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I know that people use icons to get a little background on a person making a post. (And I used to think they were fun, but for some reason I currently see them as unnecessary clutter, with the nuisance of trying to categorize me.) Knowing the perspective they come from helps in truly understanding some posts, especially the more serious ones.
However, CF says I'm a legend. If that's true, most CFers don't need icons to know me or where I'm coming from anyway. And newbies (or those who just visit now and then) can just try to read my posts with an open mind until they can establish a personality behind the posts.
I don't need to have a gender icon for people to know I'm female (especially if they have sigs visible). The avatar makes that kind of plain and only tricksy CFers like Noodles can make people confused about gender.The faith icon is nice, but no icon can really explain my faith and religious views (maybe I'm not as complicated as I think I am, but I do know that seeing a UMC icon doesn't truly show people what I all believe faith-wise).
I was having fun with the Sierra Leone flag, but I am in a much colder place in actuality. The flag I'd like to show (despite the people currently running this state) is the Wisconsin flag. I feel more like a Wisconsinite than an American. And I didn't previously have a political icon up because there isn't an option for "they all suck."
I kind of wish I had sigs visible to see what yours says.
I kind of wish I had sigs visible to see what yours says.
It says, "Shelly."
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That's IT?!![]()
Thanks, Sara!![]()
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Yes, that is all.(But I said people should be able to guess my gender through it, since I don't know any guys under 60 who go by Shelly. The only guy I know who does, is over 60 and his full name is Sheldon.)
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Yes, that is all.(But I said people should be able to guess my gender through it, since I don't know any guys under 60 who go by Shelly. The only guy I know who does, is over 60 and his full name is Sheldon.)