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What's your definition of Sodomite behavior?

cantata

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Mmm Twix.
180px-Twix_opened.jpg

That's what I thought. :)

*nom*
 
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"Love the sinner hate the sin" is something Christians say in order to facilitate their prejudice.

Prove that.

It is of course impossible to do this in the case of sexuality. Sexuality is something one is, not something one does.

Prove that.
 
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Prove that.
What it isn't obvious? Are you straight because you have sex with members of the opposite sex or do you have sex with members of the opposite sex because you are straight? Notice that it is "you are straight" not "you do straight".

"Love the sinner hate the sin" is an attempt to separate the person from the "sin" in order to easier condemn it. But they cannot be separated. It tacitly admits that a person cannot rightly be condemned for something that is part of them, that they have no choice over, as it is an attempt to circumvent that problem.
 
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Sticking things where they shouldn't be stuck.

Presumably it evolved that way for a reason, right?
Yes. Now be sure not to kiss anyone. And absolutely not with tongue; it's not meant to be stuck in another person's mouth.
 
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Sticking things where they shouldn't be stuck.
Things shouldn´t be stuck where they shouldn´t be stuck. Now who gets to decide where things shouldn´t be stuck and why?

Presumably it evolved that way for a reason, right?
Not sure what "it" refers to here. Homosexuality?
 
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I'm not aware of a law that prohibits the usage of any word. What makes you think it is illegal to utter the word "sodomite" in the UK?


I have heard about cases in the UK where someone has siad and been taken to court. Heres another good one from the States---



""""""""""""""Bradley LaShawn Fowler, a gay man living in Michigan, is suing two of America's biggest Christian publishers because, he says, their published translations of the Bible have caused him 'mental distress'. Mr Fowler is seeking $70m in damages from Zondervan Publishing Co. and Thomas Nelson Publishing. He claims that these companies have deliberately caused gay people to suffer by misinterpretation of the Bible. The key misinterpretation he points to is 1 Corinthians 6:9, where the word 'homosexual' is used in translations published by the companies as part of a list of 'wicked' people who will not inherit the kingdom of heaven.


The New International Version of the Bible (published by Zondervan) renders 1 Cor 6:9 as follows: "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders"

The term 'homosexual' was coined in the late 19th century, so some may ask whether it is an appropriate term to use in rendering the Greek word arsenokoites in this passage. Certainly, when I studied Greek, my professors challenged this translation and suggested that the Greek term relats to male prostitution rather than same-sex relationships in general. (See here for some analysis of the relevant Greek terms.)

The New King James Version (published by Thomas Nelson) has an even blunter rendition of the verse: "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites .. ". I suppose the NIV translators added the term 'offenders' after the word 'homosexual' to modify the implied criticism in the text (with a reading that may suggest that not all 'homosexuals' are 'offenders'). But the NKJV offers no such modification. Instead, it gives a footnote on the word translated 'homosexual' referring the reader to the word 'catamite' (i.e., the younger partner in a pederastic relationship). One might ask, if they mean 'catamite', why don't they say 'catamite' in the main translation?

In any case, the parsing of these distinctions is usually left to Greek scholars, who engage in heated academic debate about how best to capture the meaning of the original text. Let's see what a judge in Michigan makes of it all. """"""""""""""""""
 
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I think it's pretty obvious that most of the men who wrote the Bible didn't like gay people. Even if the specific texts which some think refer to homosexuality can be shown to be discussing something else, I hardly think that these guys were progressive types who were welcoming to alternative relationship models.

However, I think it's also pretty obvious that their attitudes are barely applicable to today's relationships. If you believe people should marry partners they love, well, I have news for you - most of the biblical writers would have disagreed with you, or simply been mystified by the idea. In societies where love is the primary catalyst for marriage - and that includes North America and most of Western Europe - it's quite ridiculous to attempt to apply biblical ideals to marriages. What constitutes a marriage has changed radically since the Old and New Testaments were written, and for the most part it has changed for the better, especially for women. There is no reason that it should not continue to change.
 
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Why do you think so?

Because the Bible was written when marriages, generally speaking, were arranged affairs that had little to do with the kind of love that we envisage for marriages today.
 
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Because the Bible was written when marriages, generally speaking, were arranged affairs that had little to do with the kind of love that we envisage for marriages today.

Why do you think that Bible's merriages were arranged affairs that had little to do with the kind of love that we envisage for merriages today?
 
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I have heard about cases in the UK where someone has siad and been taken to court. Heres another good one from the States---
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That is a civil suit. It does not deal with matters of legality.
 
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Well, consider Isaac and Rebecca: they didn't even know one another before Abraham arranged -- long distance -- for their marriage. Or Jacob and Leah: Jacob did not protest all that long that he got the wrong bride, but instead kept her and just contracted again for the one he wanted. And look at Onan. He did not want to marry Tamar. (Granted, he should not have insulted God and Tamar the way he did just because of how he felt about the forced marriage.)
 
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