Sure as moral beings we can use sex for other reasons but I think this is a distortion of our nature. We know that if we use sex for other reasons like self desire, power, as a commodity that this causes problems.
Natural law has no account of human subjectivity or personhood. It's trying to fit people in their concrete particularities into an abstract humanity. And if you are of a marginalized group of people, it tends to pathologize you.
I think natural law is what it is, a law or way of being that is in line with nature and reality. Perhaps the most authentic way of being because it aligns oneself with the objective world we live in. Mind, body and spirit are unified into one identity.

Thats not to say that people who have incongruence between their mind and objective reality are not valued or don't have a real experience. Its just different in that their real experience is not aligned with the real world they live in.

That is why I think the first step is to try and align people as much as possible and why most professionals seek to first address the mind because this is the self that governs body integrity and processes the world around them. Anyone with enough psychotherapy can overcome massive setbacks in life whether physical disability, envirrronmental factors through their mind. Through changing the way they see themselves and the world.

But thats not to say that sometimes we need to change the physical or environment as well. Just that we first need to look at the mind and then if needed look at other ways.


Which doesn't prove it is the best account of ethics or morality.
Well I think it is because at least it has some grounding in something rather than personal feelings or preferences which have no objective grounding. The moral principles underpinning Human Rights were not just made because people felt or preferred them as take it or leave it.

They were tried and tested over time based on human experience of them. We lived out the horrors of denying these Rights and we have seen the benefits of upholding them.
I haven't seen any evidence that natural law is gaining much ground among ethicists, anymore than competing theories such as virtue ethics, ethics of care, or more especially, utilitarianism. Appealing to an abstract human nature and it's supposed purpose is decidedly medieval thinking that rests on metaphysical presuppositions that are not necessarily self-evident.
I think philosophers are turning more to natural law as it can cover a broad range of ideas that can ground morality. The problem with morality is we cannot measure it like science. So there is no classical way of doing so and yet we know that morality is still something that is real. It makes sense that if morality is something real in the world then it may have some basis in the natural order of things just like physical laws govern the natural order of the physical world.

So ideas like intuition, a moral sense we are born with because we naturally sense other peoples suffering. Like humans were designed this way and it wasn;t something we just makeup arbitrarily. That this natural order is not just in humans but in the world and universe. We mess with nature and it has a ripple effect on ecosystems. We mess with the moral order and it has a ripple effect on social stability.
Are you serious? We know torturing children is bad because we ourselves wouldn't want to be tortured, as conscious beings capable of feeling pain. See, there is no convoluted appeal to abstractions involved...
Yes and that is more or less natural law. There is a natural order to being human and living with others. We are borrn with a sense of the suffering of others which leads us to be moral. The morals are all associated with how we treat others.

In fact its the rationalisation of morality that can cause us to be immoral rather than just find moral truths. Through culture or socialization we can create a moral system that is counter to the natural order of things. Even with religion like how ISIS or some extremist group in our own backyards justifying wrongs.

So if anything I think culture and socialization are what can make us immoral because it takes us away from the natural order of things.
 
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But fundementally sex is about reproduction for the survival of the species.

That's an overly reductive view of sex. As I said, humans aren't fruit flies.
 
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That's an overly reductive view of sex. As I said, humans aren't fruit flies.
The point I was making is that if we don't mate we don't survive. What we are seeing with all the new ideas about sex and gender is a reduction in offspring for our species now to the point of falling below replacement rates. Thats not good.
 
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The point I was making is that if we don't mate we don't survive. What we are seeing with all the new ideas about sex and gender is a reduction in offspring for our species now to the point of falling below replacement rates. Thats not good.
That depends on your point of view. There are plenty of folks that want us falling way behind the replacement rates. It will help save the planet.
 
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That depends on your point of view. There are plenty of folks that want us falling way behind the replacement rates. It will help save the planet.
Yeah I know. Most people think we are over populated and heading for a disasater where we havn't got enough resources. But it may be the disaster is happening the opposite way around where we are heading towards dying out as a species created not by evolution but is self inflicted.

Not replacing existing population levels may be ok for a while but it may be a sign that there are problems in the way we are living as well. Just like we can pollute and deplete the planet which everyone seems concerned with. We can also pollute and deplete our species.

