What's your top 3?

[stormwatcher]

Hey all~~

So I think it's safe to say that everyone has tentative list of sorts they look for in a guy/girl... so what's your top 3 characteristics that a person must have in order for you to be "interested/attracted" to them??



Mine are:
1.) Must be a Christian (in my experience it won't work otherwise)
2.) Sense of Humor- because if someone can make me laugh or smile, it's a good feeling
3.) Honest- I believe in the saying "Honesty is the best policy" (as corny as it sounds)

 

[Beautiful Fireball]

1. Must be a Christian, and by that I mean they must be continually striving to better their walk with the Lord. Not someone who just has the label.

2. Sense of humor- I love to laugh and crack jokes, if they can't do the same and are super serious all the time they would probably get annoyed by me

3. Integrity- This is like honesty but I think it may go a bit beyond that. Its hard for me to explain exactly what I mean by that.

 

[Blank123]

1. must not only be a Christian, but a Godly and discerning Christian
2. must have a wacky sense of humour
3. must go by the name intricatic


i think that about covers it....

 

[LOVEthroughINTELLECT]

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[LOVEthroughINTELLECT]

I apologize for the above post.

The words did not come out right, and I should not have posted them.

Please forgive me for disrupting the thread.


Tim

 

[GoodNewsJim]

1) Physical characteristics
2) Ability to love
3) Happy around me

 

[puffca]

1. female human being
2. has no children (unless she is widowed)
3. isn't against having children

 

[HolyOne87]

1. must be Christian..Faith-filled is good

2. Must be Honest

3. Humor..but also can be serious, when needed to be.

 

[mina]

1. Christian man- like truly loves the Lord and knows His word and is actively growing in his relationship with Jesus.

2. Funny- I love to laugh and I try to find humour in most things. He has to be able to make me laugh and to think i'm funny too.

3. Attracted to me- like thinks i'm beautiful. I realize that sounds a little odd. But I think i look a little odd, and i know that i'm not everyone's cup of tea. I would rather have a guy that thinks i'm beautiful as i am and loves me for who i am, rather than a guy who looks past my looks and then wakes up one day and decides he's not attracted to me anylonger. Weird i know.

 

[RJB78]

Hmm. Well, I'm really not so picky...

1. I do agree with the "Must be a Christian" thing-- or at least must be open to Christianity. I don't mean to sound unaccepting, it's just that I tried being involved with an athiest once and it was a really uncomfortable feeling knowing that her beliefs were so radically different from mine. Bottom line, I don't think two people can be together unless on some level, they believe in the same kind of things.

2. Must be a nice person. I know that sounds cliche, but too many people out there are willing to say any old thing that crosses their mind in the name of "honesty" or "bluntness." I want to be with the kind of person who would never intentionally say something to hurt another human being. (I mean, we all say things in anger sometimes, but should at least *try*...)

3. Should probably be at least willing to consider having children. Because I don't just want a wife, I want a family, and it's hard to imagine giving up the possibility of that.

There are other things I like, of course-- geekiness helps, as do nice eyes. Oh, and the willingness to put up with my tendency to act weird. But the three above are the deal-breakers.

 

[jakeluvspunk]

1. A God loving women who would never put our relationship about him. Because I sure wouldn't!!

2. Of course there has to be a bit of attraction there. Personality is important but if she gets past the first quality then I won't have to worry about that.

3.Family is imortant to me and I would expect it to important to who I am with. Especially parents!

That's about it...not too picky! lol

 

[2scoops]

1. Christian, doesn't have to use it as a title, but lives it.
2. Sense of humor, and I mean a good one.
3. Doesn't let the cares of this life and the pursuit of riches ruin a relationship.

 

[Im_A]

Hey all~~

So I think it's safe to say that everyone has tentative list of sorts they look for in a guy/girl... so what's your top 3 characteristics that a person must have in order for you to be "interested/attracted" to them??



Mine are:
1.) Must be a Christian (in my experience it won't work otherwise)
2.) Sense of Humor- because if someone can make me laugh or smile, it's a good feeling
3.) Honest- I believe in the saying "Honesty is the best policy" (as corny as it sounds)

i don't know what my relationship status is right now so i'm going to answer this generally.

1. must be physically attracted to the woman.
2. must be bluntly honest about everything about them.
3. must be able to relate to them on some deep level.

 

[BoarderDave]

1 - Has a fun/random/funny personality
2 - Likes active sports (preferabbly boards)
3 - Physically attractive to me

 

[Annova]

1.) Christian

2.) Honesty

3.) Sense of Humor

 

[JPPT1974]

1. Being a Christian first and foremost
2. Treating others the way you want to be treated
3. Be a doer and not just talking the talk

 

[stormwatcher]

These are all awesome I like getting others opinions on this kind of stuff...it's interesting Looks like a lot of you definitely want a Christian and a majority wants a good sense of humor...good luck finding all your "significant others" or should I say, waiting for God to bring them to you Take care all

 

[eugeneandbobo]

Christian
sarcastic...
be madly in love with me

 

[Im_A]

Christian
sarcastic...
be madly in love with me

if there was a top 4, sarcasm would be my number 4.

my humor is EXTREMELY sarcastic(also blunt and whether crass at times), so i wouldn't mind find a woman with extreme sarcastic humor.

 

[stormgade4]

1 Female
2 Graduated from a Divison I-A college
3 Likes cats