Orientation is not a choice.
There is NO SUCH THING as orientation.
Every single human being ever born has faced temptation. God may create people born to die due to disease. And some of these are kept alive against God's will, and we label these children as defective and some are institutionalized due to our flesh not wanting to let them go home to their Creator.
However, a child is not born attracted to one sex or another. Sexual attraction occurs during puberty, and depending on the conditions one is raise in, he/she will have a greater desire or lesser desire.
For instance, I was neglected as a toddler and I was exposed at an early age to sexual deviance. My mother had multiple partners and was a drunk. There were times when she had several men and women over to our home participating in sexual deviations. When I was 6-7 I was looking at inappropriate contentography with my brother regularly.
When puberty hit, around 11, I began experiencing erection while looking at desirable women. That's my story.
However, a friend of mine was raise by strict Catholic parents who never even passionately kissed in front of him. His dad was absent as a parent although he lived in the home. He never participated in any of his son's activities or showed interest in his life, outside beating him for Cs and Ds.
When he was 15 he began having a homosexual relationships with young men he met in Chicago night clubs. That is until he realized his sin and repented.
He's now married and has many times apologized for trying to get me to join him in his deviations. He admitted he was tricked into hooking up with those older boys, and due to following taboo pleasure and seeking attention from men, he was gay. Now......he's straight, as an arrow and even does seminars about how there is no such thing as sexual orientation. He's an associate professor at a major university and has been studying human psychology for almost 20 yrs.
inappropriate behavior with animals and pedophilia are as much a sexual oreintation as are homo and hetero. We become what we fixate on. If we are fixated on women during adolescence we will likely be straight. In my case, due to the absence of a nurturing mother, I became a womanizer during my falling away. My best friend OTOH, due to his lacking of a strong male role model, sought out older boys who were experimenting in bisexuality, drugs, and dancing. Since he has been born again, he doesnt even like house music anymore.
A murderer won't be damned if he repents and does not murder again. A pedophile can be forgiven just as a thief can. i am no less guilty being a tramp than a homosexual is for lusting after another man/woman. We are all sinners, and we all fall short.
Repentance and turning away from sin is KEY to salvation. Without turning away, the murderer is condemned to eternal damnation. The thief is condemned to eternal damnation. The adulterer is condemned to eternal damnation. The pedophile and the homosexual are condemned to eternal damnation.