Gadarene
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False, besides, a "fantasy" is not necessarily something you want to happen in real life: Here's What Women Fantasize About The Most
Sorry, it’s ‘only’ 30% according to this one paper, my bad lol
"a lot"? Gravitas? I think VERY VERY few women/people do that.
Try challenging the party line on gender a bit more, for example. Look at the emotive language when women demand something to solve some women’s issue, or as a response to some bit of ‘misogynist’ language, then look at how they respond to men asking for the same sort of thing.
Again, I’ve no idea why you think the inclusion of a colloquial qualifier is an attempt to add gravitas.
You know that women used to behave that way too. And then people started to realize the scope of the problem and thought hey, maybe this doesn't work and maybe we need to change as a society.
Which way? It’s damseling. That isn’t new behaviour, that’s patriarchal behaviour. It’s the same old same old. ‘My Honour has been besmirched! Why aren’t you men helping me? You’re bad for not helping me!” Look at how even supposedly gender egalitarian women talk to men, in ways that they do not talk to other women. It’s the same problem being spun as a solution.
I'm not sure if it's you but in one thread, I hear people trotting out that men more often commit suicide than women. But here it seems that you are advocating that the way men cope with their problems is more adventageous?
I was referring there to minor issues, like mean tweets, or whatever is ‘problematic’ du jour. Obviously suicidal ideation is, or pertains to, something that’s actually serious.
Take the mean tweets issue. Notable (usually liberal) woman gets mean tweets, all hell breaks loose, The Internet Is A Hostile Place For Women, ban people for wrongthink, etc. Men - who are more likely than women to receive actual threats online, incidentally - they get crappy tweets and....nothing. No similar hand-wringing, no suggestion The Internet Is A Hostile Place For Men.
And this is good. A bit more resilience would do these women some good. Again, no-one has to go full male-stoic, that’s not healthy, but it does encourage me than men are not going around getting triggered over trivialities to the extent that it seems women are. But then people will hardly fail to notice that men are coping far better with a ‘problem’ than women are, and yet we’re being constantly told the genders are equal. I don’t get why men are expected to care about - say - mean tweets, when few care when it happens to us. Women on the whole certainly don’t.
So I would point out I was talking about myself and not generalizing for all men. I was speaking, for myself, more of the nature of the trauma causing event; not the response to trauma that a given gender may have.
Gosh, it’s almost as if which subset of a group affected by an issue we choose to use as our basis for setting out trigger warnings is completely arbitrary, as i’ve been saying all along.....
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