A declining population has many ramifications as we are seeing with large elderly populations and small younger populations unable to meet expenditure through taxation.

People are not getting married and putting off having kids causing many to be unhappy especially women who were sold the lie that their freedom and career was all that mattered. Not to mention the killing of millions of babies through abortion. But then many think thats OK and a price to pay for sexual freedoms.

Then there is the issue of how we are accumulating many mutations and disorders including sex, gender and reproductive ones to the point where males are being feminised through increased estrogen and lower testosterone levels and other dissorders that cause females to have higher testosterone.
 
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I've never heard of any epistemology based on honesty. As I explained above...one can be completely honest and completely wrong.
That doesn't negate that honesty is the best policy for discussions trying to find the truth. Its more about how we come to know the truth. If they are completely honest and wrong then we can determine that because of the principle of honesty. We can't if we discard that principle as it would not matter.
True...and in many cultures, this wasn't the belief of anyone. We can also say that the people who believed the earth was at the center of the universe were completely honest and completely wrong.
Yes and thats why disagreement about morality is often about the facts surrounding that moral truth, not knowing the facts or truth rather than the moral truth of the matter itself.
If you think it describes some fact of reality....you're correct that it doesn't matter if anyone agrees.
Or disagrees for that matter.
No we don't. We didn't hold the Chinese accountable for the Uigher genocide. We didn't even hold our own government accountable for infringing upon our freedom of speech.
But we held them as being wrong. Just because we did not follow through with actually prosecuting them doesn't mean we did not think they were wrong.
True. I don't know how you would know this though. It seems like a strong assumption to make about someone without any evidence.
Some things are just wrong and we know this intuitively. Like abusing children. I think we can safely say thats wrong with having to get a test tube out.
Good or bad. Use good or bad when referring to morals so we don't confuse them with factual correctness.

Remember, we can describe behaviour in a factually correct manner without any moral judgements...

James shot David. That's something we can be factually right or wrong about without ever discussing the morality of the act.
But bothering to determine the facts in the first place is about morality. If it wasn't we would not bother finding the facts about whether James shot David.

But I understand what you mean. I think this example would be better explained as determining a right or wrong procedure perhaps. James got it wrong when he failed to follow the procedure.
Again, you haven't offered any method for proving a moral true.
It doesn't matter as I am talking about a category destinction and not the moral act itself. When it comes to morality we treat it as something that is either 'good or bad'. Like a binary that only has two options. Unlike say personal preferences or feelings which may vary person to person and culture to culture.
Reciprocity is another abstraction.
It doesn't matter if its an abstraction as its still a real measure of good and bad behaviour. Just like maths can be an abstraction. You could say these abstract principles are the method we determine morality like the abstract principles used to measure objective reality in the sciences.
Abstractions. Perhaps they think mob justice is a reciprocal method of establishing fairness when someone has disrespected another.
Well yeah at least they would be consistent lol. But we already know that mob mentality doesn't work. It actually causes more chaos. People looking over their backs. Based on this idea theres a never ending loop of kill or be killed. Bit like the IRA conflict. The point is we can easily show how it is self defeating.
The point of all moral norms is to allow people within the social group to work together. Even the mafia has to cooperate with each other to work together.
They may be norms but they are not moral norms. How can they cooperate when their own justice says they must seek revenge. Strange way of copoperating at the end of a gun. The idea of cooperating is to avoid conflict not create it. Look at the IRA and the tit for tat mentality. 30 years later after many inncoent deaths and mayham they finally began to cooperate.
Is my condemnation going to change the culture? No.

Is my condemnation necessary to convince you that I don't think they are morally good? I doubt it.

Are we engaged in some debate where I need to convince you that their behaviour is morally wrong? Seems unlikely.

How odd would it be that if out of the blue....in the middle of some conversation we were having....I just decided to share with you my personal views on child sex slavery?

Imagine we dropped you into a pashtun Afghani tribe...and they take you in and feed you because they have these moral norms about hospitality and strangers. My guess is that if they invite you to a gang rape of a child that night before driving out of the region and to the only airport in the nation the next morning....you'd probably just politely decline and not risk offending them so you can get yourself out of there alive.

