- Oct 17, 2009
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Your feelings are normal.....all the world would feel and react the same. But we are a peculiar people.
We know that we control our heart and mind now....not those outside of us. Therefore my joy can no longer be stolen by the laughter of one outside of me. I forgave, so now I can feel good when they laugh (or at the worse, feel nothing). If will feel liberating the first time you notice that something that use to make you angry, no longer does so......but it will take you a long time to see this because you wont even be thinking about it anymore......God would have to let it cross your mind one day while sitting in contemplation.....then a smile will come on your face....Others will ask you "why is it that you smile?"......you will tell you that you have a Peace that they would not Understand......
I sure wish I could say I've been able to experience that, but as much as I've tried, and as much as I've prayed for it, it never happens that way.
See above,
the only thing I would add is the fact that, worrying and getting nervous does nothing to make the neighbor stop.....it only harms you physical and spiritually.....so why not try giving it up?
Cast you cares on Him....and be happy that He is about to deliver you from a situation in a way that you could not of planned yourself....
I don't get nervous because I think it will make the neighbor stop. I get it as a natural "fight or flight" reaction when I feel threatened. I don't know how to make that go away when someone poses a threat to me.
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