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Yeah, he was their friend but he called them to repent. He didn't engage in their sin nor approved it. That's the difference.

I also liked the above observation "sinner" in that context meant "those who were shunned."

I wonder what Jesus would've talked to them about other than sin. Listen to their stories? Assist them in what they needed to get done for the day?
 
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I feel like all I do is work & run errands. It's Sunday evening but I can't relax. What's the point? It's just for a few hours & then I'll be at work again tomorrow. I have a headache. I can't relax.

I wish Disney+ & Hulu had Spanish options. I want to watch something there in Spanish but no option .______.

I think one of the reasons I'm enjoying working on my Spanish lately is I don't understand everything. In English, I understand everything so it kind of gives me a headache. When I watch something in Spanish, it's easier for me to relax b/c I don't understand every phrase.
 
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This is one of the hardships of being an adult, haha. I dread Monday mornings too. I'm doing my best to forget that tomorrow we are back to work.
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I've had the same conversation about the water into wine miracle. I think it's a mistake to interpret that miracle as being a defence for alcohol consumption. (I don't drink at all, but I wouldn't condemn someone for having a drink with dinner, etc). I agree that drunkeness and a lack of sobriety is the real issue. However, using the miracle to defend alcohol is missing the point of the story, entirely. It's easy to take that approach to justify almost anything. I agree that being a "carnal" Christian isn't a small or minor thing. It's definitely a big problem within Christianity and remaining in that state can really reduce any effectiveness we could have in reaching others. I do believe that faith in Christ should have a transforming effect on our lives. We should be constantly growing and maturing and overcoming (we all have our own weaknesses/sins we are more prone to committing). Our faith should be producing Godliness in our lives.
We are all coming from different backgrounds/experiences. I do try to give others some leeway in some areas (we may have different convictions on certain issues depending on our personal spiritual experiences). I was raised in a Christian home and gave my life to Christ when I was very young. My outlook on the Christian faith has definitely been shaped by my upbringing/experiences. I will grant you that one danger for Christians who grew up in Christianity is complacency. It's easy to feel "safe" because of your background. I agree that regardless of a person's experiences or upbringing, we all need to come to Christ the same way.
 
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I feel like all I do is work & run errands. It's Sunday evening but I can't relax. What's the point? It's just for a few hours & then I'll be at work again tomorrow. I have a headache. I can't relax.
I feel you. That's me 99% of the time lol
 
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Someone on YouTube called me "naive" because I choose not to date around, that dating around is how you get to figure out what I want.

Dating only helps you to a certain point figure out what you want. It's none of their business anyway.
 
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I feel overwhelmed. Please pray for me.

I will, Sir Riley. Feel free to pm me about what's going on in your life if you just feel you to need to talk about it.
 
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I will, Sir Riley. Feel free to pm me about what's going on in your life if you just feel you to need to talk about it.
Just overwhelmed in general. Nothing specific.
 
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Same here, I don’t drink any alcohol but there’s nothing I’ve seen in scripture forbidding it’s consumption, only drunkenness. And when I did drink alcohol that was the whole point of it to achieve drunkenness. Unlike you, my upbringing was a pagan or at very best ‘cultural’ Christian..deceived, devoted to sin not even realizing it as sin, carnal to the max.

Had a brief stint at a Sunday school as a child, and occasional Easter/Christmas services at a denominational building overseen by your typical modern pastor lording over, no multiple men getting up to share their gifts or elders overseeing things like in the first century church model. Of course which I had no idea about in those days. I just went along with it all and impatiently looked forward to the end of the timed service, always checking through the itinerary brochure trying to gauge how much time was left LOL. Sometimes I would pick up a bible from the back of the pew in front of me and read.

Probably been in a church building less than 2 dozen times my whole life weddings and funerals included. I can understand what you mean about complacency though even though I am still relatively new.

But my experience has its advantages..I know very well that the life of loving sin and Christ rejection, following the rudiments of the world is surely not worth it and for me lead to a fairly dark place with a sort of feeling of no escape. So I put my hand on the stove for all you people who came up as Christians and it burns indeed. A disadvantage is I got caught up in the devil’s backup plan for new converts, manmade false religion. Satan uses it to pull people back into the world very subtly, sneaky. So I research and study on both sound and unsound doctrine, and desire to be able to easily distinguish. I’ve heard all this and that in my time both as a pagan and a convert but it turns out after testing many popular themes of manmade religion to God’s word they just don’t align.

