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Whats In A Ring?

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My fiance and I said we were "unofficially engaged" even before there was a ring. So I would not say a ring is necessary for engagement or even marriage.

However, I would also say a ring means a whole lot to me... as it is a public symbol of commitment and the promises made. Anyone would be able to see the ring on my left hand and say, "She's taken." Because of this reasoning (and 'cause it's fun ;)), my fiance also has a ring (a silver band w/gold along one of the edges.. so it's not a girly ring, haha).

Plus, I readily admit I am obsessed with jewelry and all things sparkly ;)
 
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Wakeup2god said:
Was just wondering what does a ring (engagement or other) mean to you and your partner.

Like I like to say... "nupping". ;) Veronica, on the other hand, looks at it as a symbol that she is off the market so to speak.
 
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as it is a public symbol of commitment and the promises made. Anyone would be able to see the ring on my left hand and say, "She's taken."



If I could have said it better I would have.
 
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dyanm said:
as it is a public symbol of commitment and the promises made. Anyone would be able to see the ring on my left hand and say, "She's taken."

Thats about it.

The ring thing is just man made tradition. It can get downright materialistic at times.
 
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dyanm said:
as it is a public symbol of commitment and the promises made. Anyone would be able to see the ring on my left hand and say, "She's taken."



If I could have said it better I would have.


Have to agree... that's all it means.
 
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MsSnow said:
Its a gift that shows you how much your partner loves you

That's materialist if I've ever heard of materialism. Since when is buying your partner some ring demonstrative of a love? Love is an action, not a thing.
 
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well in a day where there isn't a clear sign of being tied to someone on the outside, i think the ring represents the dedication of the two involved in the commitment. the ring symbolize the choice to bind together in vows for life. pretty powerful statement there. taken too lightly by many!
there is no need for a ring. but i like the meaning of it. heck, it could be a piece of string and it would mean the same thing to me.

my SO and i plan on exchanging rings at our engagement so it's not just me that has one...
 
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