I just want to touch on a point here, I won't be going to any lexicons, I believe God's scriptures are enough. You raised the point of people being made willing to bow to God, yet then you raise the question of why would people be bowing to the Glory of God. Let's take a look into this matter quickly.
Matthew 8:28-34 NIV
28When he arrived at the other side in the region of the Gadarenes,[
d] two demon-possessed men coming from the tombs met him. They were so violent that no one could pass that way. 29"What do you want with us, Son of God?" they shouted. "Have you come here to torture us before the appointed time?" 30Some distance from them a large herd of pigs was feeding. 31The demons begged Jesus, "If you drive us out, send us into the herd of pigs."
32He said to them,
"Go!" So they came out and went into the pigs, and the whole herd rushed down the steep bank into the lake and died in the water. 33Those tending the pigs ran off, went into the town and reported all this, including what had happened to the demon-possessed men. 34Then the whole town went out to meet Jesus. And when they saw him, they pleaded with him to leave their region.
These demons are subject to God's command, yet they do not revere Him, they know who He is, but they have not love for Him. So next the question will be raised of what does the subjugation of demons have to do with man? Surely man and angels are not the same. This is true, yet, unrepentant man shares something in common with the fallen angel...
Matthew 25:41-43 NIV
41"Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.'
So, we see a common factor: there is an eternal fate for those who deny God, to a place prepared for the devil and his angels. What does unrepentant man, and the enemy, that is satan and his ilk, have in common? Simple. Those who are not of Christ are of the devil. Those who reject the message of the cross are in league with he who tempted Eve in the garden, who this entire thread is about quite frankly.
John 8:42-47 NIV
42Jesus said to them,
"If God were your Father, you would love me, for I came from God and now am here. I have not come on my own; but he sent me. 43Why is my language not clear to you? Because you are unable to hear what I say. 44You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies. 45Yet because I tell the truth, you do not believe me! 46Can any of you prove me guilty of sin? If I am telling the truth, why don't you believe me? 47He who belongs to God hears what God says. The reason you do not hear is that you do not belong to God."
People who were around Christ when He walked this Earth the first time were not responding to the plain truth. They denied miracles performed in front of them, decrying that the Lord was not in fact God, but was possessed, so they denied Christ. So why is it so far beyond your understanding to see that even in the time of being in His direct presence, seeing His works with their own eyes, yet still denying Him, that it would be impossible for someone to deny Him now?
So much talk of different definitions, or possible other meanings. How a translator "unfortunately made the decision to include such a definition". Tell me something. Could it not be attributed to a translation error, but rather, a common underlying theme? In Isaiah there is mention of everlasting burning. In Matthew there is speak by Christ of being thrown into hell, yet you decry it as a pagan translation and word and concept... it doesn't sound to me like someone is discovering truth, but rather digging for as many excuses as they can to deny it. Could just be what I see though. Yet, we see the theme of everlasting fire, eternal torment, the smoke of their torment rising up forever and ever, in multiple places. Rather consistent. Rather than a continual translation error, I believe it to be an underlying concept, a warning to the unfaithful. If you deny Christ, you will not be spared your punishment.
Jude 1:7 NIV
7In a similar way, Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion. They serve as an example of those who suffer the punishment of eternal fire.
And before you start railing on me about how Christ is the savior of all men, yes, He is indeed the savior for all the world, but not all the world will accept Him. It's what makes it so very tragic really. They have the option to accept God's grace and be spared that fate. The Heavens rejoice when a sinner repents, this is indeed true. But the Lord will not force someone to come onto Him in grace, and just because we will be subject to His glory does not mean all will be saved. The angels see God in all His splendor, they are objects of His glory. Yet, even then, the devil fell, even then a third of the angels were cast down for their rebellion. So subjection to the glory of God does not save: nay, it is grace that comes from faith. And if one does not have faith, they will not be saved. Surely you are familiar with gehenna. The garbage dump outside of Jerusalem. Was gehenna used to purify anything? If you send something to an incinerator, do you expect it to return in a purified state, or as ashes? I'm not advocating anihilationism here. If it says everlasting, it means everlasting. But that's the principle you're suggesting. That refuse sent away to a garbage heap will return purified like silver in a forge, yet it does not work that way nor did it ever.
If you send garbage to a dump for a week, and then return to take it back, it is not cleaner, it is filthier, taking on the stench and uncleanliness of that around it. It's detestability has increased because of this. So why then do you claim that those turned away from the Lord to the lake of fire will be returned as gold purified in a forge, if it is then presented as a burning garbage dump?