Or would you spend the evening telling them how evil they are? How committed are you to that honesty principle? How about that justice principle? Seems pretty disrespectful to decline their gift....are you gonna partake?
Thats seems a strange analogy. None of this negates that them abusing kids is objectively wrong. Just because they think its OK doesn't make it OK. We have moral truths that say its wrong for good reason.

At present we have child sex trafficking in these 3rd world nations. But we don't think thats ok and a normal cultural practice that we should allow to go on. If it walks like a duck then its bad no matter what spin a culture puts on it. Just because condemnation doesn't make them change doesn't mean we should not try to stop the wrong. It doesn't somehow let us off the hook in having a responsibility to stop this wrong.
I think they bought into a viewpoint that simplifies morality to a factual good and bad and as the "oppressed"...they expected them to share their ideas of what is morally good.
Or that people are incapable of holding two conflicting positions at the same time. It could be that they are right about the Palestinians being oppressed is wrong. But theres a seperate issue that the Palestinians are also engaging in something immoral as well in oppressing gays. We can determine the moral truth of each situation.

Then theres the seperate question of whether people should support the rights of others even though they may have engaged in wrongs themselves. On that note I think we are all in the same boat. While the West trumpets the Human Rights of other nations it breaches human rights of their own people.
Of course there's a way to say it. You just did. You can't prove it though.
Yes we can. This is silly I think. The logical conclusion would be we can never say anything is right or wrong (nilhilism).
I'm open to any way you can think of.

We seem to agree that it doesn't matter if everyone agrees or disagrees....so I'll assume you won't try to prove it those ways.

I can't even think of a starting point for proving a moral fact so I'm interested to see you try.
I have gone into the many ways we can prove moral truths. Like in science its an accumulation of evdience that converge.

Like our innate moral sense that happen to line up with universal core morals found across culture and lived experience throughout our history LIke moral realism in that we live out these truths regardless of what we say, feel or like. Common sense, intuition.

Like with evolution (empathy and cooperation) which happens to align with the same morals as our sense and lived experience. Like religion Golden Rule, Human Rights, National Constitutions upholding these same moral principles.

The fingerprints of these moral truths are all over us, our history and existence.

The issue is that the West especially has fixated a particular kind of evdience, scientific materialism and reductionism and people can't see past this. As Hume says you can't get an 'ought from an is'. So we have to let go of this false dictonmy because its the wrong way to look at morality. Science is only one way of knowing and for morality its the wrong way in the end.
Again, you're the one insisting moral facts exist. This sounds like an admission that you won't be able to prove they exist as objective truths....like the earth circling the sun.
Thats becasue morality exists in a different way to the objective world. So why use the same method as science. But tell me how do we prove that the sun, earth and universe (an objective world) exists outside our minds. What scientific test can we use.
 
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The point I was making is that if we don't mate we don't survive. What we are seeing with all the new ideas about sex and gender is a reduction in offspring for our species now to the point of falling below replacement rates. Thats not good.

What's this "we" business? People are more than their biology, especially biology reduced to Darwinian terms, aren't they?
 
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We are? I am?
I think we are the lucky ones. This is a developing area. It could be a combination of factors, pollutants, epigenetics, environmental, cultural.

Human sperm quality in the new millennium: a prospective crosssectional population-based study of 4867 men

Estrogen suppresses SOX9 and activates markers of female development in a human testis-derived cell line

Environmental Endocrine Disruptors: Effects on the human male reproductive system

Endocrine disrupting chemicals: exposure, effects on human health, mechanism of action, models for testing and strategies for prevention
 
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I'm talking as a species and not as individuals.

Last time I checked "species" wasn't a category in Christian ethics. Christian ethics is concerned with persons.
 
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Last time I checked "species" wasn't a category in Christian ethics. Christian ethics is concerned with persons.
OK then population, nation, society, community, congregation. When we defy Gods natural order it threatens the wellbeing of many individuals.
 
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OK then population, nation, society, community, congregation. When we defy Gods natural order it threatens the wellbeing of many individuals.

It seems to me many societies have flourished with a variety of notions about what is natural in terms of sex and gender.
 
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