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What's one thing you wish for right this second?

bluegreysky

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That I can be alright... my mind and my heart is always raging with fear, doubt, uncertainty. One minute I'm fine and the next I'm a mess. I get sad a lot. Nervous and scared, too. I just want to be alright.

Aww you probably have anxiety. I have that too. :\
 
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What all does my name say to you?
And, no ma'am, i do not write a blog. Why do you ask?

Your name says to the woman: you haunt me. I know that feeling... being haunted by a love I can't have or don't have or miss.

I suggest a blog because if I was in love with someone who wouldn't talk to me, wouldn't take my calls, wouldn't email me, wouldn't answer the letters I wrote and gave to their friends to pass along... I wouldn't want to go so far as to show up at their house because that is stocking and can cause alot of drama.
No, I'd pour my feelings out in a blog with an alias that they would know was me and write it to an unnamed person that you title "love" or "soulmate" but never name them for privacy's sake....
pour out all the thoughts and feelings and fears and cares and prayers and then when you have a nice fat database of them, anonymously send your lost lover the link.

Unless they are already married and that's why you can't have them. then write the blog to get it off your chest but don't send a link.

I don't know how your special someone operates as far as the way they think,
but I know if it were me, I would think that unearthing a blog full of love for me would be the sweetest
most romantic gesture ever. As long as it wasn't monologued in a way that sounds too creepy.
 
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I kid, I kid. Actually be careful with that. I told a girl once I was putting her pictures up on my computer desktop, and for some odd reason she thought I was assembling a collage. Little did she know it's one of those rotating desktops, where hers were among the pics of many, many beautiful ladies. Now hers just occasionally pop up and freak me out. I really should erase them, but there are so many it's hard to find the ones I want to erase.
 
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A door has potentially opened for me, and I'm not sure whether to take a chance at the opportunity and probably disappoint a few people, or stay where I am. I wish I knew what to do.

Last time I did this, it was God basically rescuing me from a situation before anyone even knew it would happen. I am still amazed when I think about it. It's like a pattern in my life. God putting me somewhere, then moving me exactly when I need to move. Over and over, He keeps protecting me.

So is this one of those situations again? It feels like it, but do I go by how I feel? This is a tough one.
 
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A door has potentially opened for me, and I'm not sure whether to take a chance at the opportunity and probably disappoint a few people, or stay where I am. I wish I knew what to do.

Last time I did this, it was God basically rescuing me from a situation before anyone even knew it would happen. I am still amazed when I think about it. It's like a pattern in my life. God putting me somewhere, then moving me exactly when I need to move. Over and over, He keeps protecting me.

So is this one of those situations again? It feels like it, but do I go by how I feel? This is a tough one.
That's an awesome pattern :)

Brings me hope knowing that others still see those doors :)
 
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That everyone on earth would receive Jesus as Savior, and then He came back and took over the world.

That is very noble of you to think, EazyMack. Unfortunately, mine is more self-centered. What I was going to say, is that having a girlfriend (To become a wife) that is agreeable, attractive, knowledgable, and sophisticated would be nice.
 
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My poor boyfriend... he's so depressed about his dog Teddy who died of diabetes and old age Tuesday morning.

I almost want to wish for a fluffy little labrador puppy to turn up on his doorstep for him to rescue and love and cherish to fill the void,
but I don't. Because while it sounds wonderful
it would cause him stress financially right now.
 
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