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FlamingFemme

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I think I'm going to get fired upon by some for this, but this is just what I think;
Go for it.
As long as you are not picking up random guys in bars, really look for your happiness, if it really makes you happy. Don't let others make you suffer, its easy for us to say, stay away from it because we don't share your problem.
Forget what they say, don't think twice about what they think of you, for if God really punishes you on day of judgement, I think any genuine human shall pray for you, one who is seeking a pious and correct life style except with a man.
If yet God wants you to burn in hell for seeking love, then he is malevolent, and heaven will not be a place of joy, but rather a place of eternal judgement, prejudice, and arrogance with little difference to hell.

QFT. :thumbsup:
No firing from this direction. ;)

You said this much more eloquently than I could.
 
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Polycarp_fan

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Your situation and your life history is indeed unique. Most of us usually adopt a moral and ethical code after we go through life experiences and education--not before, as your case illustrates.
This will explain why most of the older people on this forum are conservative types, as it is in the general populace.

Since you traded your once-sound moral compass for that of one without good morals and ethics (you call this being or thinking 'liberal') over the last 10 years or so, it's only a matter of time before the devil has his way in your life; you will be back, provided the Spirit of God was with you in the first place.

I am surprised that you have survived the report button.

These lefties think anything that does not submit to their rule is to be silenced.

:groupray: - - - reddddyyyy BREAK! :thumbsup::amen::clap::wave::cool:

Ekklesia, it is time to start praying.
 
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Garyzenuf

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....it's only a matter of time before the devil has his way in your life; you will be back, provided the Spirit of God was with you in the first place.

Once deluded, always deluded? Doesn't work that way HHHR, once someone sees the picture within the picture, it takes constant lying to yourself to not see it anymore. Most can not be this dishonest with themselves.
 
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Robbie_James_Francis

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Just take care of yourself and your mental health. In all seriousness, if that means taking a prescription then by all means take care of yourself.

This debate thing is fun for the most part but real health in the real world is paramount.

Now back to the debate at hand.

Cheers man. :)

BTW, I do not oppose same-sex unions at all. Non Christians can do what they want to. The word "marriage" though is not negotiable. You;ll have to alter that without my help.

But the meaning of 'marriage' has changed throughout time and across cultures. It always has been negotiated.

Palin looks like a better role model for womens rights than any other woman in politics I have ever seen. Strong, effective, self-reliant and attractive and the equal of her husband.

Just like the woman I married.

It's great to have women in politics, and for them to be independent and equal, obviously. I just don't think her politics advances other women's rights, and I think she was chosen largely on the anti-feminist view that most women are so stupid they'll vote for anyone that happens to be of their sex, and she has gone along with this.

I've called many, many, hospitals and hospices and the case is, that anyone can visit a patient that the patient wants to have vidit them. Including care wishes and after death demands.

Make some calls for yourself.

What if the person is in a coma/PVS and their legally recognised relatives don't want you to see them?
 
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