Hey everyone, I posted this in the teens section and was advised to post it here as well so here it is.
I'm having a bit of a problem at the moment. This might seem like yet another "girl help" thread but I could really do with some other opinions on the matter because I havn't really spoken to anyone els about it.
Next year my girlfriend is going off to New Zealand or Australia for a year or two, I still have one more year of college to finish before I can even think of doing anything independant. I really love this girl, and yes I know 18 is young, but she is different to any girl i have met before and to save you all that typical soppy talk i will leave it at that.
What I'm not sure about is what to do after i have finished next year at college. I have a job so i could save up money and head over to meet her and see what happens from them on, or i could go to university, like the rest, and maybe only eventually see her many years down the line.
I'm not sure what we should try and do when she leaves. I would like for us to stay together more than anything in the world but she is one of thoes people who will always say that anything can happen, which doesn't do too much for my confidence, so she seems to want us to spilt until she either gets back or i go to her....
I've been with her for just over a year now and she really is one of thoes life changing people, if anyone could give me their opinions on what you guys think would be a good idea, maybe with some spiritual back up I would be really greatful.
On another note seeing as this is in a more relevant forum. How do i know when my feelings about some one are more than that simple teenage heart throb? I know 18 is young but I feel as though I'm really in love with her. If some one was to ask me if it does feel different when you you love some one compared to when you find them attractive I would say deffinately.
I feel as though I would like to marry her some day (obviously not planning it for a good part of the next decade but still eventually). I'm just not sure weather or not i can trust my feeling or if they are simply the doings of a youthful, easily swayed heart...
Anyway, any help would be great!
Thanks
- Smashed.
I'm having a bit of a problem at the moment. This might seem like yet another "girl help" thread but I could really do with some other opinions on the matter because I havn't really spoken to anyone els about it.
Next year my girlfriend is going off to New Zealand or Australia for a year or two, I still have one more year of college to finish before I can even think of doing anything independant. I really love this girl, and yes I know 18 is young, but she is different to any girl i have met before and to save you all that typical soppy talk i will leave it at that.
What I'm not sure about is what to do after i have finished next year at college. I have a job so i could save up money and head over to meet her and see what happens from them on, or i could go to university, like the rest, and maybe only eventually see her many years down the line.
I'm not sure what we should try and do when she leaves. I would like for us to stay together more than anything in the world but she is one of thoes people who will always say that anything can happen, which doesn't do too much for my confidence, so she seems to want us to spilt until she either gets back or i go to her....
I've been with her for just over a year now and she really is one of thoes life changing people, if anyone could give me their opinions on what you guys think would be a good idea, maybe with some spiritual back up I would be really greatful.
On another note seeing as this is in a more relevant forum. How do i know when my feelings about some one are more than that simple teenage heart throb? I know 18 is young but I feel as though I'm really in love with her. If some one was to ask me if it does feel different when you you love some one compared to when you find them attractive I would say deffinately.
I feel as though I would like to marry her some day (obviously not planning it for a good part of the next decade but still eventually). I'm just not sure weather or not i can trust my feeling or if they are simply the doings of a youthful, easily swayed heart...
Anyway, any help would be great!
Thanks
- Smashed.