Which leads me to another thing that has been on my mind, and we have all heard this mantra before from proponents of false manmade religion, ‘accepting Jesus’. Never gave it much thought at all. Then over time as I went through the New Testament and gradually became more familiar with it I didn’t recall seeing this statement, at least in the version I use. And I want to be perfectly clear I am not one of the KJV onlyists I do not agree with such people..in fact they are liars when they claim that version is God inspired, (after all, it isn’t in the Bible that the KJV is inspired LOL) all it was is just a scholarly attempt at getting a better English translation at that time.

Anyway, as far as ‘accepting’ goes, 2 Corinthians 5:9 and Romans 15:7 lead me to believe that it is God who accepts/receives us (depending on the translation) through the Lord Jesus Christ, and what Christ has done, no mention of us mortal humans ‘accepting’ Jesus. I’m going to have to say that is unbiblical after testing it to God’s word, unless I missed something. But to accept’ would suggest we are to ‘approve’ or ‘give admission to’, and who are we to ‘approve’ or ‘give admission‘ when it comes to Christ, that sort of places Him in a sort of subordinate position the way I see it.

This ‘accept Jesus’ mantra is a product of the false revival men, modern pastors/wealthy hirelings such as Billy Sunday, Charles Finney, and Billy Graham, some of the top billed showmen and gurus of corporate manmade religion in their days. Just another element of the corporate religion business model..a means to create many false converts and bring in large numbers of unrepentant sinners to the pews/boo koo bucks to the collection plates. Speaking of these false revival men, as a side note, nowhere in the New Testament is any ‘revival’ mentioned, that I am aware of at least..there is however a mention of a falling away/many departing from the faith and giving heed to doctrines of devils (1 Timothy 4:1).

In my experience, there was no ‘accepting’ of Jesus that day where out of nowhere and fully unexpected God graciously reached down and allowed me to take my first step out of the sewer. I could literally feel anger coming down on me, I could feel the displeasure I had caused by the way I lived my life (God is angry with the wicked every day Psalms 7:11). I remember looking up to the sky that day and feeling like the publican in Luke 18, sort of intimidated to look up there. Was humbled to the max and learned then, the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, Proverbs ch. 9. There was no ‘ok Jesus, I guess you’re good enough for me after all, I accept you.’ More like I accepted how lowly I was before God, accepted what I was, and what I deserved..and realized who I needed to turn to, who to follow out of the filth I was in, in hopes of not getting what I deserve when I leave this decaying realm. The follower is the subordinate. No alter calls to ‘accept Jesus’ with emotional music in the background or reciting a sinner’s prayer would have ever been able to bring me down where I needed to be to fully grasp the truth. Speaking of that in fact I think that’s a better way to put it we need to turn to and hold on to the Lord Jesus Christ rather than ‘accept’. Servants don’t ‘accept’ their master. Take His yoke upon us and let Him pull us through.

It’s like the further I look into all these buzzphrases, mantras, and creeds of manmade corporate religion, the more unbiblical deception I encounter, like a rabbit hole that leads into a sewer. It’s almost like a snowball effect. You research one lie and it leads to other lies..you research those other lies and find more lies used to reinforce or cover up the lies about the lies about the lies about the lies. I forget exactly who said it but it really holds true, if you keep repeating a lie enough eventually people will believe it and that seems to be the blueprint of manmade corporate religion.
 
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I love learning. I feel like such a geek.
 
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I don't personally use the term "accept Christ into your life," either. I think of it more as giving him your life or surrendering your life to Him. You are handing over the control and reigns of your life to Him. Your old life is finished. I definitely understand your difficulty with the term. That being said, I think that many others who use the term, mean well. I personally think Billy Graham did a lot of good and had a very big impact on many, even if that's not how I would describe salvation. There definitely needs to be conviction from the Holy Spirit and a person's sense of their own sinfulness, before a proper conversion experience can take place. I do understand your dislike of the term, because it can give those who are seeking God a sense that everything is still in their hands/control. It can let some off the hook prematurely. I don't think real faith in Christ happens until a person "gives up," and places their life in God's hands.

