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MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

Willing to grant the same understanding for anger expressed by women who've grown up feeling rejected. Although much more rare, considering biologically most women are universally sought after during their early 20s.

Still, I knew this woman from school. She wasn't overweight or anything, but had a pretty ugly face. She really wasn't liked by anybody. She developed a lot of anger problems as a result. Which is understandable. I don't see how she'll ever see any justification to ever feel accepted and cool with humanity.

MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

Watching Peaky Blinders on Netflix.. although a little confused.. is this a Netflix original show or a BBC show? Guess it might just be a syndicated Netflix show for Us audiences.. lol.

Strider1002 · Jan 19, 2018

Well, maybe knowing God loves me makes all the difference. I mean, sure, if every woman in the world rejected me, I would be sad, but I’d still know that I’m worthwhile.
(FYI, I wish I were taller too, but it’s okay. Not all women are shallow.)

alsughasoughaiuyfygh · Jan 19, 2018

SarahsKnight said:
Better on the sickness. It appears to have been a bacterial infection, but now I am taking medication to resolve that.

Awesome! I'm glad you're getting better!

SarahsKnight said:
Unfortunately, not as well on the second problem. This friend no longer seems angry with me, however, I will have to be content with a permanently downgraded relationship with that person. Due to having lost some trust, even if I am forgiven. But still, that is better than before. And sometimes despite forgiveness one must simply have to live with the consequences of their actions.

Hopefully that relationship will be fully mended with some time. Just try to keep a positive attitude and learn from your mistakes.

Saucy · Jan 19, 2018

My problem is I'm too tall horizontally

alsughasoughaiuyfygh · Jan 19, 2018

Saucy said:
My problem is I'm too tall horizontally

Back in the Renaissance days, women would be lining up to date you for that reason.

MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

Strider1002 said:
Well, maybe knowing God loves me makes all the difference. I mean, sure, if every woman in the world rejected me, I would be sad, but I’d still know that I’m worthwhile.
(FYI, I wish I were taller too, but it’s okay. Not all women are shallow.)

Hmm.. as a Christian I could never feel God's love or anything.

Of course women are not all shallow. I've had women into me, and even turned a few down. I'm not worried about being single for the rest of my life. My single status has little to do with my height. Still, as someone who studies and reads up on evolutionary psychology, I know that height is probably the most important factor for women. I'm just lamenting at the sad fact that I'll never feel totally comfortable with females.. because I'm always going to be on edge regarding how they view me because of my height. Goes beyond dating.. I know plenty of short men who have complained about workplace discrimination from female bosses most likely regarding their height. We know social justice warriors will never look into that, lol.

High Fidelity · Jan 19, 2018

MehGuy said:
Watching Peaky Blinders on Netflix.. although a little confused.. is this a Netflix original show or a BBC show? Guess it might just be a syndicated Netflix show for Us audiences.. lol.

It's a BBC show.

MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

High Fidelity said:
It's a BBC show.

Yeah.. just weird seeing the Netflix logo and icon on the show. Makes it look like it's one of its own original programs. Sad to see its not in 4k. Doesn't even look to be 1080P lol.

MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

Hey.. the Jurassic Park guy is on this show. Lol.

Miss Spaulding · Jan 19, 2018

Wayholka said:
Back in the Renaissance days, women would be lining up to date you for that reason.

Lol, this made me laugh.

Kind of like back in the 20s/30s it was considered attractive and appealing to most men for women to be slightly on the plus size. Not much, think Marilyn Monroe's size or thereabouts. I often think I should have lived in this area. Haha.

MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

I don't think there is any evolutionary evidence that men don't like some meat on the bones.. as long as she's able to retain an hour glass shape. Personally for me, I'm not that hung up on weight. As long as she's shorter than me. Lol.

Strider1002 · Jan 19, 2018

Uh, women ARE attractive with a little meat on their bones. It’s pretty much just the fashion industry, and maybe Hollywood, trying to tell us otherwise.

MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

Strider1002 said:
Uh, women ARE attractive with a little meat on their bones. It’s pretty much just the fashion industry, and maybe Hollywood, trying to tell us otherwise.

Yeah, but nothing like many feminists are trying to pass on as "curvy".

The problem with increased weight, is the trouble of maintaining that hour glass figure.

Regardless, as long as the hierarchy of looks is equal for men and women I'm fine with it. From studying biology they are pretty even.

MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

The universal attractive body shape for men is a V shape and for women it's an hourglass shape. Know for the latter, the shape has been proven to be the preferred body type even for men blind from birth.

Sure heavy women can still maintain an hourglass shape, but they're gonna most likely need things like broader shoulders. Even then.. for many men the preference for men to feel like the larger one in the relationship will start to play a factor. Our attractions play off each other and compliment one another.. that probably explains why they're so even.

Miss Spaulding · Jan 19, 2018

Strider1002 said:
Uh, women ARE attractive with a little meat on their bones. It’s pretty much just the fashion industry, and maybe Hollywood, trying to tell us otherwise.

Agreed. But obviously there are some women who are just naturally very thin. My sister-in-law is extremely thin, if not skinny. It's just the way she is, not because she tries to be or watches what she eats. This girl loves food and eating. It's hilarious.

MehGuy said:
Yeah, but nothing like many feminists are trying to pass on as "curvy".

The problem with increased weight, is the trouble of maintaining that hour glass figure.

Regardless, as long as the hierarchy of looks is equal for men and women I'm fine with it. From studying biology they are pretty even.

Yeah, I'm really tired of the whole 'curvy' thing when it's almost always women who are just obese saying it to make themselves feel better. Look, I get the weight struggle. I've struggled my whole life and always will. Not because I have poor eating habits and don't take care of myself. I do, so much so some might even label me a health nut. My problem is genetic. Only one of my four siblings is petite-framed and can pretty much eat whatever she wants and not gain any weight. The rest of us are up and down, up and down in our weight all the time. It's a constant battle. ...But I don't go around saying I'm totally a normal weight and just 'curvy' and everyone needs to think I'm beautiful and perfect just as I am to make me feel okay about myself inside.

The thing I have going for me is that I'm 5'7", which isn't exactly short, and my actual figure is the classic hourglass shape. Lol, I always laugh about the men in the black and white movies when they see some 'broad' walking down the street and whistle while making the hourglass figure with their hands in the air. I joke that I'm that broad.

Oh well.

Strider1002 · Jan 19, 2018

Ah well. It’s the spirit of the person that makes them beautiful.

alsughasoughaiuyfygh · Jan 19, 2018

Miss Spaulding said:
Lol, this made me laugh.

Kind of like back in the 20s/30s it was considered attractive and appealing to most men for women to be slightly on the plus size. Not much, think Marilyn Monroe's size or thereabouts. I often think I should have lived in this area. Haha.

Reminds me of this video...

Strider1002 · Jan 19, 2018

It’s silly to judge billions of women by a single set of standards. There are probably hundreds of millions of beautiful women in the world, and each one is different

MehGuy · Jan 19, 2018

Strider1002 said:
It’s silly to judge billions of women by a single set of standards. There are probably hundreds of millions of beautiful women in the world, and each one is different

Yeah, but there has to be a logic to attraction. We seem to be fine with judging men by certain physical standards. Evolutionary I wouldn't make sense for everything to be so biased, lol.

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