TrueFaith said:
I do not want to sound pejorative. I just do not understand how a loving God can create people to go Hell.
See, now saying "
I just do not understand how..." is way more sound than saying "He didn't..." Well done.

There are factors to God's nature that you must take into account when addressing the works of God. First off, God is a God of love but that does not mean that He loves everyone. In fact, God
only loves those who are His. Second, God is also a Just God. He abhors sin, as should we and is completely just in punishing it. He is not obligated in any way to restrain us from being sinful. We choose to be sinful. That's why it's His
grace that we give thanks for. If He owed us that restraint it wouldn't be grace, it would be the wages of our existence as His creation. Additionally, we know from Scripture that God created all things created, God is omniscient, and God judges some people to hell. These things are not disputed within the church. So, we must either conclude that God knew when He created certain people that they would end up in hell and chose to create them anyway because that was His desire, or, He knew and couldn't stop it from coming to pass, or, He didn't know. I, myself, am going to consider God as the sovereign God that He is and that nothing is outside of His power and say that God knew and created them anyway because that was His desire for those people in the first place. And, when we acknowledge that it is only by the unmerited favor of God that any believe in the first place then we can see that God owed no one salvation and therefore did no one wrong by not saving them. Some got mercy. Some got Justice. No one got injustice.
And, if it helps, we are given a reason for God doing this exact thing in Scripture:
Romans 9:22-24
What if God,
wanting to show His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath prepared for destruction, and that He might make known the riches of His glory on the vessels of mercy, which He had prepared beforehand for glory, even us whom He called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?
The Holy Lord will endure the sinfulness of those He had created for destruction (condemnation) until He has gathered unto Himself the fullness of His flock, those He had prepared beforehand for glory (salvation). Why did He do this? "To show His wrath and make His power known." He does it for His own glory.
If God chose people to harden, then it is not their fault they have sinned. They have no choice in the matter because God hardened them and did not create them to be saved.
It's seems as if you're confused on what it means for God to "harden" someone. You see, according to the Word, we are
by nature hardened against God. We rebell. We flee. We are children of wrath,
by nature. Our thoughts and our deeds are wickedly evil (in comparison to God) from the womb. God does not work fresh evil into a person's heart, nor does He need to. When the Bible says that God hardened someone's, like Pharaoh's, heart" what it means is that He withdrew the restraining grace from that person,
which He is not obligated to provide in the first place, and let them follow the
natural inclinations of their depravity. He doesn't do something to make them worse. He just doesn't stop them from being as bad as they naturally are.
Yet no matter what I do if I am in the BOOK OF LIFE I can love God but sin endlessly and it is OK because God saved me?
Jesus said, "If you love Me, keep my commandments" (John 14:15). Here again, "If someone says, 'I love God,' and hates his brother, he is a liar" (1 John 4:20).
You see, your faith is made perfect by your works. That is to say that your works
show your faith to be true.
What you ask is a contradiction. You said, "I can love God but sin endlessly and it is OK because God saved me?" There is no such thing as a person who loves God and sins without desiring to be obedient. Salvation is not a license for immorality. On the contrary, redemption is our reason for godly living. A faith that does not produce godly works is no faith at all.
What about when Jesus told the Apostles to remain in him or be cut off?
Where are you talking about so that we may look at it in context?
God bless