There is a lot within the church that I think is compromised, but I do still believe in the calling of pastors. I certainly don't believe that every one who takes on that role is called to the ministry. I think there are many false teachers and compromised pastors. That being said, I've personally known Godly ones and I do believe that there is a special calling that certain individuals have. They have a gift from God to lead others and to preach. This is probably where we differ the most.

As for revival, I do believe in the concept, but not the way it is often described. For one thing, a revival is in essence an outpouring of the Holy Spirit. God visiting his church/society to purge it. There is Biblical support for that. There have been many great times of conviction and renewal within the church. I can think of examples like the Great Awakenings in America and the Welsh Revival for example. If you study those, you will see that those times of renewal were not some emotionally manufactured hype or time of excitement within the church. If anything, they were times of great conviction and repentance. These times of revival in the church spilled into society and had a ripple effect in secular society (at the time). It's not something that humans (Christians) can force or declare that it's going to happen. They are actually somewhat terrifying in a way, because God was cleansing his church. Although I don't think this is something that Christians can declare will happen or manufacture, I do believe they have a role in it. The consistent prayers of Christians requesting that God visit his church to reform it and purge it, will be heard.
 
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Yes, give your life to God is a much better way to put it..but that just doesn’t have the same ear tickling effect as ‘accept Jesus’ like the revival men preached. ‘Give your life to God’ suggests one might have to put away the sin/old life and that doesn’t bring as many people to the pews, doesn’t bring the beacoup bucks to the collection plates.

As for Billy Graham well there’s a few problems I have, the first being he made a vast fortune off professing his version of God’s truth. Paul said to emulate him as he emulates Christ, they lived very humble lowly lives as servants..servants aren’t worth multimillions. I don’t see anyone getting rich by professing the entirety of God’s truth, quite the opposite. He was loved by the world even secular/antichrist mainstream media when Jesus said in Matthew ch. 10 His true people would be hated for His name’s sake.

Later on in his life he was on some heretical New Age guru’s show claiming there is a wide path to God’s mercy even if you don’t believe in Jesus. Some reports claim he was a 33rd degree masonic occultist, however I don’t really concern myself too much with such things/conspiracy theories all that is another one of Satan’s backup plans..a detour from the fullness of God’s truth but that aside, there are some very suspect things about the man. After all he does have a star on the pagan Hollywood walk of fame..I can’t see any true biblical Christians being put there, more like friends of the world (enemies of God). He was also feminized, as he did not teach truth to the ladies/preach against immodestly dressed women (LOL that last part was a joke/me making fun of myself..I remember you mentioned my mentioning that on another thread and thought it was funny honestly).

But we agree that any sort of renewal is not something that Christians can declare. Nowadays there’s these NAR types with their false signs and lying wonders..I truly believe such people are operating under a demonic influence and sadly this particular movement is gaining in popularity both within the denominational buildings and on the internet via YouTube hustlers. And of course they are soft on sin/heavy on compromise, very worldly, and virtually always profiteer off their own version of God’s truth. That’s just something that really sets me on fire is hustlers trying to use the faith as a profiteering racket.

At first as a new convert I never really gave this all much thought but the further I went into God’s word, it’s like “wait, what?!” At the same time I am definitely no fan of these people who’s entire ‘ministry’ (I use that term loosely) revolves around ‘exposing’ their own fellow deceivers/internet hustlers. They’re hypocrites. It’s all a clown show, a 3 ring circus of manmade religion.
 
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Haha. For the record, I don't think women should be vain or immodest. I tend to respond very quickly when I see guys saying that, because in my experiences, it's been a way for guys to put down women. The same guys often take no thought for their own conduct/modesty. If we are going to apply this to both genders, I'm good with it.
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I'm not sure this website has ever been very healthy. But I agree there has seemed to be an excessive amount of tomfoolery and nonsense over the last several months. It reminds me of something the mother of one of my friends told him in a time of emotional anguish, Isn't it enough to know you're saved?
 
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I've only been here a couple years & have noticed it does seem like more people are venting here than what they used to. More negative threads.
 
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Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day!
Fun fact: the Hebrew word for "king" is actually embedded in his initials. Martin Luther King -> MLK -> melek -> "king." I wish I could take credit for that.
 
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