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scraparcs

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Honestly, if you're interested in someone who was previously married and their spouse is alive, wait until the divorce is final. There are other available fish in the sea.
 
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I've been in a similar situation myself in the past - and I was almost roped into it. All I did was remind myself of all of the drama that would have kicked off had I gone through with it.

No matter what's running through your mind now, remember, you WILL regret it. Avoid, avoid, avoid - and if that doesn't work, just tell her you're gay.

Im not going to do anything. I didn't mess with married women even before I became a Christian, Im not going to start now. I don't need to tell her any such thing. Im a bull, I are stubborn. If I make my mind up to do something (or in this case not to) then it's final.She could show up to work naked and it wouldn't sway me.

I've had women even try to get me drunk thinking my mind would change. Still doesnt work...... I enjoy the free beers though. (I dont feel bad cause at beer one, I will tell a woman "I can't take this, Im dating someone" if at the time they buy me one I am not single. In which they will reply "Cant a lady just buy a man a beer?" or some variation of that.)
If they think that beer will change my mind, thats their problem not mine. I say thanks when they get me a beer but I already told them, getting me drunk will change nothing so I have no reason to feel guilty. If they are willing to buy, im willing to drink it..... but, I owe them nothing because I told them straight up, all they are doing is spending money on a slot machine that will never pay out. If they want to keep putting money into it, not my fault.

If they turn around and don't buy me any thats fine too. I never go to a bar or a club expecting to spend nothing.
 
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Honestly, if you're interested in someone who was previously married and their spouse is alive, wait until the divorce is final. There are other available fish in the sea.

I agree with this. However, Im not saying I want to be with this woman. Simply saying I see those little signs that she likes me in "that way".

I dont roll on going after women that are even married by law only either. I don't care if the two live in separate states and it is in all ways over but legally....... still thats not the way Toro rolls.
 
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Owlette!!! Hope you are doing well! :hug:

I find myself in this same type of situation on a frequent basis, though I often find it hard to speak up since at times it can be awkward, lol.

Hey!! :hug: Good to see you back!! :cheer:I'm doing great, how have you been?? ^_^

I find myself in this situation pretty often too, and I find very awkward, haha. ^_^
 
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I just don't GET some people on here. Not on this thread, I don't really know many of y'all, but just some other people around here. Perhaps a nice sleep will make me get used to them.
 
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