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I'm getting so sick of people sharing Buzzfeed, and Huffpost articles on fb.

I know Huffington Post is an incredibly Liberal news post but I don't watch much Buzzfeed. What's so bad about it?
 
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I know Huffington Post is an incredibly Liberal news post but I don't watch much Buzzfeed. What's so bad about it?
Buzzfeed is pretty the poster child for social justice smugness. They come out with lists like: "20 things white people ruined in 2015", etc.

Ugh, anxious dread and dinner aren't going well on my stomach at the moment.
 
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Buzzfeed is pretty the poster child for social justice smugness. They come out with lists like: "20 things white people ruined in 2015", etc.

Ugh, anxious dread and dinner aren't going well on my stomach at the moment.

Oh, so it's one of *those* kind of media people.

Why do people expect me to be ashamed of being white?
 
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Oh, so it's one of *those* kind of media people.

Why do people expect me to be ashamed of being white?
Because they're racist. They see dark skin as a perpetual disability, and white skin as a perpetual sin that must be always apologized for. Because they're racist.
 
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Because they're racist. They see dark skin as a perpetual disability, and white skin as a perpetual sin that must be always apologized for. Because they're racist.

I find it funny that the same people who try to end racism are the ones keeping it alive.

I'm now officially on American soil.

First impressions? You all drive like idiots and the humidity is high. VERY high.

Try Australia. I watched a whole bunch of PSA's from there and 98% were related to car accidents. That must really say something.

As for the humidity, I live in a very dry place and going to Florida for the first time was unpleasant. The air was so thick that we could hardly breathe.
 
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I've got something I want to buy and this guy from the shop is just stuffing me about and not coming back with confirmation.

Really annoys me. I try to support local business first. He either wants the sale or he doesn't. I'm going to try and cut straight to the supplier very soon if he doesn't have an answer.
 
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I knew pain, I enjoyed suffering,
I welcomed the abuse,
and I called it love.
I knew to be selfish, I mastered deception,
I coveted the dirt and drowned in filth,
and I called it love.
I gave up my dreams, worshipped desire,
my body was no longer mine,
and I called it love.

I always knew what love was,
Until I learned what love was not.

Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you.
 
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Australia is a must for me. The people over there have life all figured out - I'm finding the American folk here a bit uptight. I've bantered with a few of the locals, and they don't understand that I'm just being friendly.

I'm enjoying it so far though. I'm not enjoying the Seven 11 prices though. I bought a can of drink first thing this morning, and the guy behind the counter said "3:50 please" - I was like, er, is that the time?!
 
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Australia is a must for me. The people over there have life all figured out

I love Aussies too, so easygoing people!

I've thought about moving to some other country some time in the future, and Australia is pretty much on the top of my list. The only thing they'd have to do to get me in the plane right now would be to remove their huge spiders from the landscape....
 
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Nah, I love arachnids. It's partly why I have a scorpion tattoo on my right arm. They're solitary and misunderstood, like me.
 
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Nah, I love arachnids. It's partly why I have a scorpion tattoo on my right arm. They're solitary and misunderstood, like me.

Maybe I should start some "Learn to see big spiders as your friends" - therapy and I'd be free to move.

Have you been to Australia? If you have, how it was like?
 
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Maybe I should start some "Learn to see big spiders as your friends" - therapy and I'd be free to move.

Have you been to Australia? If you have, how it was like?

Joking aside, education is the best way to conquer an irrational fear. I used to be so overcome with anxiety that I wouldn't leave my house, and now I'm travelling the world and meeting new people all the time. Spiders are cool, start with that.

No, never been. But it's up there in my top 5 places to visit. I had family who lived out there for a few years in the early 90's, but they missed us too much to stay there for long.

Japan, China, the Caribbean, Australia, Germany (for Octoberfest) - in that order.
 
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I don't have an irrational spider-phobia, I was more or less kidding. But the truth is that I'm used to spiders that are at max. size of a finger nail. This far north all bugs and reptiles are very small.

My fave places to visit would be some place in Asia, North America (USA/Canada - zone) and Australia. But to stay longer, in Asia I would need to learn some local language so I'm basically limited to places where I could use English. (Newsflash: Finnish is pretty useless language in travelling...)

I'm pretty much done doing tourist visits to other countries, if I go abroad, I would like to stay for at least couple of months, possibly permanently, work there etc.
 
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Oh for sure. I'm looking to learn Japanese this year, so that I can go out there and converse properly with the locals. I found when I went to Amsterdam in May, I was quite restricted to what I could say. (Hey, that rhymed! I'm getting good at this.)

Even though English is the language of commerce, it's still respectful to the locals to speak their language. Us Brits have the tendency to be a bit lazy like that.

If I was going to live and work somewhere, it would be NZ. Pretty much the only thing I know is dairy farming.
 
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I see this happening in the world so much. It's heartbreaking.
 
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I've basically given up with the idea of learning more languages anymore myself. It's taken me 10+ years to get my English to the level where I can have an actual conversation with it, and I still feel like I'm handicapped while using it. Like f.e. I can write poetic stuff in my own language, but I can't even dream of writing a poem in English, at least not one that would be anything but a tragicomical because of the hopeless grammar, lol.

I don't think I'm up for going through the same pains of learning another language third time. Some people have talent for learning languages fast, and good for them, but I've come to accept I'm not one of them...

And you are right, if you want to connect with people, speaking their language is the best way.
 
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I see this happening in the world so much. It's heartbreaking.

Yes. It is a sad way to live. Desperately chasing the next rush of pleasure, just to barely survive every day.

It can feel like trying to empty a bathtub with a teaspoon....lol...... while the water is running.
 
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Yes. It is a sad way to live. Desperately chasing the next rush of pleasure, just to barely survive every day.

It can feel like trying to empty a bathtub with a teaspoon....lol...... while the water is running.
I'm afraid one of my friends is on the verge of going down that path. Chasing what the world calls "love', but not realizing that the world isn't capable of love.
 
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I'm afraid one of my friends is on the verge of going down that path. Chasing what the world calls "love', but not realizing that the world isn't capable of love.

The problem is, portraying to someone their way of life is hazordous is very difficult, until they are threatened with an idea of desparity.
Humans are so great at creating delusions to justify emptiness. Ignorance is bliss, and all that.
However, in my experience, there is nothing like a dramatic and/or traumatic situation to open someone's eyes. Learning the 'hard way'.

The only thing we can do is find a way to show what true Love is like, and hope it gets past their stubborn pride.
 
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