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Whether or not you entertain the idea of or participate in gay sex is a choice..They will either be heterosexual or homosexual regardless of who they do or do not see, it is not a choice in most circumstances.
hsmommyofmany said:I DONT KNOW WHAT I DID!!
hsmommyofmany said:anyway...LIFESTYLE..is the way you live your life.
hsmommyofmany said:a homosexual lifestyle would be having homosexual relations (obviously) or going to gay bars and looking at gay magazines etc. or for heterosexuals it would be the same
JustMeSee said:I try to shelter my children from gays and lesbians so they don't choose to follow that lifestyle.
I am on the opposite end of the spectrum as I am not remotely prudish and am probably much more sexually open than most people on here. I would have no problem with people having sex in my home and would not have a problem discussing any form of sex with them either, I could even see myself talking positions and techniques with pretty much anyone anytime and in fact often do.You appear to be quite prudish in regard to sex, Angellica. And, believe it or not, to a point, so am I. I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with a certain amount of prudishness but to be overly so can cloud our judgment on issues such as this one tremendously.
I don't disagree with you on your view/stand to no sexual activity -whether 'gay' or 'straight' - in your home because that is your right. I probably wouldn't allow it either because, as I say, I'm rather prudish. I've had to learn - and accept - that others feel differently than I do.
So the heterosexual lifestyle would be having straight sex and not thinking it is sinful, got it. A lot of people do not believe in the concept of sin just because you do.To me, the "gay lifestyle" is being gay and thinking that it is not sinful, regardless of whether there is sex involved.
I would suspect they already know that I believe that homosexual sex is sinful. I would also suspect that any child of mine would know I don't believe sexual orientation exists.
So you would prefer that any son or daughter suppress their true feelings rather than be who they truly are and then deal with all that comes with that suppression, such as depression and possibly suicide.No, the homosexual wants to openly date people of the same sex.
I just cannot grasp how anyone can say things like this and think it is ok. I mean seriously do people really think these things, sometimes I feel like it is a reality show or an alternate universe.I DONT KNOW WHAT I DID!!
anyway...LIFESTYLE..is the way you live your life. a homosexual lifestyle would be having homosexual relations (obviously) or going to gay bars and looking at gay magazines etc. or for heterosexuals it would be the same (having sex, looking at porn, etc) they are both wrong. i do not think anyone should have sex outside of marriage.
i think that if someone has homosexual feelings they should control their impulses just like the teenage male who fantasizes about girls. if a homosexual person is celebate and refrains from the homosexual lifestyle then i think thats ok. i think it is the lifestyle...the ACTS...that are the sin.
also people need to remember that there is a difference between living a lifestyle of sin and commiting A sin...a single act. a sinful lifestyle is like slapping God in the face because the person does it continually. i think they should be treated differently.
LikewiseI am on the opposite end of the spectrum as I am not remotely prudish and am probably much more sexually open than most people on here
LikewiseI would have no problem with people having sex in my home
See aboveand would not have a problem discussing any form of sex with them either
Being in the relationship I am in (in that my wife trusts in my monogamy), I could "see" myself taking many positions and using many techniques with pretty much anyone.I could even see myself talking positions and techniques with pretty much anyone anytime and in fact often do.
So performing an act of love with someone that you feel that same love for is wrong, that is not logical reasoning. No wonder there are so many gay teens from Christian families that commit suicide.Whether or not you entertain the idea of or participate in gay sex is a choice..
Being gay is a sinful lifestyle...
Actually, this is completely correct.Whether or not you entertain the idea of or participate in gay sex is a choice..
To me, the "gay lifestyle" is being gay and thinking that it is not sinful, regardless of whether there is sex involved.
She already said itOkay, so...just picture this scenario. A man (or woman, doesn't really matter) is gay. (S)he's single, doesn't believe in being promiscuous, lives by him/herself. The average day in that person's life looks something like this:
Wake up
Shower
Breakfast
Go to work
Get shopping on way back from work
Eat dinner
Watch some television
Maybe socialise with friends
Go to bed
What is it about that lifestyle that you consider to be sinful?
David.
I don't like seeing a lot of negative posts, so I wanted a positive one in there too. *grin*
Okay, so...just picture this scenario. A man (or woman, doesn't really matter) is gay. (S)he's single, doesn't believe in being promiscuous, lives by him/herself. The average day in that person's life looks something like this:
Wake up
Shower
Breakfast
Go to work
Get shopping on way back from work
Eat dinner
Watch some television
Maybe socialise with friends
Go to bed
What is it about that lifestyle that you consider to be sinful?
I'd ask them if they want help (whatever that might be) to overcome this and if so, great. If not, they do not live under my roof. Basically, the same thing I'd do if they told me they were an alcoholic or a drug addict. Sorry if that is rude to you, but it's the truth.
I am really apprehensive over the possible answers to this question.Would you really kick out, say, a 13- or 14-year-old child?
I try to shelter my children from gays and lesbians so they don't choose to follow that lifestyle.
Whether or not you entertain the idea of or participate in gay sex is a choice..
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