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It's just one of those instances where you wish you could just be horribly, awfully, utterly BLUNT about things that many people would blush over. But you really just have a genuine desire to understand and learn and get clarity.
You're always welcome to PM me. I'm an open book.
 
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Poor guy! A frustrating day, indeed.
 
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I'm at a complete crossroads.

After typing for what feels like an hour in order to sort my own thoughts, I'm simply going to cast my worries to God and ask him for the wisdom and clarity on this.

Any prayers would be greatly appreciated! Any advice on chapters of the Bible anyone thinks I should focus on would also be greatly appreciated! And that's what's on my mind!
 
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Was at a sporting event tonight. Absolute foul language. Really bad. Non-stop. Degrading to everyone. Degrading to women (& yet these are the kinds of men a lot of women seem attracted to). I notice it every time this really foul language.
For those older: has language always been so foul? So persistent?
 
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Foul language has really been irking me. Not just a "simple" swear word, but when it's all that comes out of an individual's mouth.

What has messed them up so much I wonder.

Do they not realize it degrades women? & why are women attracted to that

So messed up. Don't swear. Real men don't swear.
 
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Amen; thank you so much for that, it's perfect!
 
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Of course, Miss Pleni.

And for what it is worth, I am glad you came to this community. I like to think everyone else here feels the same, too. You are a very amicable lady.
 
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Foul language has really been irking me. Not just a "simple" swear word, but when it's all that comes out of an individual's mouth.

Agreed. It gets really cringey to hear.
 
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just one of those instances where you wish you could just be horribly, awfully, utterly BLUNT about things that many people would blush over.

You're right; I would probably blush over it.

Still, more seriously, you seem quite earnest about this, so maybe it really would be beneficial if there was a guy out there who'd be willing to answer the hardball questions you have as best as he could.
 
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I'd like to say if i can to those who are concerned for their animals when we are taken up that may be it's not impossible to think that they may be taken up too? God loves the animals and realizes that they would possibly parish without their owners so why not?
Sorry if this doesn't belong here. I can't post where it belongs. Thanks
 
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... I'm going to be thinking about this all day.
 
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Saucy volunteered, bless his heart. My question remains semi-answered, as most of the male friends I have who I'd feel comfortable talking to, aren't the sorts of men that this question really pertains to, so... onward we go! Some things may just remain a mystery
 
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Yup. It's always dependent on location, demographics, culture, etc. But, yup.
 
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Women aren't attracted to being called foul names by men. If there's something attracting some women to those men, it's something else.
 
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Women aren't attracted to being called foul names by men. If there's something attracting some women to those men, it's something else.
I think I understand what you're saying Geek, but there's a lot of dumb (& willfully dumb) people out there. I hate to say it, but it's true. Rebellious. I am not talking about Christian women, those who delight in wanting to do what is right. That being said, & this is probably what you're trying to say, the men are most likely able to hide it, they come in sheep's clothing. But it will come out eventually & their actions will match their language & they will hurt these women. They always do.

Yup. It's always dependent on location, demographics, culture, etc. But, yup.
It is passed on from one generation to the next.
 
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I guess I'm not a real man.

You know.. us foul mouthed men have feelings too.
 
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As far as swearing regarding names called to women.. some women just have a masochistic side. Really depends on the man. I know some men who use such language all the time but deep down are thoughtful and caring people.. other men not so much.

Might disturb some.. but humans are complex creatures.
 
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