What to do??

[djdavey]

Hello so got this bit of an issue,

my family & friends keeps on banging on at me to join a dating website, I did join a few Christian ones a while back did not get much joy from them tbh.

My older sister said I should join a big dating website so I was looking around there tonight like a free trial thing and then I saw her.

Bit of a long story but this Girl I saw on the site use to work with me a few years ago but left to go to Uni in the next city.

When I was working with her I guess I was a bit slow on the uptake or just daft but she would kind of be extra nice to me and a friend of mine and myself use to make music cds for the stockroom in work and when I was working with this girl if I said "Oh I'll put so and so's CD on" she would say "No I want to listen to your CD" and always insist and me playing the CD I made.

I just thought she was being nice but people had said maybe she had a soft spot for me and I did not notice.

Anyway tonight I see her profile on this big dating website and it seems we have loads in common too,

However I don't know if I should add my photo to this website and see if she starts chatting or give her a "wink" as it says on the site or is this just my friends reading to much into this and now filling my head with it too

So I'm not sure what to do now lol any advice?

 

[NaturallyGone]

Hello so got this bit of an issue,

my family & friends keeps on banging on at me to join a dating website, I did join a few Christian ones a while back did not get much joy from them tbh.

My older sister said I should join a big dating website so I was looking around there tonight like a free trial thing and then I saw her.

Bit of a long story but this Girl I saw on the site use to work with me a few years ago but left to go to Uni in the next city.

When I was working with her I guess I was a bit slow on the uptake or just daft but she would kind of be extra nice to me and a friend of mine and myself use to make music cds for the stockroom in work and when I was working with this girl if I said "Oh I'll put so and so's CD on" she would say "No I want to listen to your CD" and always insist and me playing the CD I made.

I just thought she was being nice but people had said maybe she had a soft spot for me and I did not notice.

Anyway tonight I see her profile on this big dating website and it seems we have loads in common too,

However I don't know if I should add my photo to this website and see if she starts chatting or give her a "wink" as it says on the site or is this just my friends reading to much into this and now filling my head with it too

So I'm not sure what to do now lol any advice?

I suggest give it a shot. Maybe you had something going on back when you first knew her that God had planned that prevented you from being in a relationship with her that now is gone. I'd say go for it, and good luck

 

[mahlalie]

Can'y hurt to try, right?

 

[djdavey]

lol aww well kind of back fired, sent her a wink and she removed me as a friend lol

 

[mahlalie]

Lol. Well, can't blame a guy for tryin'.