What's your love language?

[Miss Shelby]

From what I understand there are five of them.

1. Words of affirmation

2. Quality time spent with loved ones

3. Acts of service

4. Gifts

5. Physical touch (hugs and the like)

Mine is words of affirmation. I can't remember who wrote this book, either Gary Smalley or James Dobson. I really need to work on tuning in to what my loved ones love languages are. For instance, one friend of mine favors quality time spent above all else, so I have made a committment to her to spend one full afternoon a week with her.

What about anyone else?

Michelle

 

[momoangel77]

hmmm mine would prolly be "quality time spent with loved ones" or "hugs"...but hmm, no i think quality time is the most important to me...

 

[ian]

Ha ha ha....mine is the cheapest...can guess?

 

[* kittie *]

1. Words of affirmation

 

[Miss Shelby]

Ha ha ha....mine is the cheapest...can guess?

Hey we're talkin' about love, baby. None of them are cheap.

But seriously which one is it?

Michelle

 

[TCapp]

Written by Gary Chapman. I have two books, one concerning marrieds, and the other concerning children. Both good.

Quality time seems to be my language. Gifts comes in last, but that doesn't mean I don't appreciate it from time to time.

Since my kids are small, it is hard to figure them out. So I try to speak in all the languages.

 

[Miss Shelby]

Since my kids are small, it is hard to figure them out. So I try to speak in all the languages.

I think my 5 year olds is words of affirmation. She needs alot of reassurance. Probably too early to tell with my 3 year old, but I don't think she cares about anything. LOL!

Michelle

 

[ian]

Mine is Words of Affirmation......i am easily pleased

 

[Inspired]

"Quality time spent with loved ones" is mine, if I have it, I don't need the "words of affirmation", I already know.

 

[the Colonel]

Mine's definitely "acts of service."

 

[Dawn Marie]

Quality time spent with loved ones...

I guess...

 

[Miss Shelby]

Mine's definitely "acts of service."

Ya look like a service oriented guy.

 

[Blessedone_74]

Mines physical touch. I love to hug my loved ones. I love walking into my church every week cause we all hug eachother everytime we say hello and goodbye. Going three times a week, that's a lot of huggen, lol.

 

[ukok]

well, looks like i'm the 'needy' one in here. I need and utilise all of the languages of love.

 

[Miss Shelby]

well, looks like i'm the 'needy' one in here. I need and utilise all of the languages of love.

Me too. It should be pointed out that we all need all of them, we just lean more strongly to a certain one..or two.

Michelle

 

[~Wisdom Seeker~]

I think my Adult Bible class leader asked this in how we like to receive love. So..I would have to say...all of the above from everyone but my husband. From him it's definately more 1 and 2.

 

[Lbiagm]

quality time and physical touch is me.

 

[Purpletigy]

affirmation

 

[Sun_flwer]

Mine is physical touch. I love hugs and kisses. A good bear hug can last me a week!

 

[JOYfulbeliever]

I think mine is physical touch. I'm a hugger by nature. Also, quality time is very important for me.