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what's a BAD date?

eatenbylocusts

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Didnt mean any disrespect.:hug: Just playing around sometimes. So are you heading in right direction?
No disrepect taken, just being honest. I just hope the desire is in line with God's will. I just don't see how God could want my kids growing up without a Godly man in their lives. They've been through enough.

And I have no idea if this "friend" I'm seeing will turn out to be the one. All I know now is that he definitely wants to be married, and stay married. He doesn't call enough, hasn't asked if I'm still dating T who he met at dance class, hasn't tried to kiss me or even discussed boundaries or a plan, etc. I'm the one who asked about his marriage plans. So, who knows? I wish he would take a little initiative.
 
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:prayer: Ok, not really in a hurry to be married, but to know I'm heading that way with the right person, I am so ready.

yeah. . . the reason for a first or second date. . . to get to KNOW the other person and see if it's worth getting ON THE WAY. . . . ^_^ ^_^ . . . or step away from the road map
 
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Oh, I took a girl I REALLY liked out to a restaurant for the first time and she did not hesitate to pick her nose and lick her fork at the table. I changed my tune quick!

Ahem, manners anyone???
The nose thing is never cute, but the fork thing... that could've been cute if she was saying, "Oh, this is delicious!" Couldn't it?
 
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The nose thing is never cute, but the fork thing... that could've been cute if she was saying, "Oh, this is delicious!" Couldn't it?

Well, honestly the nose thing was the PONR (Point of No Return) and that happened early on.

I suppose the fork thing could have been cute if I hadn't been already turned off but this restaurant was a particularly nice "dress up" sort of place. I suppose it is somewhat funny. My parents were hardcore manners folks (somewhat overboard) and they would have had their way with me if I had ever done that with them when we were out.
 
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ahhhhhhhh. . . .so you're really looking for a gal just like the gal who married dear old dad (sing it for us, Gimpy!).

That makes sense then why the fork thing bothered you - especially following the nose thing! omigosh! PLEASE tell me she at least used a tissue or napkin!
 
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ahhhhhhhh. . . .so you're really looking for a gal just like the gal who married dear old dad (sing it for us, Gimpy!).

That makes sense then why the fork thing bothered you - especially following the nose thing! omigosh! PLEASE tell me she at least used a tissue or napkin!

I don't know. I was too busy looking around the restaurant to see if anyone was watching. That had to have been obvious... LOL!
 
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ahhhhhhhh. . . .so you're really looking for a gal just like the gal who married dear old dad (sing it for us, Gimpy!).

That makes sense then why the fork thing bothered you - especially following the nose thing! omigosh! PLEASE tell me she at least used a tissue or napkin!
Singin :D
I wanna gal just like the gal that married dear old Dad
Now she was a pal, and the only gal that Daddy ever had
A sweet old fashioned gal with eyes so blue
One that loves nobody else but you
Yessir, I need a gal just like the gal that married dear old Dad


I really dont, If you new my mom like I new my mom.:eek: I do honor her though.
 
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How do you know it either IS or WAS a bad date?

not really looking for specific horror stories (altho that might be a fun thread. . . :p ). . . (and no, I'm not looking for over-ripe fruit^_^*giggle*^_^ )
Anything that ends at the hospital, morgue, or police station usually qualifies as a "bad date." ;)
 
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Anything that ends at the hospital, morgue, or police station usually qualifies as a "bad date." ;)



ya THINK????


. . . . . see. . . . I would put those in the catagory of really GOOD dates. . . . ^_^ ^_^
 
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