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Dark Winter

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I broke up with someone and while I'm over him/the relationship, the reason we broke up, was because I discovered so many lies that he was telling. Mainly hiding the fact that he was seeing women behind my back. Lying about it all. I dated a 'bad guy' prior to him, too. The common denominator is me, in 'choosing' men who have treated me poorly. I've done a lot of work on myself since all of this, but...the lies. I found out more today, after all this time. I had been healing from this, and then, feel set back...from hearing about more lies. Friends who thought I knew. :(

I didn't know. And I just want to say, that if a god exists, may he/it/whatever it is, help me. Help me get past this humiliation that this man put me through.

Anyway, that was a really long post to tell you all what's on my mind right now. lol


I'm sure some have prayed for you after reading your post. I hope today will be a better day of healing for you.

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So I just found out my boyfriend really really likes math...
and at first my mind was reeling.

But now I'm really trying to accept him for who he is and be understanding and support it.
 
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So I just found out my boyfriend really really likes math...
and at first my mind was reeling.

But now I'm really trying to accept him for who he is and be understanding and support it.
I hope this problem doesn't cause a divide... Maybe you can add in sum couples counciling into the equation to hear some advice from a different angle so the issue dosn't multiply.
 
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bluegreysky

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I hope this problem doesn't cause a divide... Maybe you can add in sum couples counciling into the equation to hear some advice from a different angle so the issue dosn't multiply.

Brilliant! very acute logic on your part.
 
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Thank you for the prayers :)

You'll be okay saucy!

have you ever tried other things with ramen.. like stir fry?
You can mix the noodles with veggies and sauce and meat.

you can add butter and garlic and cheese to the noodles.

you can make soups...


:idea: thats all i can think of for now.
 
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Rhamiel

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You'll be okay saucy!

have you ever tried other things with ramen.. like stir fry?
You can mix the noodles with veggies and sauce and meat.

you can add butter and garlic and cheese to the noodles.

you can make soups...


:idea: thats all i can think of for now.

I do that all the time, I love a little butter and curry powder on my ramen
 
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