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What's the weather like where you are? (10)

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Thank you Zippy2 Sis'

My 'loss', pails into utter-insignificance
when compared-with
Mary's determination, these past 2+ years

To then receive, a single, stroke in the brain
and to leave this world, some 7-8 hours later
without having 'given' any-sign, of being 'aware'
was as gentle 'a-release' as I can possibly imagine

Mary 'deserved' to go peacefully
just as I prayed she would, only minutes before she passed

So, you see, not a man beset by sorrow and anguish ~'in-grief'
but one, who is, just so very-happy
that Mary did not have-to begin the next course of chemo
(due, to-start, the following week)

That, she doesn't have-to rely upon me
to lift her onto the toilet and off again afterwards
and set to rights any 'mishaps'
Such a dependance, really affronted her-dignity
I hope my insistence, that we were "IN THIS, TOGETHER"
gave-her some real support

Mary knew, as we all did (right from the get-go)
that Mary's treatment would be 'palliative' (Not CURATIVE)

She gave the impression, she would 'keep going'
and that, thankfully \o/ was not her decision to make \o/
:amen:
I have no-trouble 'sleeping' although I am become very-much a Night-Owl
Everything changes!

I am eating and, so are our pets :oldthumbsup:
Whenever that hole that Mary left-behind 'opens'
I stuff 'good-memories' into that gap
Well, she took a piece of me with her _Lovely lady

Mary (Baker nee: McAlinden) 12.23.1939 - 01.09.2016
Until we meet again \o/ \o/ \o/
What a lovely tribute to her. Oh just think of the wonders she is now privvy to! Think of joy to see the Savior! I can only imagine it.
What a good companion though this world you have been; we should all be so blessed. Bless you now dear brother. You are loved by many as well.
 
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Bright but chilly, today (now late-afternoon)

now, @ six days on, the heart wreath is 'still intact' (and fresh as ever)
~beside Rolo's grave, where Penny's ashes also are
 
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\o/ blustery and wet continues, here
I have-to go out (shopping) for dog and cat food
but thanks to the car that Mary bought for us, the journey is, door to door 'comfort'
 
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It has been fickle weather here today. Sometimes sunny, sometimes cloudy, sometimes rainy, sometimes not. Sometimes windy sometimes still. Temperature is the only thing steady at mid 50's.
 
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Raining intermittenly all-day

Sometimes, the rain is so heavy, I can hear it against my double-glazing and exterior window cill
above the sound of my desktop fan and harddrive whirring

We presently have 4.C and numb fingertips > heating is ON (now)

4ºC= 39.20000ºF


brrrrrrrrrrrrrr
 
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Edit - Oopsie daisies. I hadn't noticed this was in the 50+ section when I posted, so I'm editing it out. My apologies.
 
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Edit - Oopsie daisies. I hadn't noticed this was in the 50+ section when I posted, so I'm editing it out. My apologies.

LOL! No problem - easily done! :)

Dry earlier today, but a bit of rain later. Colder temps about 2C (35ish F).
 
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Oh! o_O As I'm going to bed soon I'll miss that, but maybe I'll wake to it in the morning. :D I've just looked outside to see if there are any stars, but it's low cloud cover at the moment so I'm not sure what it will do. :scratch:
 
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Oh! o_O As I'm going to bed soon I'll miss that, but maybe I'll wake to it in the morning. :D I've just looked outside to see if there are any stars, but it's low cloud cover at the moment so I'm not sure what it will do. :scratch:

Hopefully 'not a lot' it looks very thick out there now
from horizon to horizon, from what I can see of mine


fingers-crossed, it isn't
or, there is no frosty snap to follow it

It would 'BURN' so-many delicate beginnings
including "David" out front and the 'White' in the back
is dearly-wanting, to open a bud and to bloom....
It's first since before Christmas
"David" still hasn't stopped 'completely'


\o/

your Bro'

dave
 
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