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Bumble Bee

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I went to bed. I Just couldn't sleep so I spent most of the night lying in bed praying. It ended up being good for me because I need to work on strengthening my prayer life. There are so many areas I need to work on. I think now that I have the big one under control, God is revealing so much more to me. There is always something new to work on to become more like Him
 
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I've thought a lot about how badly I want to be in a relationship and be married, but I'm scared of it at the same time. And how I wouldn't want things to change in my life.

I want to marry my boyfriend, but it wouldn't be smart right now, mostly because he doesn't have a job and I can't afford to support us. But he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with.
 
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I dislike wearing glasses. I've cleaned them three times today and they're smudged again. *sigh*

At least one of your lenses doesn't pop up every two months even though you only wear them from the bathroom to bed and then back to the bathroom.
 
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I want to marry my boyfriend, but it wouldn't be smart right now, mostly because he doesn't have a job and I can't afford to support us. But he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with.

At least you've found that person. I have no one in sight!
 
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At least one of your lenses doesn't pop up every two months even though you only wear them from the bathroom to bed and then back to the bathroom.

Sounds like you need new glasses. Maybe you punch them in your sleep...
 
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Sounds like you need new glasses. Maybe you punch them in your sleep...

Well, I took them last week to get them popped back in and apparently some kind of reside had made it's way into the place were the lens is supposed to fit into. The guy cleaned it out, hopefully that solves the problem.
 
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At least you've found that person. I have no one in site!


^ I'm in the same boat. ...A couple days ago I exclaimed to my mom that I'll probably just wind up being an eccentric, crazy cat lady who travels the world all by herself. Lol. My mother replied with "Good!".......That wasn't the support I was looking for. :ahah:
 
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That girl I was talking about a few days ago who goes to my church...I think her sister has a thing for me. She kept her eyes on me the whole service and it seemed like every time I turned around after service, she was right there and I would catch her eye and she would turn away quickly. It was odd.
 
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Today was awful. I had a throbbing headache, and I couldn't get the thought out of my mind that no woman wants me. No matter how hard I work out I still look way, way, way too thin.

It's really not fair. I'm literally probably easiest the smallest guy at work. Like only 1% of the male population is like me, if it's even that..
 
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One of the tenors in the choir was flirting with my friend and me for the first few weeks. Then he found out we weren't in high school (he's a freshman), so he toned it down, then he panicked because he found out we are both teachers and the youth leaders at the church. It was hilarious! Poor kid...
 
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^ I'm in the same boat. ...A couple days ago I exclaimed to my mom that I'll probably just wind up being an eccentric, crazy cat lady who travels the world all by herself. Lol. My mother replied with "Good!".......That wasn't the support I was looking for. :ahah:

LOL, except I'll be a crazy dog lady. I dislike cats.
 
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Today was awful. I had a throbbing headache, and I couldn't get the thought out of my mind that no woman wants me. No matter how hard I work out I still look way, way, way too thin.

It's really not fair. I'm literally probably easiest the smallest guy at work. Like only 1% of the male population is like me, if it's even that..

King David was a small man, too. So at least physically, you're in good company.
 
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Today was awful. I had a throbbing headache, and I couldn't get the thought out of my mind that no woman wants me. No matter how hard I work out I still look way, way, way too thin.

It's really not fair. I'm literally probably easiest the smallest guy at work. Like only 1% of the male population is like me, if it's even that..


^ Dude. You obviously have an extremely fast metabolism. There's not a whole lot you can do for that, so stop beating yourself up. :-/ Plus, I've seen countless dudes with your body type with girlfriends, and better yet...married.
 
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