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DrFate said:
They were a good cross section of the community. Entertainers, public servents, businessmen, students.
They are dead now. I do not get to enjoy their company anymore. I am depressed enough today with out thinking about them. Sometimes I feel like the dead are the luck ones.

I am truly sorry for your loss.

My point was simply that not all, or even most, gay people come to an untimely end as a result of disease.
 
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NothingButTheBlood said:
Any interest in your side of this thing is now gone. That is really, really petty. Have fun munipulating her marriage.

If Nate's mother tries to push him out of the family, that is a family concern and it's very prudent to try to defuse the situation BEFORE the reunion actually starts (just thinking about the possible dualing toasts makes we want to slip out the metaphorical service-door).

Also, marriage? He said boyfriend. Mayhap her high horse is more of a miniature pony. :D
 
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I <3 Abraham said:
... Also, marriage? He said boyfriend. Mayhap her high horse is more of a miniature pony. :D

Speaking generally, there is still a portion of people in this world that don't equate having a boyfriend/girlfriend as being mandatory sex. Perhaps a small portion, but it is still there.

I suppose Nate could clear that issue up for inquiring minds as how it might apply or not... for those wanting to know.
 
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ChristianCenturion said:
Speaking generally, there is still a portion of people in this world that don't equate having a boyfriend/girlfriend as being mandatory sex. Perhaps a small portion, but it is still there.

I suppose Nate could clear that issue up for inquiring minds as how it might apply or not... for those wanting to know.

uh... my mom is a "good Christian girl." Alan has been "courting" her for about 16 years. He's been like a father to my 3 brothers and me... I know that mom & Alan love each other, but I'm not sure why they're not married. (I think it's because my mom has had two bad marriages.)
 
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NateBlack said:
Update:

I forwarded my mother's email to her boyfriend and he responded:

"I love you. See you at the reunion. Alan"

He's an awesome guy.

This is indeed encouraging news.
I am glad you are still in relationship with him;
he may be the key to her seeing the error of her ways.
:thumbsup:
 
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ChristianCenturion said:
Speaking generally, there is still a portion of people in this world that don't equate having a boyfriend/girlfriend as being mandatory sex. Perhaps a small portion, but it is still there.

I was just pointing out that the marriage nothingbuttheblood was saying that Nate was monkeying with did not in fact exist. It was funny that he was working under the assumption that she was married, so much so that when he quoted a post that said "boyfriend" he read "husband".

Also, Nate has not said in this thread that he is sexually active. If you haven't been giving him the benefit of the doubt of falling into that small portion, perhaps you should.
 
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NateBlack said:
uh... my mom is a "good Christian girl." Alan has been "courting" her for about 16 years. He's been a father to my 3 brothers and me... I know that mom & Alan love each other, but I'm not sure why they're not married. (I think it's because my mom has had two bad marriages.)

16 years!?! Now THAT is patience.
 
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I <3 Abraham said:
Also, Nate has not said in this thread that he is sexually active. If you haven't been giving him the benefit of the doubt of falling into that small portion, perhaps you should.

While I appreciate the courtesy, I'm happy to share that I have an AWESOME relationship with a guy I met when visiting Perkins Theological Seminary. We connect powerfully... spiritually, emotionally and, yes, physically.:blush:
 
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NateBlack said:
While I appreciate the courtesy, I'm happy to share that I have an AWESOME relationship with a guy I met when visiting Perkins Theological Seminary. We connect powerfully... spiritually, emotionally and, yes, physically.:blush:

Are you going into seminary? I'm headed to Div school myself, quick google on Perkins. Ah, they're Methodists eh? I got accepted into Emory but their financial aid offer was, shall we say, less than ideal.
 
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NateBlack said:
While I appreciate the courtesy, I'm happy to share that I have an AWESOME relationship with a guy I met when visiting Perkins Theological Seminary. We connect powerfully... spiritually, emotionally and, yes, physically.:blush:

May God bless you both!:)
 
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I <3 Abraham said:
Are you going into seminary? I'm headed to Div school myself, quick google on Perkins. Ah, they're Methodists eh? I got accepted into Emory but their financial aid offer was, shall we say, less than ideal.

I'm looking at Perkins, Brite, Austin Presbyterian, etc...

So did you decide yet?
Nate
 
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I <3 Abraham said:
I was just pointing out that the marriage nothingbuttheblood was saying that Nate was monkeying with did not in fact exist. It was funny that he was working under the assumption that she was married, so much so that when he quoted a post that said "boyfriend" he read "husband".

I was addressing the horse/pony commentary. I think NBTB can read the posts already correcting the typed or inferred error.
Also, Nate has not said in this thread that he is sexually active. If you haven't been giving him the benefit of the doubt of falling into that small portion, perhaps you should.

Hmm... I don't believe I have assumed anyone's unspoken activities. IIRC, I have been discussing things said or improper things being advocated.
 
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I <3 Abraham said:
I was just pointing out that the marriage nothingbuttheblood was saying that Nate was monkeying with did not in fact exist. It was funny that he was working under the assumption that she was married, so much so that when he quoted a post that said "boyfriend" he read "husband".

Also, Nate has not said in this thread that he is sexually active. If you haven't been giving him the benefit of the doubt of falling into that small portion, perhaps you should.

That's ok you can't tell male from female.
 
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NateBlack said:
While I appreciate the courtesy, I'm happy to share that I have an AWESOME relationship with a guy I met when visiting Perkins Theological Seminary. We connect powerfully... spiritually, emotionally and, yes, physically.:blush:

:sick:
 
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I'm not sure why some people, especially in debate forum, would want to make mention of their sex life.

I'm sure no one cares if/when/how I get physical with my husband. I wouldn't even bring it up. TMI, as it were.

Then again, I thought it was odd to post a private email in a debate forum as well. What's to debate? Wouldn't a fellowship thread be a more appropriate place?

Michelle
 
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